Vow Writing Service

Vow Writing Service Your thoughts. My words. Our Secret. Vows written by Experienced marriage celebrant and wordsmith. Words matter.

The right words can convey what we feel, what we hope, what we dream. As a marriage celebrant who has worked with well over 2000 people to make sure that the vows they make, the words they use to express their commitment, their promises, say what their hearts feel, creating personal vows is my joy and my jam.

31/10/2025

“I Do” is a solemn commitment. Two magic words that we all understand.

But it isn’t a vow. Nor, in Australia, does it create a legally binding marriage.

“I Do’” comes from the heart.

Personal vows come from the heart and the mind. They are the details of your commitment.

So worth the effort!

The Sand Ceremony, done with a modern approach, offers multiple ways to integrate your vows with the ritual, adding extr...
24/10/2025

The Sand Ceremony, done with a modern approach, offers multiple ways to integrate your vows with the ritual, adding extra depth to both.

To order check out my books page https://www.jennifercram.com.au/books.html

Printable pdf delivered by email.

Saying your vows and then exchanging rings might be traditional but is not set in stone!There are alternative ways!✔️ Ex...
22/10/2025

Saying your vows and then exchanging rings might be traditional but is not set in stone!

There are alternative ways!

✔️ Exchange your rings before you say your vows, so that you are making your promises over the rings that will symbolise your commitment for the rest of your lives. There is precedent for this. It was the way it was done way back in mediaeval times.

✔️ Exchange rings while you are saying your vows. Either with or without special words.

✔️Mix it up. Vows, Unity Ritual, Rings. OR Rings, Unity Ritual, Vows.



Getting pronouns right is important. But so is making your wedding ceremony as gender-neutral as possible. Which means u...
27/09/2025

Getting pronouns right is important. But so is making your wedding ceremony as gender-neutral as possible.

Which means using names instead of possessive determiners!

FACT: His, her, and their, when used as labels on your vows are not pronouns! Pronouns stand alone. Possessive determiners introduce a noun. In this case, indicating whose vows these are. Except that without naming the person, we can’t be sure whose vows these are!

This isn’t just about grammar. It’s about acknowledgement.

The Legal Vows aren’t Vows. They’re  a contractual statement that officially creates your marriage, and therefore, they ...
10/09/2025

The Legal Vows aren’t Vows. They’re a contractual statement that officially creates your marriage, and therefore, they must be said out loud by both of the marrying couple.

But here’s the thing, the legal vows contain three words that say it all. Leaving no doubt that you are uniting your lives, albeit without any poetic flair. ⁠

https://www.jennifercram.com.au/BLOG/3_words_legal_vows.htm⁠

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YOUR VOWS. the moment in a ceremony where time stands still and the guests hold their breath and pay attention. Respect ...
06/08/2025

YOUR VOWS.

the moment in a ceremony where time stands still and the guests hold their breath and pay attention. Respect that


Heads up! Most advice about how to write your own vows is basically a formula. A recipe for building vows but adding thi...
23/07/2025

Heads up! Most advice about how to write your own vows is basically a formula. A recipe for building vows but adding this to that in this order.

But come at it from another way and you’ll have a much more nuanced understanding.

So I present to you “How to write vows that suck!”

The Vows Magician
https://jennifercram.com.au/vow_writing_service.html

Vows are commitments we make to ourselves and to our partner, promising to uphold certain values and principles througho...
03/07/2025

Vows are commitments we make to ourselves and to our partner, promising to uphold certain values and principles throughout our lives.



In the Language of Flowers pink roses symbolise promise and new beginnings. As do your vows.
24/06/2025

In the Language of Flowers pink roses symbolise promise and new beginnings.

As do your vows.

When I work with you to write your vows I start with a blank page. Nothing prewritten or pre-formatted. And then we expl...
29/05/2025

When I work with you to write your vows I start with a blank page. Nothing prewritten or pre-formatted. And then we explore, together, the depth of your feelings and work on choosing the words and phrases that will best express them.

The Vows Magician also writes complete ceremony scripts!
20/05/2025

The Vows Magician also writes complete ceremony scripts!

are the promises that both reveal and determine the kind of marriage you hope for. UniqueVows
02/05/2025

are the promises that both reveal and determine the kind of marriage you hope for.

UniqueVows



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