Vow Writing Service

Vow Writing Service Your thoughts. My words. Our Secret. Vows written by Experienced marriage celebrant and wordsmith. Words matter.

The right words can convey what we feel, what we hope, what we dream. As a marriage celebrant who has worked with well over 2000 people to make sure that the vows they make, the words they use to express their commitment, their promises, say what their hearts feel, creating personal vows is my joy and my jam.

Your vows are the oars that will keep you rowing in the same direction throughout your marriage. But only if you use the...
06/12/2025

Your vows are the oars that will keep you rowing in the same direction throughout your marriage.

But only if you use them as intended!



When the Vows Magician writes your vows it starts with listening to who you are and what you want to promise.
06/12/2025

When the Vows Magician writes your vows it starts with listening to who you are and what you want to promise.

“Vows are the oars that will keep you rowing in the same direction through your marriage”They are a tool for focussing y...
03/12/2025

“Vows are the oars that will keep you rowing in the same direction through your marriage”

They are a tool for focussing your minds and what is important to keep your relationship strong. And a memory aid. So they deserve some thought and some effort!

27/11/2025

“I Do” is a solemn commitment. Two magic words that we all understand.

But it isn’t a vow. Nor, in Australia, does it create a legally binding marriage.

“I Do’” comes from the heart.

Personal vows come from the heart and the mind. They are the details of your commitment.

So worth the effort!

Personal vows allow you to share feelings as well as promises.        #
06/11/2025

Personal vows allow you to share feelings as well as promises.

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Your personal vows can be shared in private, if you wish. Take the opportunity to read the text as your partner speaks t...
05/11/2025

Your personal vows can be shared in private, if you wish.

Take the opportunity to read the text as your partner speaks their vows. This reinforces your memory of the moment and the promises.

And if you share them during your First Look, before the ceremony, you will not only go into the ceremony fully aware of what each of you is committing to in your marriage, you’ll have some great photos.

A vow is a seed planted in the garden of dedication. It must be nurtured and cared for.
01/11/2025

A vow is a seed planted in the garden of dedication.

It must be nurtured and cared for.

VOWS. Like a tattoo on your heart.
01/11/2025

VOWS. Like a tattoo on your heart.

The Sand Ceremony, done with a modern approach, offers multiple ways to integrate your vows with the ritual, adding extr...
24/10/2025

The Sand Ceremony, done with a modern approach, offers multiple ways to integrate your vows with the ritual, adding extra depth to both.

To order check out my books page https://www.jennifercram.com.au/books.html

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Saying your vows and then exchanging rings might be traditional but is not set in stone!There are alternative ways!✔️ Ex...
22/10/2025

Saying your vows and then exchanging rings might be traditional but is not set in stone!

There are alternative ways!

✔️ Exchange your rings before you say your vows, so that you are making your promises over the rings that will symbolise your commitment for the rest of your lives. There is precedent for this. It was the way it was done way back in mediaeval times.

✔️ Exchange rings while you are saying your vows. Either with or without special words.

✔️Mix it up. Vows, Unity Ritual, Rings. OR Rings, Unity Ritual, Vows.



Getting pronouns right is important. But so is making your wedding ceremony as gender-neutral as possible. Which means u...
27/09/2025

Getting pronouns right is important. But so is making your wedding ceremony as gender-neutral as possible.

Which means using names instead of possessive determiners!

FACT: His, her, and their, when used as labels on your vows are not pronouns! Pronouns stand alone. Possessive determiners introduce a noun. In this case, indicating whose vows these are. Except that without naming the person, we can’t be sure whose vows these are!

This isn’t just about grammar. It’s about acknowledgement.

The Legal Vows aren’t Vows. They’re  a contractual statement that officially creates your marriage, and therefore, they ...
10/09/2025

The Legal Vows aren’t Vows. They’re a contractual statement that officially creates your marriage, and therefore, they must be said out loud by both of the marrying couple.

But here’s the thing, the legal vows contain three words that say it all. Leaving no doubt that you are uniting your lives, albeit without any poetic flair. ⁠

https://www.jennifercram.com.au/BLOG/3_words_legal_vows.htm⁠

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