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When I started my search, I made a few mistakes on the wayMy advice for anyone else looking...๐Ÿ’— Research wedding outfits...
24/02/2022

When I started my search, I made a few mistakes on the way

My advice for anyone else looking...

๐Ÿ’— Research wedding outfits (not just dresses) before you head off to the shops

๐Ÿ’— Get someone to take a photo if you in EVERY OUTFIT, whether you like it or not

๐Ÿ’— Look at these photos in the comfort of your home before deciding

With all the options, shopping can sometimes feel overwhelming

But follow this advice and keep it fun and memorable!

Read more about my mistakes and advice in my latest blog

Happy shopping!

We did it, all for $500 โœจWe invited about 60 of our friends who had been part of our 8-year journey. We spent the whole ...
10/02/2022

We did it, all for $500 โœจ

We invited about 60 of our friends who had been part of our 8-year journey.

We spent the whole day (and night) catching up, doing speeches, dancing and making beautiful memories ๐Ÿฅฐ

๐Ÿ‘€ Read more about how we made it meaningful and set this budget in the latest blog on my website

For anyone new around here...Hi, I'm Carolina ๐Ÿ‘‹ I'm a planner by nature living a mindful life with my best friend/ hubby...
13/01/2022

For anyone new around here...

Hi, I'm Carolina ๐Ÿ‘‹ I'm a planner by nature living a mindful life with my best friend/ hubby. My close friends would describe me as thoughtful, caring & fun ๐Ÿฅฐ

I married my partner of 10 years back in 2020... in March... on the 7th (yep, just in the tick of time before the start of the oh so famous Melbourne lockdown ๐Ÿคฏ)

Our wedding day was an incredible end to a roller-coaster journey. First words that come to mind to describe our day are present, emotional and "just so us" โœจ

Now I share my journey with you all to help you cover all the wedding planning essentials so that you too can feel empowered on your own wedding planning journey ๐Ÿ™Œ

You can either reach out to me for a chat, read my online blog filled with practical advice or check out my digital wedding planner & guides

Thank YOU for being here, so glad you here ๐Ÿฅฐ

PS - This selfie was taken last year on my first ever solo retreat. It brings back so many feelings, in particularly empowerment, self love and my powerful inner strength to keep living this beautiful life truly aligned to my values โค๏ธ
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CONGRATS LOVERS ๐Ÿ’In the excitement of it all, be sure not to make any promises right now.Promises to loved ones about๐Ÿ’ w...
12/01/2022

CONGRATS LOVERS ๐Ÿ’

In the excitement of it all, be sure not to make any promises right now.

Promises to loved ones about
๐Ÿ’ where you will be getting married
๐Ÿ’ what month you have picked
๐Ÿ’ who will be in your wedding squad ๐Ÿ‘ˆ (defs an awkward promise to break down the track)

As you start planning your big day, you may change your mind.

So save yourself from the awkwardness & drama & leave all the promises for your vows ๐Ÿ˜

Discover more advice on our blog

Share with a newly-engaged friend ๐Ÿ’
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STOP HITTING THE SNOOZE โฐ๐Ÿคฏ If wedding planning is bringing you stress,๐Ÿคฏ If you are overthinking every little detail,๐Ÿคฏ If...
16/12/2021

STOP HITTING THE SNOOZE โฐ

๐Ÿคฏ If wedding planning is bringing you stress,

๐Ÿคฏ If you are overthinking every little detail,

๐Ÿคฏ If you are getting stuck in your head,

I recommend to stop & remember

๐Ÿ‘‰ You are a machine

๐Ÿ‘‰ You are planning something you have never done before

๐Ÿ‘‰ You deserve so much grace & compassion

But now what?

โœจ Remember the bigger picture (this is just one day)

โœจ Delegate low-priority tasks

โœจ Talk openly to your fiance, friends and family

BOOK A CHAT WITH ME ๐Ÿ˜

Head to my website to book your free call with me

It will be exactly what you need right now ๐Ÿ’ž

Check out my website for more details

๐Ÿ‘‡ Comment below any of your tips on making wedding planning fun again
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Thought you were done hey...The main part is definitely over, and you can do a celebration dance now ๐ŸฅณBut here are some ...
28/11/2021

Thought you were done hey...

The main part is definitely over, and you can do a celebration dance now ๐Ÿฅณ

But here are some things you must not forget

โœ”๏ธ Drop off any wedding items
โœ”๏ธ Open wedding gifts
โœ”๏ธ Dry clean wedding outfits
โœ”๏ธ Send thank yous to guests
โœ”๏ธ Post vendor reviews
โœ”๏ธ Collect wedding photos & videos
โœ”๏ธ If desired, start the process for name change
Sprinkled with my loving advice throughout, with lessons learnt and planning experience you never would have thought.

Bit lost? All this is captured in our wedding planner guide โœจ

Download your copy (link in bio) ๐Ÿ’Œ

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Congrats lovers ๐Ÿ’žYou bloody did it ๐Ÿ‘Be proudBe presentBe you today!Sending sooo much love and excitement on your big day...
26/11/2021

Congrats lovers ๐Ÿ’ž

You bloody did it ๐Ÿ‘

Be proud

Be present

Be you today!

Sending sooo much love and excitement on your big day, the start of your married life together โค๏ธ

Family & Friends,

Share this message with any bride/ groom on their special day โœจ

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SHARE WITH A BRIDE/GROOM TO BE โค๏ธThis advice is game changing!From me, my last night as a bride included๐ŸŽฌ Watching My Be...
25/11/2021

SHARE WITH A BRIDE/GROOM TO BE โค๏ธ

This advice is game changing!

From me, my last night as a bride included

๐ŸŽฌ Watching My Best Friend's Wedding

๐Ÿ’… Having an at-home pedicure

๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘ง Spending quality time with just mum

I mean...

My nerves were on an all-time high

My tummy butterflies were alive and buzzing

My excitement had my imagination going crazy!

MY
GAME
CHANGING
ADVICE...

โœจ Whatever you do, do it mindfully โœจ

Whether it's together or separately.

Find your own mindful moment.

Pause and reflect on your journey with gratitude.

This will help ground you before the big day โค

PS I'd love to know, what's your all time fav rom-com? Let me know in the comments below ๐Ÿ‘‡

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What's a wedding motto? ๐Ÿค”A wish you both put together at the start of wedding planning to help ground you throughout โœจTh...
21/11/2021

What's a wedding motto? ๐Ÿค”

A wish you both put together at the start of wedding planning to help ground you throughout โœจ

This is very unique to our wedding planner โค

And I just had to share it with how much it supported my mindset throughout ๐Ÿฅฐ

Our wedding motto was "to have fun, celebrating our love, with our family and close friends"

We turned to this a lot...

๐Ÿ‘‰ When things got overwhelming

๐Ÿ‘‰ When it was the week of the wedding

๐Ÿ‘‰ When we were at our reception

Why?

Because words are powerful

Your mindset is powerful

You are both powerful, and in control of your own experience โœจ

So what's your wedding motto?
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It's time lovely...โ˜‘ You have booked trust-worthy vendors,โ˜‘ You have planned all the details,โ˜‘ You have shared all the p...
20/11/2021

It's time lovely...

โ˜‘ You have booked trust-worthy vendors,

โ˜‘ You have planned all the details,

โ˜‘ You have shared all the plans,

Now it is time to give yourself permission.

โค Permission to be present,

โค Permission to be grateful,

โค Permission to surrender control

& Accept what will be, will be.

You have done so well my love, putting everything into place.

Now it's time for you to enjoy this final week, before you start this new chapter together ๐Ÿฅฐ

๐Ÿ“ท Hubby & I, taken at our engagement shoot with the lovely Michaela from
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It's a race to the finish line now ๐Ÿ‘ŸA week before your wedding, things may feel a littleโœจ Excitingโœจ Exhilaratingโœจ Bloody...
18/11/2021

It's a race to the finish line now ๐Ÿ‘Ÿ

A week before your wedding, things may feel a little

โœจ Exciting

โœจ Exhilarating

โœจ Bloody SCARY!

But remember all the planning you have done so far?

It's all for this momentโ€ฆ

Itโ€™s time to hand it all over to your trusty wedding vendors ๐Ÿฅฐ

Handover your plans today!

This is why you hired them

They are the experts here

They are experienced, and they are there to deliver your magical wedding day โœจ

Trust in the process โค๏ธ

PS How amazing are celebrants? How fun is !

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Time to get your wedding squad ready ๐Ÿ‘ฏโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ‘ฏโ€โ™‚๏ธMake sure to share with them, ๐Ÿ‘‰ Your wedding day timeline - so they can org...
14/11/2021

Time to get your wedding squad ready ๐Ÿ‘ฏโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ‘ฏโ€โ™‚๏ธ

Make sure to share with them,

๐Ÿ‘‰ Your wedding day timeline - so they can organise their day accordingly.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Any timings around speeches - so they can add final touches and practice their timing.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Wedding Day outfits, shoes and/or any accessories - so they can try it on, and store it all together.

Once you have done this, leave the rest up to them to sort out ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

Yep, that's Delegating 101 ๐Ÿ™Œ

Well done lovely ๐Ÿ‘

Share this post with your wedding squad to support your mates โœจ

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Have you got yours sorted?These are the known songs for your reception ๐ŸŽท Newlywed entrance๐ŸŽท First dance๐ŸŽท Family dance (i...
11/11/2021

Have you got yours sorted?

These are the known songs for your reception
๐ŸŽท Newlywed entrance
๐ŸŽท First dance
๐ŸŽท Family dance (ie Father Daughter dance)

But have you ever thought of these?
๐ŸŽท Wedding Squad entrance
๐ŸŽท Dancefloor opener
๐ŸŽท Farewell circle (memorable ballads for the win!)

Discover more key wedding song moments in our ultimate all-in-one wedding planner

But first I'd love to know, what's your first dance song?
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GAME CHANGER ๐Ÿ™Œ โœจ One less thing to delegate and move onโœจ  One less thing to bring on the dayโœจ One less thing to worry ab...
06/11/2021

GAME CHANGER ๐Ÿ™Œ

โœจ One less thing to delegate and move on

โœจ One less thing to bring on the day

โœจ One less thing to worry about

Knowing your celebrant has your vows gives the perfect feels โค

Have you sent yours?
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Have you booked your wedding rehearsal yet? ๐Ÿ’I nearly skipped out on mine to avoid the added stress, boy would that have...
05/11/2021

Have you booked your wedding rehearsal yet? ๐Ÿ’

I nearly skipped out on mine to avoid the added stress, boy would that have been a mistake!

Why?

๐Ÿ‘‰ Rehearsals help your wedding squad know WHAT THE HECK they're doing on the day ๐Ÿ˜†

๐Ÿ‘‰ I'm talking delegating the flow...

๐Ÿ‘‰ People knowing their order...

๐Ÿ‘‰ Where to stand/ sit during the ceremony...

๐Ÿ‘‰ What to do for key moments...

This is a HUGE stress relief!

BUT

Now worried about the added budget and stress?

Simplify ๐Ÿ™Œ

๐Ÿ‘‰ Book a date with your celebrant

๐Ÿ‘‰ Invite wedding squad (whoever comes, comes)

๐Ÿ‘‰ Bring the champas ๐Ÿพ

Remember this is YOUR wedding, do it YOUR way ๐Ÿฅฐ

Save this post for your FINAL COUNTDOWN โค๏ธ
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Time to get married lovers ๐ŸŽ‰Inspired by girlfriends of mine who are finally tieing the knot this month (YAY!), this mont...
04/11/2021

Time to get married lovers ๐ŸŽ‰

Inspired by girlfriends of mine who are finally tieing the knot this month (YAY!), this month's content is all about the FINAL COUNTDOWN โฐ

I'll be sharing tips on how to get sh*t done before your big day, things you can't forget, ways to ground yourself and make sure you are super present and bloody excited to marry your soulmate ๐Ÿฅฐ

Hand up ๐Ÿ™Œ who here is getting married in the coming weeks?? Ahhhh what an exciting time it is!!!
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5 fun facts about me ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ1. This past weekend I entered the Dirty 30โ€™s club ๐ŸŽ‰2. My husband & I are soon celebrating our...
24/10/2021

5 fun facts about me ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ

1. This past weekend I entered the Dirty 30โ€™s club ๐ŸŽ‰

2. My husband & I are soon celebrating our 10 years (married for 2) ๐Ÿ‘ซ๐Ÿป

3. My friends would describe me as thoughtful, kind & super organised ๐Ÿ˜†

4. I donโ€™t drink coffee, ever โ˜•๏ธ

5. Earlier this year I turned my wedding planning spreadsheet into a template to share with others ๐Ÿ’

Now your turn to share, whatโ€™s in your cuppa? Coffee โ˜•๏ธ or Tea ๐Ÿซ–
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'Adore' by Amy Shark ๐ŸฅฐMusic is such a powerful way to bring us back to a memory, and your wedding songs will give you th...
15/10/2021

'Adore' by Amy Shark ๐Ÿฅฐ

Music is such a powerful way to bring us back to a memory, and your wedding songs will give you that opportunity to relive those memories, for years to come!

That's why it was so important that I incorporated a Music Playlist template to help you in my Wedding Planner Guide (Link in bio) ๐Ÿ’Œ

Swipe left to see my wedding playlist ๐Ÿ‘‰

Save this post for future inspo!

PS Anyone here a Bruce Springsteen lover? My dad picked our father daughter song which I had never heard before. He absolutely nailed it and there wasn't a dry eye left in the room โค๏ธ
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Hey DJ! Play that song ๐ŸŽคWe can all agree that music can make or break the night, so it's important to ask these 3 questi...
14/10/2021

Hey DJ! Play that song ๐ŸŽค

We can all agree that music can make or break the night, so it's important to ask these 3 questions either prior, or once you have booked your wedding DJ.

๐ŸŽค What music do you play throughout the night (during canapes, meal times, dancefloor)?

๐ŸŽค Do you take song requests on the night from our guests?

๐ŸŽคCan we give you a list of our favorite dancefloor songs?

Save this post for when you book your wedding DJ!

Til then I'd love to know, what's your favorite dancefloor banger at a wedding? Mine are in the comments below ๐Ÿ‘‡

Thinking about shredding for your wedding?Before planning your   any further I want you to ask yourself who are you losi...
09/10/2021

Thinking about shredding for your wedding?

Before planning your any further I want you to ask yourself who are you losing the weight for?

โค๏ธ For yourself - I see that as such a beautiful gesture to build on your

โค๏ธ For your fiancรฉ - Didnโ€™t they just agree to spend the rest of their lives with you, at your current pants size?

โค๏ธ For other people - Let me share a lesson learnt, don't waste another minute thinking about it if it's for them

โค๏ธ For society's pressures of looking the most amazing you have ever looked in your entire whole life for this one day - Please refer to above point.

Your wedding is a celebration to look back on with love and joy, not the weeks of added stress leading up to it. Lead your actions with self love and compassion throughout this wedding planning journey.

Drop a yes in the comment if you agree

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Whether it's a wedding dress, tux or another type of outfit, here are 3 tips on how to stay within your personal budget๐Ÿ’...
08/10/2021

Whether it's a wedding dress, tux or another type of outfit, here are 3 tips on how to stay within your personal budget

๐Ÿ’ Before booking a visit in store to try on some outfits, search online for store that sell within your budget range

๐Ÿ’ Consider buying an off-the-shelf item with minimal adjustments, loads cheaper compared to a custom design

๐Ÿ’ Reach out to a garment maker with your inspiration photos and see if they can stitch you up something uniquely yours in your budget range!

Drop your advice in the comments below, I'd love to know how you stayed within budget when buying your wedding outfit.

You have said YES to the dress/ tux/ outfit... now what? ๐Ÿค”Before you leave, make sure to book in two fittings prior to y...
07/10/2021

You have said YES to the dress/ tux/ outfit... now what? ๐Ÿค”

Before you leave, make sure to book in two fittings prior to your wedding. The store/ garment maker will suggest the best timeframes for you.

When it comes to your fittings, make sure to wear some nice undergarments and bring your wedding shoes, or shoes of similar height so they can tailor accordingly.

Tag a friend who is currently wedding outfit shopping ๐Ÿค—

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Tossing up on whether to have a make up artist on your wedding?! ๐Ÿค”Here's why you should๐Ÿ’„ Make up artists are experts wit...
02/10/2021

Tossing up on whether to have a make up artist on your wedding?! ๐Ÿค”

Here's why you should

๐Ÿ’„ Make up artists are experts with make up application, knowing what products will last long and show up better for you on a professional camera.

๐Ÿ’„ They work amazingly under pressure, it's not their first rodeo.

๐Ÿ’„ It's their one job for the day, you have many more so please where possible delegate so you can be more present on your day.

Every couple has a unique budget and some brides are skilled in makeup artistry, but I highly recommend booking in a professional so you can be pampered the morning of your big day!

Do you agree or disagree?

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Working 9 to 5,  and paying all your wedding vendors upfront!I recommend you take a moment to reconsider. Why?๐Ÿ’ฐ Your mon...
01/10/2021

Working 9 to 5, and paying all your wedding vendors upfront!

I recommend you take a moment to reconsider. Why?

๐Ÿ’ฐ Your money is always better sitting in your account until your expenses are due (possibly paying off a loan interest or showcasing your amazing savings habit to the bank)

๐Ÿ’ฐ Life happens between now and your wedding day, and that extra money could come in handy for any say emergency dental work.

๐Ÿ’ฐ In case of a cancellation or reschedule, you're better off chatting about a deposit amount (versus a full invoice).

Join in on the conversation below, I would love to hear whether you would pay for all your weddings vendors upfront?

Makeup on your wedding day, let's chat...Have you ever heard of a bride say they didn't recognise themselves after getti...
23/09/2021

Makeup on your wedding day, let's chat...

Have you ever heard of a bride say they didn't recognise themselves after getting their make up done on their big day? Let me share a mindful approach to ensure you do not become said bride

๐Ÿ’„Collect inspo photos and decide whether you would like your make up to elevate your natural daily look or transform you for a day

๐Ÿ’„ Research make up artists aligned to your make up style and inspo photos

๐Ÿ’„ When booking a make up artist, make sure to ALSO book a trial a few weeks prior to the wedding day

๐Ÿ’„ BONUS TIP! Book your trial in the morning so you can see how the make up looks throughout the day

Drop a 'yes' below if you agree

Melbourne Weddings are back baby, woohoo ๐Ÿ’—I'm sure the last few months has been an emotional rollercoaster. But with tod...
19/09/2021

Melbourne Weddings are back baby, woohoo ๐Ÿ’—

I'm sure the last few months has been an emotional rollercoaster. But with today's announcement, I ask you to pause for a moment and give yourself permission to take a break from wedding planning this week.

Give your mind, body and heart some time to heal from its constant worried state, so it can get energised and excited for what's ahead (and donโ€™t worry, your wedding vendors will still be there at the end of the week with open arms) ๐Ÿ’ž

I recommend after this week's mini vacay, pick specific times to talk wedding stuff moving forward. Organise a regular time that suits you both to check in and talk all wedding stuff - ideas, decisions, etc. This helps you to feel thereโ€™s more to life than this one big day. Why not have fun with it too, I used to love checking in with hubby on Friday nights before a massive Saturday morning wedding planning session ๐Ÿฅฐ

Now thereโ€™s a light at the end of the tunnel, how are you feeling after today's announcement?

How to save $$$ on wedding flowers ๐Ÿ’Working out a game plan helped us to pick a florist whose work we loved, and whose s...
17/09/2021

How to save $$$ on wedding flowers ๐Ÿ’

Working out a game plan helped us to pick a florist whose work we loved, and whose services were within our budget.

Wedding flowers were not high priority in our wedding budget (or in our minds) so it also helped our budget when we mindfully simplified our brief.

๐Ÿ’ We stuck to a 2 colour palette - Green and white.

๐Ÿ’ We kept our items list short - Bride's bouquet, bridesmaid's bouquet, buttonholes for groomsmen, buttonholes for the men in our immediate families, simple arbour design and table centrepieces.

๐Ÿ’ We kept our table centrepieces simple - We opted for a dozen or so mason jars with some flowers in them.

๐Ÿ’ We reused where possible - After our ceremony our bouquets became the decorations for our gift table, mantel piece and main table.

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I'd love to know, what's your game plan?

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Wedding flowers, real or fake? ๐ŸŒนWhen I started planning my wedding, having fresh flowers was a must for me for its beaut...
16/09/2021

Wedding flowers, real or fake? ๐ŸŒน

When I started planning my wedding, having fresh flowers was a must for me for its beauty, vibrancy and smell.

But being budget-conscious, I couldn't accept spending lots of $$$ on something I knew would only last a couple of days, so I explored my options.

Ultimately I choose to go with real flowers but it came at a cost. After lots of thinking, prioritising and mindful decision making, we set a budget based on how comfortable we were to spend on this. I then reduced my list of flower items, simplified my brief and shopped around for multiple quotes being very clear on my budget.

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I'm keen to know, what flowers will you have at your wedding?

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