That’s right lovers, only a handful more sleeps until this years 🥂❤️🔥
If you’re planning a wedding, thinking about planning a wedding, (or just like hanging with cool people sipping margaritas), swing past THIS WEDNESDAY 4th Sep to meet some of the coolest cats in the SEQ wedding scene.
Tickets are free! Link up in my story now ❤️🔥🍸
10/08/2024
03/08/2024
That feeling when you attend a wedding as a *guest* 🍾🥂❤️🔥
Congratulations lovers we loved celebrating with you x
10/07/2024
LET’S GO ROGUE ⚡️❤️🔥
Lovers, if you’re getting mazzed this year or next year… or even the year after that.. then you MUST get your lil’ bum down to at on 4 September to meet some of the rogue-est (AND BEST) vendors around. Wanna do things differently? F**K YES. We gotchu. ⚡️
Link in my bio to reserve your free spot 🖤
18/04/2024
Madison, James & the most beautiful day 🖤
Swipe for all the EXCELLENT VIBES of their reception, we all obvs had a terrible time 😉
I was lucky enough to celeb + MC for this gorgeous couple, alongside (who snapped these pics), at the most wonderful .
29/02/2024
SMASHED TO SMITHEREENS
I wish I was joking.
It’s finally time to share with the world the exact moment the witness raffle GLASS JAR slipped outta my hands and smashed into a thousand pieces. Right in the middle of Shari & Matt’s (otherwise beautiful) ceremony. I was MORTIFIED. Felt so horrible for “ruining” their day. Apologised profusely. Had a quick & quiet anxiety spiral in the car between ceremony & MCing their reception cos I was “such an idiot”. BUT the show had to go on.
I needn’t have beaten myself up so much: these beautiful humans laughed it off, reminded me it wasn’t the end of the world, and carried on having the best day ever. T’was a good lesson for me - a reminder that us celebrants are allowed to be human. And when you’re attracting the right couples (legends such as Matt & Shari who I adored from the get-go), they will understand that we’re human.
So while it’s been nearly 9 months and the PTSD is only just wearing off, I’m finally ready to laugh it off too. Oh, and don’t worry- my witness raffle jar is no longer GLASS (wtf was I thinking?!).
Thanks for having me Shari & Matt- and thanks .weddings for capturing the goods! 🤣🤣
Back at the wonderful next week for Kristi & Seb and I CANNOT WAIT ❤️
16/02/2024
IT’S NEARLY TIME for first region wide wedding open day - it’s happening TOMORROW (yay!) - Sunday 18 Feb.
You are going to LOVE this event, with 9 exclusive venues opening their doors for your viewing pleasure. There’s heaps going on with loads of giveaways, special deals, fun things to see, do, and eat 🍦- most importantly, the best of the best vendors on the GC to take your pick from 💁🏼♀️
If you are planning your dream wedding, then come & say hi to me at & we can chat all about your dream day ❤️🔥
Register for your FREE tickets and find out vendor placements via the Wedding Collective website
SEE YA THERE! 🥂
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05/02/2024
CLAIRE + JACKSON at ❤️
I had the pleasure of marrying one of the very first couples at The Grounds last year- sweethearts Claire & Jackson 🥀
It was an incredibly special day- intimate, romantic, whimsical & so full of love. Not only did I get to marry them, I stayed back to MC and help deliver their surprise baby announcement and gender reveal 💕
(Which, yep, in real life, you know means me waiting excitedly behind a wall, holding a balloon, silent, waiting for The Cue… making it all feel like magic)
I’ll be back at next weekend for the ’s very first Open Day. If you’re currently wedding planning, it’s such an incredible opportunity to check out the best of the best venues & vendors on the GC ❤️🔥 will chuck a link in my story to register for your FREE tickets. Can’t wait to see you there. 🖤
Claire & Jackson’s dream team:
.creative .lucas
11/01/2024
Every now & then I get to marry people I know in my other life. So when workmate Trav asked if I’d marry him to his love Caity… well I was pretty excited. I also knew it would be an excellent opportunity to stir Travis up. Having great banter day to day at work, I knew Travi, his family and his mates would be cool with it - he’s a very funny guy. But I can’t have imagined a better response from his wife-to-be. SWIPE for the pics of Caity loving the lil’ joke at Trav’s expense (I’m only a little bit sorry) 🥣
Thanks for having me, lovebirds. - I loved being a teeny part of your day 💙
Thanks for the pics! 📸
22/12/2023
THIS IS HOW YOU (WEDDING) PARTY
feat. Eddie & Drew, & their most excellent crew 🌈
ALL the colour, Eddie’s vision brought together by Calamity Jane Clothing and captured by the loveliest 💗
My last wedding for 2023, a freakin’ JOY to say the least- with some epic ceremony shots to share in the new year. Thanks for having me legends ❤️
08/12/2023
Meet me at for the first ever Open Day!
If you’re planning a wedding, or know someone who is, you legit can’t miss this- all the very best Gold Coast vendors ready to meet, greet & chat all things weddings! 🥂
18 February 2024… Lock it in ya diary love birds. Xx
03/12/2023
TRAV + CAITY
It’s a real boss babe that walks herself down the aisle with this much style 💁🏼♀️ but that’s our Caity😍
It was such a joy to marry Travis & Caity at recently- such a fun story to tell and such a great party to follow! More pics from this special day to come. pic by ⚡️
01/12/2023
Find yourself a celebrant that’s THIS excited to see you on your wedding day🤣
first hugs with the gorgeous pre cezza. Heaps more snaps from this excellent day to share 🖤
24/11/2023
HECK YES YOU’RE MARRIED 🎉
One of my fave parts of ceremony - pronouncing the couple officially married! Feat. Jake + Nat + their excellent crew at 💫 pic by ❤️🔥
20/11/2023
Taleasha + Ash 💫🤍 working with the dream team 🖤
I had the joy of being celebrant & MC for these guys… and OH MY, what a party it was! Champagne tower, a first dance surrounded by sparklers, epic speeches and a killer dance floor ❤️🔥
18/11/2023
Amanda + Matt ❤️ hitched at the ever beautiful Gabbinbar Homestead - what a dream! 💫❤️
Now, when Amanda told me during our first meeting that she was actually also a Registered Celebrant.. I’ve gotta admit I felt the pressure to make this one particularly good 🤣 Luckily for me, working with these two was a dream come true… they are funny, smart, quick witted, & with hearts of actual gold: Amanda and Matt, thank you so much for having me ❤️
Working with a dream team:
02/11/2023
F**k knows what I’m even doing here 🤷🏼♀️🙈 but apparently this is what housekeeping looks like in my ceremonies?! (I’ve not included the pic where I’m giving the crowd finger guns, lols).
Thanks Lisa for the pics - more from this gorgeous day for Millie + Austin to come ❤️
01/11/2023
It started with a snapchat & ended like this⚡️🥀🖤 TOIT NUPS for Kirsten + Troy at gorgeous Kooroomba Lavender Farm - what a treat! Absolutely loved delivering this lighthearted, fun & super romantic ceremony for these two 🖤
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welcome to third wheel love co.
hey - i’m kate. an event producer by trade, turned MC, and now authorised celebrant. and I am legit OBSESSED with weddings.
for me, a great wedding is not necessarily about the ‘fluff’. it’s about the meaning & the feels that come with a wedding. getting all of your loved ones together in one place, taking some time outta real life and just celebrating something so mundane - and so incredible - as love?! now that’s cool.
I’ve lived all over australia, in malaysia, in london, but now call the gold coast home with my little boy and my (highly co-dependent) puppy dog. i am definitely addicted to coffee, and i’m partial to a savvy b (or three).
having been an event producer for 14 + years, i know a thing or three about putting together an awesome event. i’ve managed events from music festivals in kuala lumpur, to the f1 grand prix in singapore; brand activations in london, to corporate dinners at the opera house.
originally, i started planning and MCing friends’ weddings because, well...i was the ‘event girl’ - but having seen one too many boring, in-authentic, soulless ceremonies - i decided to do that too.
having me on board means you’ll have more than just a killer ceremony to kick start your day. i can run a schedule with my eyes closed and i can mc the s**t outta your reception too (yes, i’ll even keep uncle barry on his best behaviour).
with me on board - i can genuinely, hand-on-heart tell you, that you can relax. you can actually ENJOY your wedding day.
it’s gonna be real, and warm, and special, and even a teeny bit funny. i’ve got this.