27/06/2024
Call it preloved, reloved, gently worn, secondhand, second love, whatever you like. It's hard to imagine wearing a secondhand dress on your wedding day. I get it. To be completely honest, I get it for pretty much every day, let alone the day you decide to make one of life's most monumental changes.
The idea of shopping secondhand for your wedding is going to be especially weird, bordering on freakish, if secondhand shopping is not part of your everyday thought process.
Now, most of us are pretty familiar with it ~ and as peaceful as it sounds, you'd have to be living under a rock not to be ~ but it's for an item here or there. It's not an ingrained mindset. I have to admit that I'm not a great thrifty shopper; I've dabbled, but my commitment level has well & truly been left wanting. However, my wanderings in this world of sustainable wedding fashion have meant that I've really had to face up to my fashion habits. So I've tried harder.
Honestly, it's been haphazard. I've genuinely struggled to know where to start. That sounds like an incredibly bizarre thing to say. Why would it be any different to something I've loved to do for decades?! The answer, for me, at least my friends, is the vastly overwhelming volume of often disordered...well, stuff. It's part treasure hunt, part suffocation. It's a very easy place to drown, even online. The world of clean & clear & brand new shiny styling, where someone else has made full outfit choices & laid them out gloriously in front of you, is a far easier place to be. But that, of course, is not where the magic happens.
There are many creative, stylish, inspiring people shining a light on the path to slow & sustainable fashion. Find them and be inspired. For me, I also need it there in front of me; to see it, to feel it, to imagine it. And I have to keep turning up & reminding myself why. For something as extraordinary as your wedding day, start with *small*. Walk before you can run.Train for the marathon. But in a far more fun, fabulous, non sweaty way. Be inspired. See the dress. Maybe try it on. Know the history. Know the planet loving benefits.
Who knows where your path will lead you. π€