Foundations For Love

05/14/2025

Whether you're newly engaged or have been married for years, three conversations are absolutely essential to the strength and longevity of your relationship: faith, finances, and future goals. These aren’t one-time discussions—they're ongoing dialogues that evolve as you grow together.

Faith forms the foundation of your values and decision-making as a couple. Whether shared or individual, your beliefs shape how you view life, love, family, and even conflict. Having honest conversations about your spiritual journey creates connection, mutual respect, and alignment.

Finances can divide or unite couples. It’s not just about dollars—it’s about habits, priorities, and goals. Discussing income, spending, saving, debt, and future investments helps build trust and transparency. When you’re on the same financial page, stress is reduced, and dreams become achievable.

Future goals give your relationship direction. What kind of life are you building? Where do you see yourselves in 5, 10, or 20 years? Talking about family, career, travel, and retirement plans allows you to support one another and dream together.

No matter where you are on your journey, I support couples in all their relationship needs. From written materials and courses to one-to-one coaching, support is just a message away. Don’t hesitate to reach out—I'm here to walk with you.

05/05/2025

What Makes Love Last?

I've had the honour of officiating weddings for countless couples and coaching many more through the highs and lows of relationships. And while every couple is unique, there's one question that always seems to come up:

"What's the secret to lasting love?"

Is it communication?

Shared values?

Chemistry?

Faith?

Forgiveness?

The truth is—it's never just one thing.

Love that lasts is built on many small, intentional choices.

It's showing up even when you're tired.

It's choosing grace when it's easier to hold a grudge.

It's making space for laughter, growth, and, yes—even disagreement.

Love isn't something you find and keep.

It's something you build and nurture—day by day. And it often starts by asking the right questions.

So, I'd love to hear from you:
What's one thing you believe helps a relationship stand the test of time?

Or, if you're single—what's something you hope to build into your next relationship?

Drop it in the comments. Let's learn from each other and grow together.
💬👇

04/23/2025

Marriage isn’t a math equation—it’s a heart decision. When both partners give their all, without keeping score, love becomes limitless.

It’s not about equal division; it’s about mutual devotion. Show up fully, love generously, and give from a place of abundance.

That’s how marriages thrive—when both hearts are all in.

04/17/2025

Many people spend their energy trying to fix or change others, but the truth is, the most powerful change you can make starts within.

When you work on yourself—your mindset, habits, and emotional awareness—you not only grow personally, but you also naturally influence the dynamic of the relationship.

Personal growth invites relational growth. It’s not about perfection—it’s about presence, awareness, and intentionality.

Want to experience better, stronger, more connected relationships?

Start with you.

Follow along for more insights, or reach out and let’s talk.

04/17/2025

After more than 30 years of writing, speaking, and mentoring on relationships—and over four decades of marriage myself—it was time for this page to reflect more of who I am and what I do.

From officiating weddings to coaching couples and individuals through every stage of love, I’ve seen firsthand what it takes to build a lasting relationship.

Foundations for Love isn’t just a name—it’s a mission to guide you as you create a relationship that’s rooted in wisdom, commitment, and growth.

Welcome to Foundations for Love.

I’m Jim Hetherington—relationship coach, wedding officiant, and life & business breakthrough specialist.

This page is your space for real talk on relationships, meaningful marriage tips, ceremony inspiration, and wisdom to help love not just last—but thrive.

Whether you’re planning your big day or navigating married life, you’ll find support, encouragement, and insight rooted in experience, faith, and truth.

💍 Wedding services
📘 Relationship books
🎥 Free video trainings
❤️ Coaching & Programs

I invite you to follow along as we explore tools that support you in building your relationship on a foundation of trust, respect, and lasting love.

03/18/2025

In marriage, forgiveness keeps your heart open, love fuels your connection, and laughter strengthens your bond.

Forgive quickly to release burdens, love endlessly to nurture intimacy, and often laugh to keep the joy alive.

A thriving marriage is built on grace, devotion, and moments of shared happiness every single day

03/06/2025

In marriage, you are co-authors of your love story, shaping each chapter with intention. It's not about individual wants but what's best for the marriage.

A thriving relationship is built by prioritizing growth, unity, and love—creating a masterpiece where both partners become their best selves together.

02/25/2025

One of the most powerful ways to show someone they truly matter is by giving them your time—undistracted, intentional, and meaningful.

Prioritize them by scheduling regular time together, truly listening when they speak, and always following through on your promises.

And never underestimate the impact of saying "I love you"—at least once a day. Small, consistent actions build the strongest connections. 💛

02/10/2025

Don’t wait for Valentine’s Day to show love—start today. Gifts are nice, but nothing speaks louder than presence.

Give your partner your full attention, free from distractions. Put the phone away, silence the noise, and make them feel like they’re the most important person in the world.

Love isn’t just about grand gestures; it’s about daily intention. Show them they come first, not just with words, but with your time.

Because in the end, it’s not what you give—it’s how you make them feel.

Start today. ❤️

02/10/2025

02/04/2025

It’s a reminder that no matter what life brings, you are in this together.

This simple gesture symbolizes trust, unity, and the unspoken promise to walk side by side, always supporting and cherishing one another.

01/18/2025

True love strengthens through being present for one another without judgment, offering support, patience, and understanding. These moments of unwavering connection build a foundation that weathers any storm, creating a bond that endures.