03/18/2025
Trust yourself - but first make sure you have your eyes OPEN.
TAKING BACK OUR HORSEMANSHIP…
I think it’s time for owners to take back over their horsemanship journeys.
By trusting themselves and their own judgement.
Don’t like how rough a trainer is being with your horse, but they’re trying to convince you it’s necessary?
Trust yourself.
Frustrated with a lack of boundaries or clarity in your horsemanship, but afraid you’ll be judged or judge yourself if you do anything about it?
Trust yourself.
Afraid to get hurt, but you’re being told to ‘cowboy up’ and get on anyways?
Trust yourself.
Knowing something’s wrong when your barefoot horse is sore, but your trimmer keeps telling you it’s part of the process?
Trust yourself.
Seeing no progress or things get worse after multiple cycles in corrective shoeing, but you’re afraid to say anything to your vet or farrier?
Trust yourself.
Feeling guilty for using that tool that seems to help you and your horse communicate better?
An inner voice that’s shaming you is never your own, it’s always someone else’s.
Trust yourself.
I get it, we can’t rely on ourselves to always be unbiased or be the know-all end-all in decision-making, it takes a well-educated village, but I can’t tell you how many times as a hoofcare professional or a trainer I’ve deferred to a client…
Because they know their horse the best, because they’re familiar with all the variables, because they’re often the first ones to know when something is wrong, even if they can’t quite put a finger on it.
The horsemanship industry reminds me of the beauty industry in many ways... It’s designed to make us feel a certain way about ourselves, which is rarely positive.
Speaking to women specifically… isn’t being able to get away from all the social constructs and baggage what drew many of us to horses in the first place?
You know what I’m talking about…
When it’s just you and the horse having a moment, and you understand and trust each other completely, and you understand and trust yourself completely?
Isn’t with horses where we were supposed to feel most ourselves? Most safe? Competent? Capable?
Can we take it back, please?