
13/02/2025
~Family~
Following on with the black and white theme, I wanted to share some of my favourite b&w images from Louisa & Chris's gorgeous wedding at the Titanic Hotel last autumn. It was very much a family affair with their adorable children playing a big part in their day! π€
This wedding inspired me to put together some useful little tips, with Louisa's help, if you're thinking of having young children at your wedding;
1 Don't expect them to do exactly what you want them to do, for instance, if they have a job like a ring bearer. Weddings can be a strange environment for them and they might feel overwhelmed and not want to do it when the time comes. Louisa agrees. "Don't have high expectations and expect them to be perfect little angels and walk down the aisle, smile for all the pictures and socialise with everyone. They will do what they want to do and when they do 'perform' it's the best feeling ever, let them just be kids!"
2 Weddings are often long days and even though it might be the best day of your life, the little ones might get bored! Have plenty of activities for them to do, snacks to eat and if possible, a quiet room where they can take some time out. "iPads are AMAZING! I always said I would never shove an iPad in their face and now they are the best tool ever!"Β π
3 Don't forget the buggy/pram so they can have a little nap during the day, a grumpy toddler is no fun for anyone!
4 Enlist a few helpers to look after or entertain them during different parts of the day e.g. getting ready, the ceremony and speeches, so you can relax and enjoy your day! Even better if you have someone who likes an early night! "We were so lucky with so many people to help with the kids, all immediate family pitched in and when they were ready for bed Chris's stepdad (who isn't very sociable) was more than happy to go back to the room with them!" π