Intentionally Wed

26/11/2025

26/11/2025

10/11/2025

Engagement season is often described as “busy,” “stressful,” or “a blur.” But it’s also a threshold, a time where small, sacred rituals can anchor you and remind you what this is really about.

The good news? Rituals don’t have to be complicated. They just have to be intentional.

Here are 6 micro-rituals you can try this season (and maybe carry into married life too).
Which one resonates most for you right now?

✨ Save this post for later, and tag your partner so you can choose one to try together.

Have a fab week!
Edna x

06/11/2025

You’re stressed because you’re looking for answers out there. The right decision always feels light.

Your body knows before your brain does.

Try the Light vs. Heavy Check on your next choice. Follow this feeling instead of the trend.

You’ll find all the details for Episode 2: The Inner Compass Check waiting for you in my bio.

Edna x

03/11/2025

The radical act of doing less when everyone tells you to do more.

True ease isn’t about better organisation, but intentional subtraction.

Look at your to-do list and circle the one task that, if removed, would give you the most peace. It might be a party, a favour, or an unnecessary vendor.

Let it go.

Ease is a bold, almost radical choice in this industry. Choose it.

Edna x

💫Where can you boldly subtract this week? Share your intention for simplicity in the comments.

16/10/2025

Want a meaningful wedding? You’re starting in the wrong place.

Meaning isn’t found in expensive details.

My story is that I left the traditional way because it failed my couples. I realised they needed space, not just spreadsheets.

I focus on Alignment and Peace. If you prioritise your relationship and use intuition, the beautiful wedding day is the inevitable result.

The first episode of my series ‘The Threshold Moment’ is up on my new YouTube channel.
Go check it out. Details are in my bio. 💃🏾🙌🏾😄

Edna x

10/10/2025

I want to talk about the ‘grand entrance.’ It’s one of those traditions that sounds magical on paper, but for so many of my couples, it just feels like pure, unnecessary pressure.

If you’re feeling that subtle urge to perform, to make a dramatic entrance because everyone is watching. I just wanna say, “You don’t have to.”

The most soul-led choice you can make right now is picking your true connection over what the industry or your aunt thinks is appropriate.

This is your gentle act of rebellion. If that spotlight moment feels performative or heavy, skip it.

Instead, imagine choosing a quiet, shared moment: walking in together, already holding hands, grounding yourselves in each other’s presence before anyone else even sees you. That simple, shared walk immediately centers your partnership and makes the moment entirely yours.

That’s what a meaningful beginning truly looks like.

We all have that one ‘must-do’ tradition that feels completely off for our authentic connection. Which one is it for you?

Let me know in my DMs. I want to give you permission to ditch it today.
Edna x

09/10/2025

I’ve been in this industry for a long time, and I know that the advice to “start with your values” is where most beautiful, thoughtful planning stalls out. Why? Because it can feel like another checklist item.

Asking you to define your core philosophy feels like homework. It’s too much pressure, and it pulls you out of the simple joy of your engagement.

So, let’s release that checklist mentality. We’re choosing a softer, more intuitive way to begin.

Let’s find your one-word compass.

Instead of searching for a list of abstract values, I want you to look inward to the FEELING you want to wrap around your whole wedding day.
This is the simple secret.

Close your eyes, take three slow breaths, and picture the end of the night. You’re watching everything unfold, and you just feel... what?

Is it EASE (A quiet confidence that everything is unfolding without friction)?

Is it CONNECTION (A feeling of being truly seen and surrounded by your favorite people)?

Is it JOY (A spontaneous, bubbling happiness that feels light and real)?

That single word,that feeling is your most reliable compass. It cuts through the chaos and becomes the filter for every single decision. If a choice (a tradition, a supplier, a design) helps you lean into that feeling, it’s a loving ‘yes.’ If it makes you feel heavy, complicated, or pressured, it’s a loving ‘no.’

This simple shift helps you plan with genuine lightness and stay true to your heart.

Take 5 minutes right now. Don’t worry about the planning. Tune into the sensation.

Drop the one word that represents the feeling you crave most for your wedding day in the comments below. Let’s start building your celebration from this gentle, honest place.

Edna x

19/09/2025

Over the years, I’ve noticed there are a few gentle patterns in how couples move through their engagement season.

Think of them less as boxes to fit into and more as snapshots—different ways people show up in this tender in-between time.

I’m sharing these because naming what you’re experiencing can feel like a small relief, a quiet “oh, that’s us.”

And when you can see yourself more clearly, it’s easier to find the kind of support that truly meets you where you are.

If you recognise yourselves in these words, I’d love to hear your story. And if you’re ready for a little extra support through The Pause or The Wedding Wayfinder consider this a gentle invitation to step in.

Ready when you are, find it all through my profile.
Edna x

18/09/2025

Over the years, I’ve noticed there are a few gentle patterns in how couples move through their engagement season.

Think of them less as boxes to fit into and more as snapshots—different ways people show up in this tender in-between time.

I’m sharing these because naming what you’re experiencing can feel like a small relief, a quiet oh, that’s us.

And when you can see yourself more clearly, it’s easier to find the kind of support that truly meets you where you are.

If you recognise yourselves in these words, I’d love to hear your story. And if you’re ready for a little extra support through The Pause or The Wedding Wayfinder consider this a gentle invitation to step in.

Ready when you are, find it all through my profile.

Edna x