Nick Chatten Wedding & Party Entertainment - 8 x Award Winning Wedding DJ

01/01/2025

30/12/2024

The Decline of Courtesy in Hospitality: A DJ’s Perspective

The hospitality industry has always been about creating memorable experiences, as a DJ, my role is to provide the soundtrack to these moments, bringing joy to weddings, parties, and events. However, in recent years—particularly since the pandemic—I’ve noticed a worrying shift in behavior that’s affecting not just the industry but the people within it.

Patience has become a rare virtue, whether it’s impatience with staff at bars or a quick temper towards gentle reminders about venue rules, the hospitality sector has become a hotspot for tension. As someone on the front lines, I see this unfold in real time, and it’s deeply concerning.

The Impact of Alcohol on Behavior

It’s no secret that alcohol lowers inhibitions, but lately, it seems to do more than that, it often brings out an ignorance that leads to rule-breaking and, worse, mistreatment of staff. One of the most common issues I encounter is partygoers bringing drinks onto the dance floor, while it might seem harmless, the reality is quite different.

Spilled drinks can lead to sticky floors, damaged equipment, and, most dangerously, broken glass that could harm someone. When this happens, the party halts, the music stops, the lights come on, and the entire atmosphere collapses while the mess is cleaned up……It’s a buzzkill for everyone involved.

DJs Are the Messengers, Not the Enforcers

Here’s where the disconnect lies, as DJs, we are often tasked by venue management & owners to constantly remind guests of the rules, such as keeping drinks off the dance floor, but when we use the microphone to make these announcements, we’re sometimes met with hostility.

I’ve personally experienced being shouted at, ignored, or even insulted for simply doing what I’ve been asked to do, I t’s important to understand that DJs are not the enforcers; we’re messengers trying to ensure everyone has a good time without unnecessary interruptions.

A Simple Reminder Goes a Long Way

It’s worth taking a moment to consider the consequences of ignoring simple guidelines. Venues have these rules in place for good reasons—to protect their property, their staff, and their guests. When DJs step in with reminders, it’s not to nag or police the party; it’s to keep the celebration running smoothly.

Imagine a wedding where the first dance ends abruptly because of a spilled drink, or a birthday party that’s disrupted by broken glass. These moments can cast a shadow over what should be joyful occasions, and they’re entirely preventable with just a bit of cooperation and respect.

A Call for Change

The hospitality industry has faced unprecedented challenges in recent years, and those who work in it—from DJs to bartenders to waiting staff—are doing their best to make events special, but we can’t do it alone, we need a collective effort from everyone to bring back patience, kindness, and understanding.

So the next time you’re at a party or event, remember the people behind the scenes working to make it unforgettable. Follow the rules, treat staff with respect, and most importantly, enjoy yourself without creating problems for others. Together, we can bring back the spirit of celebration without conflict.

Let’s make hospitality hospitable again.

13/12/2024

Any of the wonderful wedding photographers I've worked with this year, I'm in need of some great dance floor photos showing the energy .....

Needed for a 'little' project I'm working on please 🙏

09/12/2024

Well it wouldn't be a school themed Christmas party night without a blackboard would it?

04/12/2024

https://djnickchatten.co.uk/2024/12/04/respect-your-dj/

The 10 Most Annoying Things DJs Face While Working Please respect your party DJ this festive season.....Being a DJ is one of the most rewarding jobs in the world, especially at weddings and parties where the goal is to bring joy and create unforgettable memories. But as much as DJs love what they do...

30/11/2024

If you’re searching for the perfect place to get married in Suffolk or Norfolk, look no further than Ivy House Country Hotel in Oulton Broad. Nestled in stunning countryside, this gem offers everything you could dream of for your big day—a picturesque setting, top-notch facilities, and a welcoming atmosphere.

The venue’s beautiful barn restaurant oozes rustic charm, making it ideal for intimate ceremonies and receptions. Meanwhile, the spacious function hall can accommodate larger celebrations, all while retaining a warm and personal vibe. Whether you envision a cozy gathering or a grand affair, Ivy House has the versatility to make your dream wedding a reality.

Your guests will love the on-site accommodation, which means they can relax and fully immerse themselves in the celebrations without worrying about travel. The rooms are comfortable and well-appointed, adding that extra touch of convenience and luxury to your special day.

One thing that truly sets Ivy House apart is the friendly and attentive staff. Their dedication to detail and genuine passion for hospitality ensure your wedding runs seamlessly, leaving you and your partner free to savor every moment.

Having been the recommended DJ at Ivy House for many years, I can personally attest to the incredible experience this venue provides, from the stunning location to the exceptional service, it’s always a pleasure to work here. Whether I’m playing the perfect ceremony music, your first dance or getting the party started, I know this venue creates unforgettable memories for every couple.

Beyond weddings, Ivy House is also a fantastic place to stay or dine, the food is exceptional, the ambiance is inviting, and the surroundings are breathtaking being situated on the banks of the Norfolk Broads, It’s a venue that delivers on every front.

If you’re planning your wedding in Suffolk or Norfolk, Ivy House Country Hotel is a venue you won’t want to miss. It’s a truly magical place to celebrate your love story.
Nick Chatten Wedding & Party Entertainment is recommended by all the top wedding venues in East Anglia.

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🏆 WINNER 2025 HIGHLY COMMENDED WEDDING DJ OF THE YEAR

22/11/2024

***WINNER WINNER***

Last night was an absolute honour to be in attendance at the Regional Final of the The Wedding Industry Awards held at the beautiful Copdock Hall barn - Wedding and Events Venue near Ipswich, as always its such a great chance to network with the finest wedding suppliers in the East of England, not only that but I came away with winner of 'Highly Commended' in the DJ category which was a lovely surprise......now granted I still can't say I'm a 'GLOBAL INTERNATIONAL WEDDING AWARD' 😜 (If you know, you know, bit of sarcasm) but I'll take it with both hands & be super proud of what I've won.

I'd also like to take this opportunity to congratulate Dan at JN Sounds - Hertfordshire Wedding DJs for winning DJ of The Year, someone I've watched grow across social media and admired from afar & got the chance to congratulate him in person, so very well deserved, also to Dj Therapy Events- Mobile/ Wedding Dj who also won a 'HIGHLY COMMENDED'...well done sir 🙏

A special thank you to my wife Teresa for putting up with me coming in at 2/3am in the morning & never having a social life at weekends & your constant encouragement & support ❤️

These awards mean so much to me because they are voted for by previous couples throughout the last 12 months, it's by far THE most well respected award to win within the wedding industry.

20/11/2024

One of the BIG advantages about these awards is networking and catching up with just fantastic beautiful wedding suppliers & there isn't anyone nicer in our industry than , I've known TJ for many years & to see her tonight with her amazing team at for the regional finals of was such a lovely surprise, just keep doing what you're doing & being who you're being, the world needs more TJs ❤️

20/11/2024

Well, we are here and we await our fate.....

Good luck to each & everyone of you who made it to the regional final night , I'm here at the beautiful & keeping up my new found posts of pouting with & the lovely Ruth....

I also gave my lovely wife Teresa with me to hold my hand ❤️

16/11/2024

This afternoon we PARTY from 2-6pm at Ivy House Country Hotel for our very first Disco for Adults, we released an additional 50 tickets and still have 30 available if you want to join us, just call reception on 01502 501535 or pop down.........you'll even be home for Strictly Come Dancing 😜

15/11/2024

Whilst we have a break in proceedings for food.........

It's always an absolute pleasure to be asked to come back to Stock Brook Country Club, over the years I've had many great memories & some fan weddings & parties, it's lovely to catch up with good friends I've made over all those years.

This evening I'm hosting a Charity Dinner to raise money for a really great charity called Kids Inspire, they do some incredible work helping children.

Let's hope we raise lots of money. 🤞

15/11/2024

Looking forward to seeing lots of couples for the first Moss and Co Wedding Fair at Broadlands, Oulton Broad

W E D D I N G F A I R

We are hosting our very first Wedding Fair at 📍
Our function suite has been newly renovated & is the perfect space for a small wedding right beside the Broads.
On the 17th November, from 11am - 2pm, you'll find all these local businesses ready to help you start your journey in creating your perfect day 💍

Nick Chatten Wedding & Party Entertainment - 8 x Award Winning Wedding DJ
The Rustic Wedding House
Barkers Photo Fun
Sam Markwell Photography




Hair For Your Occasion
Confetti and Cake
Perfect Day Creations

You can find us at the following address...
3 Marsh Rd, Lowestoft NR33 9JY

09/11/2024

Celebrating with Jasmine & her friends & family for her belated 21st Birthday.....🎉💥