08/11/2024
My friend passed away last week so this is dedicated to her and the amazing, inspirational woman that she was.
The overall shape of the bouquet is a loose heart because she was someone absolutely bursting with love. The design is a fairly solid mass to represent her safe, nurturing homeliness. The tight, neat arrangement also nods to the affectionate unit that she made with her husband, and the inseparable intertwined unit of her family. The majority of the colours are vibrant, as she conjured fun and frivolity. This bright palette of dried flowers summons her optimism; as we head towards winter, they are a reminder of the summer abundance that will come around again following the darker stage of the year. The combined attributes of being both colourful and long-lasting illustrate her positive and reassuring presence. The longevity of dried flowers represents her strength. She was full of warmth and wit, indicated by the collection of warm yellows and oranges. The ingredients are predominantly arranged in blocks of individual colours, as a reminder of her calm, straightforward practicality. She both wrote and spoke with an optimistic, inclusive sincerity that was genuine and engaging, shown here through silver honesty pods interspersed with warmly centred delicate daisies.Tiny stars of alchemica mollis hover in the top right, acknowledging her return to nature and a reminder that she will always be with me. The spiky balls of thistle symbolise the hurt of her loss. Nigella holds the meaning ‘perplexity’, and voices my feeling of powerlessness in helping her family other than sending messages of love and quietly processing my own comparatively small grief. The dark pinks of the dahlias at the bottom stand for the rupture of her death being so sudden, the irreparable hole left in the centre of her family, but also her characteristic cheeky wink.
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