18/08/2023
Farewell Flowers, 5ft Spray for S, Aug ‘23:
Encircling the spray are seed pods from the mock-orange poached from Kew by K, the ringleader of S’s early years. S’s colourful upbringing is shown by the purple, pink, yellow and green edge. Pink achillea is nestled in here and at intervals throughout the spray, representing her love of animals, as it is a flower adored by wildlife.
Her family life appears at one end of the design: Honeysuckle represents ‘devoted love and a contented home’, hydrangea (a favourite of S) symbolises gratitude, a feeling expressed by J for all the exciting, unpredictable opportunities that being her husband gifted him. These encounters are shown by the inclusion of asters, which carry the meaning ‘variety’. Sprigs of mint and bay give a nod to her time spent cooking. When at restaurants with J, S was particular and notorious for sending food back, so the dahlias in this section symbolise her ‘good taste’. A small piece of holly cut from the family home conjures the stern look that may have been received from her, followed by a pause to find out if it was a telling off that was coming… or she was having a joke with you.
S brought her keen focus to her work both as a secretary and in pathology, as well as to her knitting and of course tennis. These areas are represented by 3 clear segments of colour within the design: 1 purple, 1 yellow and 1 pink. Grasses appear in each of these sections as they stand for the perseverance she demonstrated in all these pursuits (as well as in her family life, where they also feature). Weaving between sections are another of her favoured flowers, clematis, which carry the meaning of ‘mental prowess’, as well as some of the blooms being appropriate to the purple of Wimbledon.
Tennis features throughout the spray, as it was so significant to S, known to her grandchildren as ‘Nana Tennis’. Wimbledon purple is also shown through clary sage, phlox and mint flowers, while the deep green is provided by ivy. The yellow pom-poms of zinnias are included as bouncing joyful tennis balls, as well as holding the symbolism of ‘daily remembrance’, which is and will be experienced by S’s family following their loss.