19/08/2026
I got the ick...
Now, I am all for your day YOUR way, however that looks. That will never change. But I've seen a few things over the years that make me wince, so I thought I'd share, to see if they give you the ick too. Pop yours in the comments. And if you reckon I need a cuppa and a sit down, I'll take that on the chin.
Guests talking down the couple's choices. If you don't support how someone wants to do their own wedding, I do gently wonder why you're there. Harsh, but I think fair.
Ignoring an unplugged ceremony request. If the couple asked you to put the phone away, put the phone away. Nobody wants your iPad blocking the aisle in every photo.
Treating the venue staff and suppliers like something stuck to their shoe. We are people, doing a job we love, at YOUR celebration. A please and a thank you costs nothing.
Hammering the free bar like they've crossed a desert to get there. Couples are so generous putting money behind the bar. Try not to make them regret it by 7pm.
Leaving glasses and rubbish in genuinely baffling places. Why is there a champagne flute and a burger box balanced in a hedge? How? Who?
Which of these have you spotted? Or am I the one who needs to chill? Spill the tea & tell me below! Bxx