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07/06/2024

✨Introducing.... ✨ the Ultimate Wedding Planning Spreadsheet by Elegance Unlimited 💍

I am so excited to share with you all something I have been working on for months and months!

The Ultimate Wedding Planning Spreadsheet is a digital download, compatible with Google Sheets, to enable you to take control of your wedding planning, without it feeling overwhelming.

I really wanted to have something available for all my DIY engaged couples out there. I will stress the importance of a solid organisation system during wedding planning, and this spreadsheet is designed to help you with just that

It includes 11 customisable sheets, and you can add or take away as much of it as you need, to make it perfectly bespoke to your wedding plans!

You can purchase the Ultimate Wedding Planning Spreadsheet from the 'Shop' page on my website, or head to the link in my bio to head straight there!

Who's going to be snatching up their own copy this weekend?! 🙋‍♀️

03/06/2024

The second issue of the Big Southwest Wedding Magazine is out now! ✨🥰

You can find my article on 'How To Set Your Wedding Budget' featured, as well as heaps of inspiration and articles from other suppliers and experts in the industry💍

Copy the link to download for FREE and read it now!
https://www.thebigsouthwestweddingfair.co.uk/download-magazine

The Big Southwest Wedding Fair

03/06/2024

New blog post is live today!🥰🩷

If you've ever wondered what on earth a wedding logo is, this one is for you!💍

Read this post to find out everything you need to know about this growing trend - what it is, why you need one and how to use it in your wedding! ✨

https://eleganceunlimited.co.uk/2024/06/03/wedding-logos-why-you-need-one-and-how-to-use-it/

Wedding logos are a fun and modern way to elevate your wedding, and in this post we’re going to go through why you need your own wedding logo and how to use them yourself! What is a wedding logo? I promise you they’re not as formal and serious as they sound. They’re supposed to be fun and pers...

20/05/2024

You don't need to impress anyone on your wedding day.

Read that again.

It's your wedding day, to celebrate with your partner, and to showcase your love in a way that makes you both happy! 💍✨

A wedding day does not mean you have to spend heaps of money to 'prove' anything to your guests or to impress them.

You also should not be making decisions based on what your guests would prefer, whilst sacrificing what you and your partner want. If your guests are making comments telling you they don't like magicians at weddings when it's been your dream forever, or telling you they would only ever choose a 3-course sit-down meal instead of street-food trucks that you're super excited to book - don't let it sway you from your dreams!

It's your wedding, your day, your money, your choice! You will only regret not making decisions for you if you are always working to please other people.

Plan a wedding day that makes you happy! 🥰💍

01/04/2024

I’m so excited to share that I am featured in the brand new wedding magazine by ✨

They create incredible wedding shows and now have an incredible magazine with heaps of inspiration to go alongside it!

I have an article featured this month all about what to do before you get stuck into wedding planning, so if you’re just about to dive into the exciting process of wedding planning, make sure to download your FREE copy and give it a read!

The link is in my bio and in my stories right now! 😍🤍


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20/02/2024

"one thing at a time..." ❤️

A little snippet of my latest newsletter - this months planning tip! 💌

This one resonates with me so deeply. There is an increasing pressure that builds the closer you get to your wedding day, as it all starts to become more real. You start to wonder if you're going to get it all done, if the vision of your big day is going to come to reality.

As tempting as it is to cancel all other plans, set up shop in front of your laptop and get down to finalising every single plan until you feel relaxed again - it's just not realistic. You can physically only focus on one task at a time, so pace yourself and take it slow. Plan out your tasks, ask for help when you need it and take breaks!

If you need some support getting those final plans in place, and you want someone to take the reigns when it gets to crunch time - I still have availability for 2024 weddings!

Pop me a message or fill out the contact form on my website and let's get you booked in for a chat. You've got this! 🥰✨

eleganceunlimited.co.uk/contact-me/

05/02/2024

ON THE BLOG: How To Add Some Extra Romance To Your Wedding ❤️🩷❤️

Brand new blog has just gone live! As we inch closer to Valentines day in this classic month of love, I thought it would be only fitting to discuss how to make your wedding day a perfect day full of romance.

Whether you want it to look or feel more romantic, there are so many ways to incorporate a little extra love into your day.

Let me know what you think in the comments! 💍✨

https://eleganceunlimited.co.uk/2024/02/19/how-to-bring-some-extra-romance-to-your-february-wedding/

The month of February is typically one full of love and romance, at least that’s what we’re surrounded by during the Valentine’s day antics! Perhaps you’re not usually one for a big display of love and affection, but if your wedding day falls within the month of February this year, you might...

02/02/2024

Just a little re-introduction for all of my lovely followers today!

If you are new here, my name is Abby and I am a wedding planner, and the owner of Elegance Unlimited.

Based on the South Coast of the UK, I am a yoga loving, country music fan who has channelled my Type-A personality into a job that I love more than anything! 🥰

For me, there is nothing better than a wedding day and the memories it creates, and it is a true honour to be trusted to support my couples through that journey!

If you need advice, guidance or simply someone to rant to when it all feels too much, I am your gal. I am here for you in the ways you need it, to help you have a stress-free wedding experience that feels nothing short of magical!💍✨

01/02/2024

Did you know there is a free quiz on my website? It's brand new and I am so excited to share it with you all! 🥰💍✨

You can take the 'What's Your Wedding Planning Personality?' quiz today to help you figure out what type of planner you are, and get helpful tips and tricks to help you make the best of your journey!

Plus, who doesn't love a quiz?! Let me know if you take it and what result you get! ✨

https://form.jotform.com/240075228708355

P.S - My Facebook group were the first to hear about this! If you haven't joined us yet over at Your Wedding... Unlimited, get yourself over there now! It is an exclusive community of engaged people all deep in the throes of wedding planning. I support you and you support each other! 😍💍

07/08/2023

💍 WEDDING VENUES 💍

Some helpful tips for you today if you are yet to book your venue for your wedding!

It’s a big step and it’s a very important one so here are some things you should consider:

💍 how many guests are you inviting?

It’s really important to know the answer to this question BEFORE you start visiting venues!

💍 What location are we looking for venues in?

There are hundreds of gorgeous venues all across the world, it can very quickly get overwhelming. Start by choosing your specific area and then deep dive into that research!

💍 Ask the right questions!

Venues will have certain requirements on hiring certain suppliers and restrictions on things such as no lit candles with an open flame. Decide if there are any deal-breakers for you first, ask the questions and check they’re the right venue for you

Need more wedding tips? Follow for more tips and advice or DM me to see how I can help your dream wedding come to life! 🥰✨

23/05/2023

Not sure if you need a wedding planner? I have 5 reasons why it could be the perfect option for you! 😍

"Wedding planners are often seen as a luxury when planning a wedding, they’re very rarely on the list of suppliers that couples feel they absolutely HAVE to have. You’ll almost always find photographers, DJs and cake bakers at the top of that list, and rightly so! They’re all super important to creating amazing memories.

However, there are plenty of reasons why hiring a wedding planner can be one of the best choices to make for your wedding."

Read the full article through the link in my bio! 🔗

Did you hire a wedding planner and what was your experience like? 💍✨

How do you know if you need a wedding planner? Are they worth it? Read these 5 reasons why hiring a wedding planner is the best thing for your wedding...

13/05/2023

An important reminder for you today! 🥰

Never settle or change what you wear on your wedding day to suit or please other people. Your beauty will shine the brightest when you feel comfortable in an outfit that reflects YOU! ✨

What are you excited to wear on your wedding day?? 💭💍

07/05/2023

‼️New blog post‼️

We have a very royal themed blog post this month! 👑 I thought it would be fun to talk through all the different options for hair accessories on your big day! There is so much inspiration for everything wedding related out there, it really can be tough to narrow down to what you really want.

If you're looking for some stunning hair accessories to feel like a true Queen on your wedding day, check out this article! 💭💍✨

Which wedding hair accessory is perfect for you? Feel like a true Queen walking down the aisle with these 7 hair accessory ideas! Do you want to choose a delicate style or make a bold statement...

02/05/2023

I think it's time for a re-introduction! 👋🏻😁

I thought it would be a good idea to get some decent photos taken that aren't a selfie! 😂 For those of you who are new and don't know me, I'm Abby, the owner of Elegance Unlimited ✨

You may have seen me sharing some stories about something I was working on last week, and this is the result! My wonderful mum came to help me take some pictures, keep an eye out on my socials and website to see some more of them in the coming weeks! 🥰

03/04/2023

A wonderful weekend exhibiting at my first ever wedding fair! 💍🤍

I’ve met some lovely couples and made some new wedding business friends who I can’t wait to get the chance to work with in the future! 😁

I’m getting some well-earned rest now before back into the swing of work and getting ready to announce the winner of the giveaway very soon! 🤞🏼🎉

21/03/2023

This is such an important thing to remember, especially if you're unsure whether you want to hire a wedding planner! 💭

A wedding planner does the majority of their work behind the scenes, sorting things and fixing problems before you even know they need to be tended to! When you're choosing which planner you want to work with, remember to focus on how they make you feel. If you get good energy and they make you feel calm and relaxed, this is a great sign as to what they will be like to work with! You will spend a lot of time communicating with your planner so as much as what you can see on their website and social media is important, the way you get on with them as a person is important too! 💍🤍

08/03/2023

The organisers at the Big South West Wedding Fair have kindly offered me some discount vouchers for your tickets to the event! I thought I would do a little giveaway for some of them here on my instagram. You can save a range of discounts on your tickets, with even up to £13 off for the VIP package! You have to bring the vouchers with you to buy tickets on the door at the event, so I will post some to those who win next week!

To enter:
✨ Follow me on Instagram
✨ Like this post
✨ Pop me a DM to let me know you’ve entered!

For an extra entry share this post to your story! 🤍

07/03/2023

I am super excited to announce that I will be exhibiting at the Big South West Wedding Fair this April! As a small business owner this is such an exciting event and I can't wait to meet my fellow wedding business owners as well as all the lovely couples! 💍🤍

The event is being held on the 1st and 2nd April at The Bath & West Showground, Shepton Mallet, BA4 6QN

Stay tuned for more updates! 😁✨

24/02/2023

Trust. How do they make you FEEL? You're going to be spending a lot of time talking to your wedding planner, and you're putting the plans for the biggest day of your life into their hands, so do you trust them? 💭

Maybe an unpopular opinion but price is not the most important factor here. Please don't choose a wedding planner purely because they are the cheapest option for you! Make sure you like them too! 😅

Not everyone is suited, that's why we're all different. I urge you to take the time to make sure you get good energy from your wedding planner before signing them on ✨

13/02/2023

A little romance for your Monday... 💗

30/01/2023

We’re done!! The Carefree Bride Guide 2023 is finished! 💍✨😭

I just wanted to say a huge THANK YOU to everyone who has followed along with the Carefree Bride Guide this past month! I can't believe it is over already but I have had so much fun! I hope that the tips have been helpful and have hopefully eased some of your worries!

I will be condensing all of the information down into a blog post for anyone that wants to have the tips to come back to, but doesn't want to be scrolling through loads of posts to get to them! I'm putting it together as we speak and I will let you know as soon as it is live! 🤍

In the meantime please do let me know if there are any other wedding planning topics that you would like me to cover! I would love to do a guide like this again 😍💍

This is also a perfect excuse to post a picture of my face on here, otherwise I forget. So if you are new here then hello! My name is Abby and I run Elegance Unlimited, I’m here for all of your wedding planning needs! 😊🙋🏼‍♀️

27/01/2023

✨ Hire a wedding planner - keep you organised and less stressed ✨

A wedding planner is someone other than yourself to hold you accountable; to the wedding budget you promised yourself to would stick to, to keeping up with the timeline even when life gets busy, to setting clear expectations and communication with your suppliers and loved ones.

Also a little bit of shameless self-promotion here but I do truly believe it 😅 Planning a wedding is hard and it can easily get on top of you. Especially if you are struggling to set boundaries with your friends and family, or maybe your suppliers are being difficult... whatever the case may be, a wedding planner can act as a buffer between you and the other party.

Can't get that one family member to listen when you say that you don't want a traditional sit down meal? Let your wedding planner handle it.

You're struggling to set the terms within a contract for your caterers or florists or venue? Let your wedding planner handle it!

That's what we're here for! It's part of the service I provide to promise you a stress-free, relaxing wedding planning journey 🤍 And I can tell you now, hand on heart - I am always happy to be the scapegoat and blamed for your pushy family member or friend not being able to get their way in YOUR wedding! 😂 As long as you end up with the wedding of your dreams, with absolutely no regrets about how it turned out, then I have done my job well 💍💗

26/01/2023

👩‍💻 Dedicate tasks to those who want to help - don't let them take over 👩‍💻

Setting boundaries with friends and family can be more difficult than with your partner, what often happens is that people will get super excited about your wedding and want to help you. However, this can very easily lead to trouble staying in control. Sometimes, you don't want to feel obligated to use an idea that someone has suggested to you, but you don't want to upset them or maybe you're struggling to say no if they're pushing the idea 😬

The people around you may want to get involved and help, the best way to stay in control of this situation is to delegate tasks for them to do. If you have a pushy friend or family member that seems to be wanting to turn your wedding into their own, this can be super important 😅 If there are any tasks you would like help with or advice on, ask them for help with just that. They will feel like they are involved and you are still in control of the decisions without feeling bad about it.

I know that it can be difficult for some people to say no to the people around them, but your wedding should be for you and your partner and no one else, try to keep it that way if you can, you wont regret it! 💍🤍

25/01/2023

✨ Communicate expectations with your partner ✨

I cannot stress enough how important it is to be clear about what you expect from your wedding with those around you 😆 Most importantly out of everyone is the person you are marrying, your partner. Sit down and discuss together what you both want from your wedding, what you don't want, right from the beginning. Decide together how you are going to handle difficult decisions (or difficult people 😬), make sure you are on the same page from the off. You will then know that you have the support of your partner if any issues arise and you are both aware of how situations are to be handled.

It's easy to assume that your partner would be happy with any decisions you make, especially if you decide to delegate certain tasks to each other to split the workload. Having a quick discussion about things you both want (or don't) for your wedding can save you the stress of having to go back and change arrangements or getting into disagreements along the way!

And of course this may seem like an obvious tip but when you're swept up in the excitement of it all, it's very easy to forget to discuss these things. Make a little bit of time to talk and you will set yourself up for great success 😍💍

24/01/2023

🚫 Week 4: Setting Boundaries 🚫

It's the final week of the Carefree bride guide! I can't believe it's gone by already but here we are, this week I'm going to be talking about setting boundaries within your wedding planning. It can be tough when many people want to help or get involved, or you feel bad asking for something different from a supplier when they get the wrong idea about what you're asking for, but it's important if you want to have the day of your dreams! 🤍✨

This week I'll be sharing some tips and advice on how to navigate the process of setting boundaries before you set off on your wedding planning adventure! 😁

19/01/2023

💍 Are wedding fairs worth my time? 💍

I think that there can be some debate as to whether wedding fairs and venue open days can be worth the trip when there is so much available to us online, but I'm here to tell you that I definitely think they are! Of course you have to go in with the understanding that the suppliers there are going to be trying to sell you things, there would be no point in it otherwise. BUT, that's also why you are there, to find your inspiration and meet some potential suppliers that you would like to have for your wedding! 😍🤍

Wedding fairs are a great opportunity to meet the people in person who could be supplying for your big day. You can ask people questions in person too which is always a great help. These events are filled with experienced people who know what they are talking about and are there to help you, business are showcasing why they're great and it can be a useful source of inspiration for sure. You can come across businesses that sell things you hadn't even considered for your wedding day.

Even if you think you know exactly what you want, it's worth going just to look around!

What are your thoughts on wedding fairs?

18/01/2023

Finding ideas for your wedding that you love and truly feel like yours don't come easily to everyone. If you are struggling - talk to people! It may sound simple (and it is), but it's so easy to get wrapped up in your own head and your creativity soon dries up without any new inspiration 😬

Talk with your partner especially. You may have some of the same ideas, but you also may have different ones, or are picturing an aspect of your wedding in a different way to the other. At the beginning of your planning stages, I wouldn't rule any ideas out either, brainstorm as many ideas as you can; one can trigger another and something you would never want to have at your own wedding may somehow lead you to the perfect idea. You can bounce off each other and get the creative juices flowing in no time 💡✨

It's also great to talk to friends and family around you too - I know that it can be so tempting to keep everything under wraps and surprise everyone on the big day, but talking to your support system could bring you more inspiration than you think! Everyone has had their own experiences with weddings whether they have had their own or not, it can be helpful to get some perspective from another point of view! 🤍

17/01/2023

I will never not be one of Pinterest's biggest fans! Especially when it comes to wedding inspiration, it is overflowing with resources and ideas! 🤩 Though you probably know already, but Pinterest has a great function that allows you to create not only separate boards for your ideas, but also sections within those boards to keep things even more organised.

It works great to build yourself a virtual mood board of sorts, and you can start to see as you begin adding things to boards whether those ideas will all work together and look great or if something else would be a better match ✨

They are also a great way to keep your ideas and inspiration in one place as a way to show your venue and vendors what you like and are looking for, as sometimes it can be a little hard to articulate.

Even if you just use it to browse a few ideas rather than using it as a full workspace, it can be a really useful planning tool ✍️💍

16/01/2023

✨ Week 3: Finding Inspiration ✨

After the excitment of getting engaged then comes the realisation that you now have to actually plan the wedding, and for some people it's not the amount of work involved that they find daunting, but the endless options to choose from 🤯 If you don't already know what type of wedding you would like to have - the colours, the style, the types of flowers, then it can be tough to decide because there are so many beautiful ideas! 😅

This week I'm going to be giving you some tips and ideas to help you find your inspiration for your wedding, how to make it feel as though it is truly yours! 🤩💍