08/03/2024
Happy International Womenās Day!
Women are amazing, but itās not easy being female. Having been a teenager in the 90s I can see how things are changing for the better, but thereās still a long way to go.
On a personal level, I feel far more confident and empowered to speak my mind and call out sexist behaviour, but only since Iāve ventured into my 4th decade. I got shouted out by some random tw*t as he drove his car down Reigate high street recently, and told him to f*** off at the top of my lungs. Iām not advocating telling everyone to f*** off, just those who you perceive deserve it! Itās actually a very liberating experience. So is saying no to things which serve you no benefit, and not apologising for it, even if others try to guilt trip you about it.
I think men are quite wonderful too actually, and they are learning. Certainly the ones in my sphere anyway. Iām the mother of a boy, and I feel itās important to raise him to understand the female viewpoint, but also to know that being male is amazing and brilliant too. Equality happens when we are all on the same side.
I had two very negative experiences in my business last year, both of which were orchestrated by women in their 70s. I feel that there is a generational aspect to consider too, and women are not always as supportive of one another as they could and should be.
So hereās some Mimosa, the floral symbol of IWD, for all us fabulous women who hold the world together, often while holding onto silent rage, and a glass of wine.