30/10/2025
People seem to be fascinated by the Funeral Industry, and one question that has popped up 3 times over the last week, even at my son's dental appointment, is...
What do I think about Direct Cremations and these online/TV companies.
Simply put, working in the industry, I would never use one.
Why you ask....
I don't like how with the constant advertising on daytime TV, (literally every advert break), it almost feels like they are preying on vulnerable people who are unable to get out, and may be on end of life or in their twilight years. Which in some ways goes completely against why those in the Funeral Industry have a DBS check.
The way some of their adverts come across, almost making people feel that when they die, they are going to be an inconvenience to their family.
I have spoken to many families who have been devastated, when they realised that their loved one had paid for an online Direct Cremation.
If I was going to go for a Direct Cremation, I would always use a Funeral Director.
You are able to go in, and speak to someone, who can talk you through ALL the options, not just a sales person that can only offer you a Direct Cremation.
With a local Funeral Director, your body will be treated with care, just the same as everyone they take into their care.
I have heard where online companies, will take bodies half way round the country, in a van full of other bodies, and not wash and dress them. You are cremated in the attire that you passed in.
With a local Funeral Director, your loved ones are also able to visit you. As I said above, many families are devastated when they learn someone has paid for an online Direct Cremation, as they don't feel they have said goodbye. At least if you go with a local Funeral Director, your loved ones can visit and say goodbye if they wish to.
With a local Funeral Director you can collect the ashes when you are ready, and from people that are trained to help you, and understand how you feel in that moment.
With an online company, some send them back by courier. I've heard of people opening the door and not expecting to receive the ashes, to be handed their loved one.
As much as these online companies say, you can arrange a memorial at your convenience. In reality this doesn't happen, as the family feel they are going against your wishes. Often leaving them feeling empty.
If you are considering a Direct Cremation, pop along to your local Funeral Directors and speak to them.
The price they give you has no hidden extras, unlike the online companies, and they often work out cheaper.
I'll do another post on what to consider if your are thinking of booking a Direct Cremation.
