Debbie Oakes Sacred Ceremonies: Destination Celebrant

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Debbie Oakes Sacred Ceremonies: Destination Celebrant Celebrating the milestones of life with words of power crafted from your story into the ceremony of your dreams. Weddings, blessings & vows It is hewn from love.

An internationally published writer and storyteller, I write to tell your tales of love, hope, joy and renewal. “That, I think, is the power of ceremony. It marries the mundane to the sacred. The water turns to wine; the coffee to a prayer.”
Robin Wall Kimmerer
When I saw this quote - I thought - that's it! It sums it up perfectly. Ritual + celebration transform mundane moments into magical experi

ences we will carry in our hearts forever. I am a Destination Celebrant ready to craft your unique love story into the designer ceremony of your dreams. I am based in London, Umbria & Tuscany - and will fly anywhere to sprinkle stardust on your special celebration. What is a sacred ceremony? A sacred ceremony is one that reflects you and your relationship. It is sculpted from your experiences, hopes, dreams and stories. It is full of your personality. Not only that, but it is the best ceremony you will ever be at! We will work to find special readings, songs, symbolic rituals poems and even performances. What is a celebrant?

Celebrants craft highly personalised ceremonies to make your important milestones simply unforgettable. The big difference between a registrar or traditional ceremony is: 'what you want - baby we got it'. We write the script according to your story, we hold the ceremony where you want it, we add lashings of tradition, dashings of ritual - or not! It's all up to you! Where can we have our wedding ceremony?

A celebrant led service can be anywhere! Literally anywhere you want... well as long as it's legal. I am based in the UK and Italy, but my bags are ready to be packed for castles, beaches, forests, lakes, villas, pubs, gardens or even a field. Is the wedding service legally binding?

In a word - no. Not yet. In England and Wales, the 'legal bit' can only happen in a recognised religious ceremony or by a registrar. We are working to change that with the movement. But in the meantime it's not such a big hassle. Most couples go to the registrar and get the 'Two x Two' (couple and 2 witnesses) basic legal marriage... then come to me for the real wedding party! What about Naming Ceremonies, Vow renewals, Divorce Rituals and Space Clearing and Pet Funerals? There are no legal qualifications required, but all the spirit necessary (and study done) is right here

Who writes the wedding vows?

I would love to help you write your vows. To find your own words to express the feelings in your heart. Alternatively I can point you in the direction of more traditional vows and poetry. Are celebrant ceremonies religious?

I have a degree in comparative religion and am thrilled to incorporate any meaningful spiritual or religious ritual. It is a sacred day after all! But if you prefer to keep your blessings earth bound that is just fine too. What does a celebrant service include? How does it work? First we meet! On Zoom, Skype or WhatsApp if you are far away. This is a free, no-obligation chat to get to know each other. I can answer any questions you have. I will also get to know a bit about your relationship as well as your hopes, dreams and wishes for your day. When you decide I’m the right celebrant to craft your ceremony, I’ll give you a booking form, you pay a deposit to confirm your date. Then comes the fun part! I start working on your script until the service reflects the perfect sacred ceremony of your desires! Before the wedding ceremony we’ll have another meeting to finalise all the logistics and make sure everyone feels prepared for the big day. I'm the maestra and stage manager of your ceremony so everything will go according to plan. Then on the day of I arrive early to make sure the space is sacred and everything is ready. Are you qualified? I trained with and am a member of the Academy of Modern Celebrants. I am a writer and journalist as well as a Reiki healer

There were large helpings of traditional good luck for this boutique wedding in Umbria. In Italy rain is considered a sy...
11/06/2023

There were large helpings of traditional good luck for this boutique wedding in Umbria. In Italy rain is considered a symbol of abundance and an Italian expression states:“Sposa bagnata, sposa fortunata” - “A wet bride is a lucky bride”.

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🔮 Saging has a rich and ancient history. 🌿 Also known as smudging, it is a ceremonial ritual that has been passed down t...
25/05/2023

🔮 Saging has a rich and ancient history. 🌿 Also known as smudging, it is a ceremonial ritual that has been passed down through generations in various cultures around the world. The practice involves burning dried herbs, typically sage, to cleanse and purify the energy of a space or person. 🌬️💫

Indigenous American traditions have long recognized the power of saging, using it for spiritual purification, healing rituals, and connecting with the divine. The sacred smoke is believed to carry prayers, intentions, and positive energy, helping to dispel negative influences and create a harmonious environment. 🙏🌌

🌱Ancient Egyptians used aromatic herbs to cleanse and purify their temples and homes.

In European folklore, it was believed that burning sage would ward off evil spirits and bring about good luck. ✨

💫 Beyond even spiritual significance, saging has gained popularity in modern times as a way to promote mindfulness, relaxation, and well-being. To set the sacred tone for you special day… or even to help clear the energy of sadness after divorce 🌈
DM to find out more about how we can set (or reset!) those positive vibes
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✨ Celebrant Blessings: Embracing Love, Unity, and Second Chances ✨Love knows no boundaries, and celebrant led sacred cel...
22/05/2023

✨ Celebrant Blessings: Embracing Love, Unity, and Second Chances ✨

Love knows no boundaries, and celebrant led sacred celebrations reflect that!✨

🌺 As a celebrant, I honour the unique stories that bring couples together. Inclusive marriages remind us that love transcends gender, race, and background, celebrating the union of two souls united by love

🕊️ Second marriages embody the courage to start anew, embracing the wisdom gained from past experiences. They embody hope, resilience, and the willingness to take another chance at love

💫Message me to enquire about a unique celebration made just for you



There is nothing more moving than a celebration of love that exudes the personalities and passion of the couple. Contact...
20/05/2023

There is nothing more moving than a celebration of love that exudes the personalities and passion of the couple. Contact me for a bespoke ceremony that is sacred to you
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Love and mystery is all around us!My iPhone camera captures a magical double rainbow over these two bridal party beautie...
18/05/2022

Love and mystery is all around us!
My iPhone camera captures a magical double rainbow over these two bridal party beauties as they create floral masterpieces for the big day 🌺 🌹
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Love this handy glossary by boutique wedding planner Tabby Kerwin ❤️🥂
17/05/2022

Love this handy glossary by boutique wedding planner Tabby Kerwin ❤️🥂

WEDDINGS ON THE MIND;

There's so many terms flying around in the 'wedding world' that if you're planning a wedding for the first time, you might not understand their meaning.

Find out what these mean in our new blog over on our website - link in the bio

These beautiful bridal flowers were hand grown by the gorgeous bride. 6 months before her wedding she went - seeds in ha...
10/05/2022

These beautiful bridal flowers were hand grown by the gorgeous bride. 6 months before her wedding she went - seeds in hand - to the fertile earth of in Umbria where they blossomed like love on a summers day! Awwww! So beautiful 🤩. Naturally only a bespoke wedding ceremony would do! ☀️
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Everything prepared and ready to rock the olive grove with love 💕 🥂                                                     ...
09/05/2022

Everything prepared and ready to rock the olive grove with love 💕
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Kicking off the Destination Wedding season in style with final touches at La Dogana Agrtourismo! With breathtaking views...
07/05/2022

Kicking off the Destination Wedding season in style with final touches at La Dogana Agrtourismo! With breathtaking views over Lake Trasimeno in Umbria and the incredible team of hosts, the Ferrari family, wedding planner it really was the perfect day! More will follow!
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🔔 Sound the Bells 🔔“Weddings on the Mind” will be released in January 2022!Tabby Kerwin] has put her heart and soul into...
27/09/2021

🔔 Sound the Bells 🔔
“Weddings on the Mind” will be released in January 2022!
Tabby Kerwin] has put her heart and soul into it to supporting the wellbeing of wonderful couples as they plan their weddings for a while now… and the ‘how to survival guide’ will be released soon!

It’s going to be packed full of information and top practical tips to keep you emotionally fit during your whole wedding experience from the very first day into your amazing happy marriage.
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Contact Tabby Kerwin] for more information 😀
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Can you hear them? 🔔 😁———————————Visit the link in the bio find out more about how we can make the magical designer cere...
30/08/2021

Can you hear them? 🔔 😁

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😍 I LOVE to share Villa Gioiella with new friends I havent met yet! ——————————Visit the link in the bio to see more on A...
16/08/2021

😍 I LOVE to share Villa Gioiella with new friends I havent met yet!
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Visit the link in the bio to see more on Airbnb or DM me for fabuloso rates - or any questions ☺️
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There’s nothing like a walk in the park to wake up the muse! ~~~~~~~Visit the link in the bio find out more about how we...
25/07/2021

There’s nothing like a walk in the park to wake up the muse!
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Visit the link in the bio find out more about how we can make the magical designer ceremony of your dreams
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There’s nothings like a personalised poem to leave a mark on the heart of your beloved 😉. Talk to me about how we can wr...
23/07/2021

There’s nothings like a personalised poem to leave a mark on the heart of your beloved 😉. Talk to me about how we can write a sneaky poem. There won’t be a dry eye in the house 😁

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A sacred ceremony weaves all the unique threads of your love-story into the celebration of your dreams~~~~~~~~~~Contact ...
18/07/2021

A sacred ceremony weaves all the unique threads of your love-story into the celebration of your dreams
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Contact me to find out more about the ceremony you always wanted but didn’t know who to ask
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Never underestimate the power of a good storyteller to translate your love into an unforgettable celebration: vows, vow ...
14/07/2021

Never underestimate the power of a good storyteller to translate your love into an unforgettable celebration: vows, vow renewal, blessings 💕

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Did you know that by using Sacred Geometry it’s possible to shift the vibration of your ceremonial space to create a sac...
12/07/2021

Did you know that by using Sacred Geometry it’s possible to shift the vibration of your ceremonial space to create a sacred temple ⛩ energy?
A temple that will contain all the rituals, love and bespoke words of power for your day ✝️🔯🕉💜
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Enquire for more information about how we can create a sacred ceremony with high energy, fun and spirit
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In all the ordinary moments of life there is the possibility of extraordinary. Sometimes it is harder to find than in ot...
08/07/2021

In all the ordinary moments of life
there is the possibility of extraordinary.
Sometimes it is harder to find than in others. It requires mindfulness. To be present for the moment at hand not drifting backwards and forwards in time.
And that’s the magical thing about love. When you’re in it it seems to draw all the stray threads of your soul back to the present moment to be, and be beheld by, the person you love

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05/07/2021

My motivation as your celebrant is to add the spirit into inspiration.
Talk to me about how we can make your celebration of love uniquely, unmistakably you!
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I don’t believe in ordinary 💕Contact me to create a crated ceremony dripping with magic and love 💗 *                    ...
04/07/2021

I don’t believe in ordinary 💕
Contact me to create a crated ceremony dripping with magic and love 💗
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RIGHT! Who wants to get married, renew their vows, name their baby or clear out some bad juju from a divorce?!'Italian V...
20/06/2021

RIGHT! Who wants to get married, renew their vows, name their baby or clear out some bad juju from a divorce?!
'Italian Village Experience Weddings' and Sacred Ceremonies in London are starting to take shape! Now on with my website baby growing slowly. Still tweaking the photography but super excited!

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Spirit, ritual, fun and words of power and always the energy of your love added to your unique 🎊 🍾———————————Visit the l...
16/06/2021

Spirit, ritual, fun and words of power and always the energy of your love added to your unique 🎊 🍾

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Even as it bloomsAnd surely as petals fallLove’s grace, beauty change ———————————Visit the link in the bio find out more...
15/05/2021

Even as it blooms
And surely as petals fall
Love’s grace, beauty change

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I can’t think a of a better place to get married than the most romantic place in the world! Can you? Enquire for Italian...
02/05/2021

I can’t think a of a better place to get married than the most romantic place in the world! Can you? Enquire for Italian village wedding experiences, destination weddings and vow renewals in English 🤍🥂🤍

Transformed by this love,Ordinary moments bloomSacred marigolds ———————————Visit the link in the bio find out more about...
19/04/2021

Transformed by this love,
Ordinary moments bloom
Sacred marigolds

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I love to have lots of crystals around my home. When I write a script for a ceremony I feel like they help clear my mind...
17/04/2021

I love to have lots of crystals around my home. When I write a script for a ceremony I feel like they help clear my mind, connect with energy and charge up my creativity. They work hard so I brought them down to the beach for a little cleansing bath 😅
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Hope springs from barrenPlaces, stardust falls through coldBlack skies. Love conquers————————————Visit the link in the b...
13/04/2021

Hope springs from barren
Places, stardust falls through cold
Black skies. Love conquers

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15/06/2020

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Debbie Oakes Sacred Ceremonies

Life’s magnificent milestones: forks in the road of life that are defined by love, loss, birth and marriage; these are the moments we celebrate and honour ourselves and those that walk alongside us on our journey; our friends and family. A journalist and storyteller, I will customise your ceremony (marriage, divorce or naming ceremony) to be an expression of who you are. Based in London, Umbria and Tuscany in Italy, and the Algarve in Portugal, I will write the love story of your dreams