06/05/2024
News good or bad has a habit of travelling fast and many of you reading this will already know that the world of amateur theatre in Greater Manchester has lost a gem in Carla Stokes. It’s heartbreaking news and we send our love and sincere condolences to Carla’s sister Gail and wider family.
Carla was quite simply one of the nicest souls you could ever wish to meet. She had a heart of gold, true community spirit in her DNA and her dedication and commitment to amateur theatre was second to none, all 58 years of it! Anyone who had the privilege of working with her, acting with her, being directed by her or just being with her will always remember her kindness and ability to encourage or explain in a positive way why something needed doing differently. She brought her wealth of experience to so many situations and all of this was combined with a fabulous sense of humour.
Carla sat on the GMDF Board for more years than any of us care to remember and there too was the kindness, the degree of measure and common sense. She was for a long time a member of the One Act Play Festival team and irony of ironies, where is this year’s One Act Festival? Yes, it’s at Guide Bridge Theatre which was, of course, Carla’s home society. Think it’s fair to say there will be a few glasses raised to a special lady that week! In amongst all the heartbreak there are some happy and indeed laugh out loud moments so many of us have shared with Carla to which we can raise those glasses.
Many of you will know Carla when she visited your theatre as an adjudicator. There too, her passion for theatre, her huge experience, sense of balance and measure came to the fore. That said, Carla was no push over, she said it as it was and if something was “not right” she said so. We have one Board member, Gerard Lennox, with very special memories of Carla’s skills in the adjudicating department as she mentored him in the art and indeed launched him into the world of adjudicating. In turn, Ian Towsend will be reflecting on his mentoring of Carla as she set out to adjudicate. What goes round comes round.
As GBT have already said, Carla faced her illness with grace and this picture was taken at last year’s Awards Night. We already knew at that point that there was a tough road ahead but there she was smiling away determined to announce and give out the awards she had chosen. What a girl!
There are no words to be honest to say how much we shall miss Carla but she leaves behind in so, so many of us a fantastic legacy which will stand us all in good stead.
Once again, our heartfelt condolences to Carla’s immediate family and her GBT family.
Stella, Paul, Anita, Gerard, Barbara, Hazel, Jane and Jude
GMDF