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Uptight Clothing Uptight Clothing- HOME OF THE COLOURED WDDING DREESS, small independent alternative corset bridal designer, based in Bedfordshire,UK

Uptight Clothing is a small independent business, based in Houghton Regis, Bedfordshire. Run by Janice who works from a small wooden box in the garden... specializing in Alternative,couture, corseted wedding/bridal gowns, made to measure underwear corsets and bespoke fantasy jewellery. All inspired by period, theatrical and fantasy elements, but mainly by the wearer themselves. All corsets and gow

ns are completely designed and made to order individually for each client, all clients deal exclusively with the designer, Janice Whitehorn, from the initial consultation, fittings and finishes, dealing with you personally, all the way. Founded in 1999 by Janice Whitehorn, Uptight Clothing is a small independent business, specialising in Alternative, Couture -Corseted -Period Inspired Bridal Gowns, bespoke Underwear corsets and Fantasy Jewellery, all made to measure in the showroom in Bedfordshire.

22/12/2024
Warmest winter wishes to all!!! I'm officially off for a few weeks, but my phone has chucked up a few seasonal pics whic...
20/12/2024

Warmest winter wishes to all!!!
I'm officially off for a few weeks, but my phone has chucked up a few seasonal pics which is handy....🥰.
Thank you for all your support over this year, it's really appreciated.
Much love to all and see you on the other side.
Janice-Uptight ###

Golden shadow...and the dog walker.....
19/12/2024

Golden shadow...and the dog walker.....

Life beyond frocks....an update...So its been 4 years, 4 years since my brief interlude with parent hood, via adoption. ...
11/12/2024

Life beyond frocks....an update...

So its been 4 years, 4 years since my brief interlude with parent hood, via adoption.

Failed Adoption.

I can say it now. I failed adoption.

This time 4 years ago, I couldn't even imagine how to get past this, at the time, horrendous situation that unravelled, and hit me in ways I could not even conceive, my trust was broken, my heart was broken, I was broken.

This time, 4 years ago, I was married, and just in the first few weeks of an amazing adoption placement of a little 3 year old girl, Ella.
It was December 2020, and one the long waited day, we finally had our little family home. It was also covid lock down 3.

I didn't know then, how this story, our lives, would play out, I knew it would not be easy, but I had no idea things could or would, have turned out the way they did.

I write this now, as I have spent the past 3 years fighting Milton Keynes child services, and today I received a formal apology, which from all legal stand points, is a good thing, but from my hearts, it doesn't ever feel enough, I don't think anything will ever feel enough. I want to scream from the roof tops, but I cant, so this is the next best thing I guess.

For 5 brief, but very intense months, we had a daughter, and I very openly wrote posts on this, on how amazing and how hard it was, as most of my friends knew of our struggles to have a family and have been a great support in all this.

I asked for advice and help on the hard bits, I was a first time Mum, I thought this was ok. I trusted people.

I wrote openly, in the way I am known, with swears, in a jokey way, never to offend, the great C word, I used to use with joy, I can't even say any more, not here, or it will be banned, removed, much like our daughter.

To update, the last posts on this were of the sudden loss of E, back in 2021, via removal from social services. That moment, was the most horrific and traumatic moment of my life, (not in the world, I know worse things happen, but for me, this was it, the worst thing happened)

I'm trying to write this as concisely as I can, for me, I need to let it out now, finally, to let go, move on, and for those who were wondering, WTF happened....

We adopted a little girl during lock down Nov 2020-April 2021.
This was a rewarding yet challenging experience, ( this is me summarising this A LOT) in which we struggled and asked for help with, but due to the worldwide pandemic situation, there was much that got lost in translation, and many lessons have been learned from this from both sides.
It ended due to safeguarding referral from a third party taking words I had said as a joke, taken out of context and taken as real.

Due to lock down, all of this was done via zoom meetings, and has since been concluded that this was not appropriate, it was also noted that no investigation was done before removing the child, and 'due to covid lockdown' many of the usual procedures and protocols by the LA were not done.

We, post removal, had to take the very difficult decision to not proceeded with a court case to fight this as it would have taken over 3 years, with E, being unable to settle anywhere until this was done, this we could not do to her.
It was this decision that ended our marriage.

The past 3 years have been spent in the complaints system trying to do 3 main things, find the truth, for E and for me.

I finally got to find out some facts that I needed to know, that she was asking for me, but I was never told this. That the police were never involved, it was never by them, taken seriously. That significant information regarding her past was known and not told to us. I needed be prepaid for as much as I could and I was not.

There's so much to this, I can't really go into it legally, as its not just me involved.
But I did finally get to the truth, many things that Milton Keynes child services lied to us about, tried to cover up, hide, they all came out in the stage 2 71 page report.
Most of the 15 complaints made against them were upheld, and they say they are sorry and are trying to ensure this will not happen again.

To start with, I wanted to spill my rage about this, the wrong doing, the lies the sadness of it all, but as I started, I realise...

I don't.

I want to celebrate the good time we had, of which there were many, and I don't want these erased by anger or bitterness, that this long dragged out case was doing, ...hello heart attack 2023...
I want to make peace with it all, and move on , gently.

I know many people successfully adopt, and that's brilliant, but I also know that many don't, many have had really bad experience's with this, and the massive lack of support and lies that can happen in these cases. these things need to be talked about and listened to, not hid from sight like it never happened, we need to learn from our mistakes, or else what's the point.??

What I have learned from this has been invaluable.

Before the adoption, I started counselling, to find my voice, which I did so, maybe too much...or maybe not enough, or maybe I just wasn't using it in the right way...

I have gained from this, was an official dyslexia diagnosis, sounds small, but was massive, I mess up with words, a lot, I cover this with humour and swearing, which has never been real problem to me before, until this, social services, who do not have a sense of humour, sarcasm is not on their radar, and there's probably a good reason for this. I just learned this too late.

I was unable to communicate with SS in the way in which they needed me to, my learning disability and anxiety, made me look to them like I was being incompliant, when actually I was just struggling to communicate how they wanted.

All I wanted was to be the best Mum I could. These things became contradictory at many points, I should have been better at expressing myself, but I wasn't, and I will have to live with that forever.

If I done things again, I would be very different, I would get a PA! I would ask for help earlier, and not take things on until they are in place.

Since this, they have made adjustments to help with this and many other areas.

Positive changes have happened, and that's important, I will never see E again, but she will know what really happened and that we never stopped loving her, that's the most important thing.

The rest I can't change, but I just needed her to know this, above all.

So after working so hard to find my voice, I then had to find silence, which is really hard, when you are screaming inside...

Then patience, waiting 3 long years for the complaints procedure, and my god, will they try to get you too give up...

DONT.

Then the screams become quieter, and the reflections become longer.

I think of all the parent training we had to do, which never seemed enough, and some how feel, that the only thing that has made me become a good parent now, to no child, was losing one.

For those who supported me, us, throughout this, so I can't thank you enough, I will be forever grateful.
I received many messages of support, and I may never have replied, I wasn't in the best place, but I really appreciated your kind words and insights.

They say everything happens for a reason, which you can never understand at the time, and maybe my time to be Ella's mum was only ever meant to to brief, and to send us both off to where we both needed to be, with knowledge that we could have only gained from each other, I hope so.

I can honestly say I'm much happier now, I never thought that could happen after all this, in a very different life to what I'd planned.
...an unexpected, bonus round if you like, with a man who makes me laugh every day, and a few close friends who I know have my back, no matter what.

And that's more than enough.

Many things I have learnt from this experience, is that, love, friendship and endurance is everything.

Keep going and keep loving.

A celebration of love, no matter how short, it still counts.

Ella and me, Nov 2020, April 2021.
xx

When the Medieval Babes borrowed all the frocks...
08/12/2024

When the Medieval Babes borrowed all the frocks...

Winter weddings 💚💙💜💚💙💜Jo and John's  beautiful  wedding at Coombe Abby hotel, an amazing gothic venue, cant belive it wa...
03/12/2024

Winter weddings 💚💙💜💚💙💜

Jo and John's beautiful wedding at Coombe Abby hotel, an amazing gothic venue, cant belive it was 12 years ago....!

Jo had a rich Turquoise silk gown, with embriodered corset and full ball gown skirt, with long train that also busted up, with purple nets and purple crushed velvet bolero jacket with flounced sleeves.
Jewellery, crown and necklace I silver wire work with purple and turquoise swarovski crystals also by Uptight.

02/12/2024

DO YOU WANT TO BE FEATURED ON ROCK N ROLL BRIDE?

We are always looking for real wedding stories to publish on our website and in the magazine. We share weddings of all styles, budgets and from all over the world.

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THINGS WE REALLY LOVE:
💕Happy, smiley couples in love.
💕Creative and beautiful portraits.
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💕Brides with attitude and a rockin’ sense of style.
💕Wicked, unique wedding details (cakes, centrepieces, flowers etc).
💕Pets at weddings. More the merrier.

THINGS WE DON’T REALLY LOVE:
💔Selective colour. Never ever ever do it. EVER.
💔Dutch tilt. It makes us feel seasick.
💔Over-processed, inconsistently edited photos.
💔HUGE high res image files embedded into emails.
💔Super traditional, uncreative weddings.
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to find out more.

Remember - being ‘Rock n Roll’ is not about being cool, a rebel or even thinking of the most unique idea you can. It’s about planning a day that reflects you and your partner and declaring your love in your own special way. You don’t have to be wacky; you don’t have to be offbeat and you don’t have to be intentionally quirky – you just have to be you.

We can't WAIT to hear from you!

Also...while we were doing pics, Kate kindly modled the Stitches and Sparkles green ombre shawl I ordered, this was just...
29/11/2024

Also...while we were doing pics, Kate kindly modled the Stitches and Sparkles green ombre shawl I ordered, this was just for me, but I wanted to see how it looked over a dress, if you don't know who Stitches and Sparkles are, she's an amazing crotcheting lady making these fab skull shawls which are a great shoulder warmer to go over your dress, highly recommend!

https://uptightclothing.co.uk/new-corset-belts

The lovely Kate was surprised by her bf, with a suprise made to measure, Bespoke Coutue Corset belt, 'Forest floor'....e...
29/11/2024

The lovely Kate was surprised by her bf, with a suprise made to measure, Bespoke Coutue Corset belt, 'Forest floor'....embroidered with toadstools, ferns and moon on green silk. Fully b***d front and back with thick elastic sides.

Whilst picking up her belt she also had a magical Uptight Experience dress up day!

I've now finally...got a link to this option on the website....oh happy days lol.

I can probably fit a few in before Xmas if needed, pm me for avaliablity xx

https://uptightclothing.co.uk/new-corset-belts

Here's some better camera pics of yesterday's fun! The lovely Kate was surprised by her bf, with a suprise made to measu...
29/11/2024

Here's some better camera pics of yesterday's fun!

The lovely Kate was surprised by her bf, with a suprise made to measure, Bespoke Coutue Corset belt, 'Forest floor'....embroidered with toadstools, ferns and moon on green silk. Fully b***d front and back with thick elastic sides.

Whilst picking up her belt she also had a magical Uptight Experience dress up day!

I've now finally...got a link to this option on the website....oh happy days lol.

I can probably fit a few in before Xmas if needed, pm me for avaliablity xx

https://uptightclothing.co.uk/new-corset-belts

A few sneek phone pics of the lovely Kate on her 'Uptight Experience'  afternoon.Kates amazing boyfriend surprised her w...
28/11/2024

A few sneek phone pics of the lovely Kate on her 'Uptight Experience' afternoon.

Kates amazing boyfriend surprised her with a bespoke corset belt, 'Forest Floor' embroidered toadstool, ferns, flowers and moon on green silk, modled here on a sample gown, along side a dress up day in the showroom.

Bespoke Corset belts can be ordered via messaging me to discuss details, and as gift vouchers for £250, for loved ones via mail order or with the bonus in person Uptight Experience, dress up day.

https://uptightclothing.co.uk/new-corset-belts

When the lovely Alayah popped by for dress up in the sample gowns.....
27/11/2024

When the lovely Alayah popped by for dress up in the sample gowns.....

27/11/2024
Sepia Winter gown,  with red velvet wrap.Sutton park, Nov 2024.Full set of images on FB and www.uptightclothing.co.uk Wi...
27/11/2024

Sepia Winter gown, with red velvet wrap.
Sutton park, Nov 2024.
Full set of images on FB and www.uptightclothing.co.uk
With thanks to modeling.

Sepia Winter gown shoot with red velvet wrap and fairy Queen crown, Sutton park, Nov 2024.Full set of pics on FB and www...
27/11/2024

Sepia Winter gown shoot with red velvet wrap and fairy Queen crown, Sutton park, Nov 2024.
Full set of pics on FB and www.uptightclothing.co.uk
With thanks to for modeling.

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