04/09/2026
As more people choose direct cremation rather than a traditional funeral service, I’m finding there is still a very real need for families and friends to come together.
Sometimes that might be at a graveside or somewhere special to scatter ashes. Sometimes it’s in a pub, a favourite place, or simply somewhere everyone can gather comfortably.
The setting doesn’t really matter. What matters is having the opportunity to come together, to express what you’re feeling, to remember, and to tell the stories of the person who has died.
I’ve always been a storyteller, and being alongside families at these times — helping them find the words and tell those stories — is something I consider a real privilege.
Because even when someone chooses not to have a traditional funeral, their story still deserves to be told. And that really matters.
And of course, hearing feedback from families such as the following really helps me to know that I'm in the right groove...
"The best celebrant we have heard. Made the occasion, knowing when to lighten the mood. A real professional."