Elaine's Wedding Consultancy

21/11/2024

💍 Finding the one, YOUR PERFECT WEDDING DRESS is such an exciting part of your wedding journey! 🥂
I just had to share these fabulous tips from Wendy at Osh Gosh Gowns in Scunthorpe to help you get started:

If you're a in Lincolnshire or beyond, I can't recommend Wendy and her team enough. Book your appointment today and start your journey to finding the dress that’s just right!

Here are 3 top tips to help guide you when starting your search for THE ONE. Finding your perfect wedding dress is an exciting and special journey, and we want to make sure you do it right - first time ✨

🤍Start early: we always advise to start the search a year before your big day, as wedding dresses can take 6-8 months to be delivered to us. Our in-house seamstress will take care of any tweaks that need to be made on your dress 2-3 months before, to allow for a flawless fit.

🤍Set a budget: setting a clear budget before your appointment will allow you to focus more on the dress that you want, as well as any finishing touches such as a veil, shoes, jewellery and other accessories that will complete your bridal look.

🤍Choose Osh Gosh Gowns: our friendly, welcoming team make it their mission to make everyone feel at home at our boutique. With years of experience in bridal styling, we are sure to find each one of our brides the most perfect dress - every time! Don't just take our word for it - our hundreds of 5 star reviews on Google will reassure you🫶

Book your appointment with us today and let our team help you through this amazing journey you're about to begin👰

https://oshgoshgowns.co.uk/book-your-appointment/

21/11/2024

WHY I WANTED TO CREATE MY WEDDING PLANNING GUIDES

This has been a calling of mine since 2019. Wow, where has the time gone? Writing this down makes me wonder, Why has this taken me so long? Well, here are a few excuses 😆, planning weddings, COVID, then catching up on all the delayed weddings, and then emotional decision to give up my venue lease at Elsham Hall after 13 successful years. It’s been a bit of a journey! But now, I have a clearer mind and i still love all things wedding, so I’m finally making it happen. Release day is on the horizon, eeeeeeek, I'm so excited!

With over 20 years of experience in the wedding industry (wow, I feel old just saying that), I can honestly say I live and breathe weddings. I've had the absolute honour of working with so many amazing couples, helping them create the most magical days of their lives, and being called a real-life Fairy Godmother. ✨

Along the way, I’ve learned something important: while I plan weddings daily, most couples plan just one. They often need a bit of guidance. And while having a professional wedding planner or coordinator is a huge help, not every couple has the budget for it, so that’s where my guides will come in.

I’m pouring my heart and expertise into these digital wedding planning guides. Every time I proofread them, I can’t help but add more detail, there’s just so much to share! They’ve turned out to be incredibly detailed and comprehensive, even surprising me with how much knowledge there is to pass on.

These guides are for couples who want to plan their big day themselves but still want the tips, tools, and confidence of an experienced professional by their side. I’ve broken everything down into separate manageable guide books covering every aspect of the day. My goal is to take the stress and overwhelm out of wedding planning and make the process as fun and exciting as it should be!

These guides aren’t just about logistics, they are about helping you bring your vision to life while staying on budget, being organised, and feeling confident.

Whether you’re planning solo or have a team of family and friends, these guides are here to support you every step of the way. Think of them as your behind-the-scenes cheerleader and expert consultant all rolled into one.

Got a wedding planning question on your mind? Drop it in the comments! I’d love to include tips for you in future posts.

✨ Excited to get your hands on the guides? Join the waitlist today, the link is in my bio and be the first to know when they’re available!

19/11/2024

Make Wedding Planning a Breeze! 📝✨

Wondering where to start on your wedding planning journey?

I see so many of you are excited to plan your weddings for 2025, 2026, or even 2027! It’s such an exciting time but can also feel overwhelming if you’re not sure where to begin

I wanted to share a few resources soon to be released that might be just what you’re looking for!

WEDDING PLANNING GUIDE BOOKS

For those who want to take a more hands on approach, I’m thrilled to be releasing my guidebooks soon! 16 to choose from depending on what you need help with, they are all packed with advice, checklists, and timelines that will simplify the planning process and help you stay organised from engagement to “I do.”

ELAINE'S WEDDING PLANNING LOUNGE

Think of this as your go-to space for all things wedding planning. It’s a community and resource hub for couples just like you who are navigating the planning process. Inside, you’ll find guidance, tools, insider tips, and support to help you feel confident every step of the way. Plus, you’ll be part of a community of other couples planning their weddings!

💌 JOIN THE WAITLIST 💌

Doors to the Wedding Planning Lounge will be opening soon, and I would love to see you there! By joining the waitlist, you’ll be the first to know when membership opens. It’s a chance to secure your spot and start getting a head start on planning with support from the start.

Let’s make your wedding planning journey as magical as your big day itself! 💖

Ready to stay organised, reduce stress, and enjoy every moment of your planning journey? Check out my blog for more details!

https://elaines-wedding-consultancy.co.uk/workbooks-and-planning-guides

18/11/2024

Looking for your Wedding Venue? - THE BARN AT WILLERBY are having Christmas Open Evening’s / 5th & 10th December ✨

The Barn will be dressed with all our festive decorations for our open evenings have a questions or want to pop for a wander at your own leisure we will be open between 5pm - 8pm… We will have a glass of fizz waiting for you! 🤍

Christmas Open Evening’s / 5th & 10th December ✨

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The Barn will be dressed with all our festive decorations for our open evenings have a questions or want to pop for a wander at your own leisure we will be open between 5pm - 8pm… We will have a glass of fizz waiting for you! 🤍

12/11/2024

✨ PLANNING A WEDDING? ✨

My Ultimate Wedding Planning Guides are almost ready!

Get on the VIP Waitlist for my all-new wedding planning guides, packed with expert tips, detailed checklists, and creative inspo for your big day!

💍 JOIN THE WAITLIST NOW

Be the first to know when I release them!
Your journey to a perfectly planned wedding starts here.

🔗 Tap the link in bio and receive my FREE DECOR inspiration guide.

Let’s make wedding planning fun and stress-free! 🌟

08/11/2024

FRIDAY FEELINGS

Feeling extra grateful today for the amazing wedding teams we get to work alongside! 💖

Each wedding is a beautiful collaboration, and we couldn’t do it without our talented suppliers who bring creativity, passion, and a touch of magic to every celebration.

Whether it’s the florists who create floral dreams, photographers capturing every joyful moment, or caterers crafting unforgettable menus—your dedication makes each wedding day truly special.

Thank you for making weddings amazing!

Here’s to many many more unforgettable celebrations ! 🥂💫

05/11/2024

5 Creative Ways to Ask Your Bridesmaids to Say ‘Yes’

Getting ready to pop the other big question? Asking your closest friends to be by your side on your big day is such a special moment! Here are 5 creative ways to ask your bridesmaids to join you on your wedding planning journey:

1. Personalised Gift Boxes
Fill a cute box with little treasures like mini champagne bottles, candles, a heartfelt note, and maybe a hint of your wedding colors. It’s a memorable, keepsake-filled way to ask!

2. Memory Lane Scrapbook
Put together photos, mementos, and little stories of your favorite memories together. Add a final page with a note: “Will you be my bridesmaid?” It’s sentimental and truly meaningful!

3. Coffee Date Surprise
Plan a casual coffee date and surprise her with a special drink order or a custom mug that says, “Bridesmaid?” It’s sweet, simple, and gives you a chance to celebrate together!

4. Jewelry Keepsakes
Gift each friend a necklace or bracelet with a personal message. Include a card that says, “I couldn’t say ‘I do’ without you!”

5. Throw a Bridesmaid Brunch
Gather your friends for a surprise brunch and pop the question over mimosas and pastries. It’s a perfect way to kick off the celebration and make memories right from the start.

However you ask, just remember it’s about celebrating the amazing people in your life who’ll be by your side. Want to read more, pop across to my blog for tips on choosing your bridesmaids

https://elaines-wedding-consultancy.co.uk/tips-for-choosing-your-bridesmaids

Cheers to friendship, laughter, and a beautiful wedding journey ahead!

30/10/2024

"Eeeeeeeek - Beyond excited today,

Today’s been extra exciting for me, I received 5 of the 16 digital wedding planning guides in printed format.

These are meant to be used digitally, for you to edit and personalise, but I wanted to print a few to show you just how packed they are with everything you need to plan a wedding, they include everything you need from budgeting to decor inspiration, all the details that matter.

Now I’m on a mission to get the rest printed! I'm just so proud of my little self lol

If you're planning your big day and care about the simple things, these guidebooks were made for you! Join the waitlist comment join below or DM me.

A Day in my life as a Wedding Consultant 💍✨

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27/10/2024

Sundays are for slowing down and soaking it all in. I've had a lovely relaxed Sunday, a spot of shopping with hubby this morning, a bit of creative faffing this aftenoon and then my cherubs were here for a family roast this evening.

Feeling lucky and appreciating the little moments that get overlooked in the hustle and bustle.

Tonights plan , fluffy blankets, a cheeky slice of cake and a movie snuggled with him indoors. (because, why not?).

I hope you’re all taking a little bit of time for yourselves today too! ☕

25/10/2024

✨ Loving this post on the magic of a marquee wedding! ✨

For those dreaming of a wedding that’s truly “you,” a marquee could be the perfect answer. From limitless customisation to setting the scene wherever you like, marquees offer so much flexibility and charm! Check out these incredible benefits from Tony and Chrysta of Village Farm Marquees and start envisioning your own unique setup.

✨ 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝘽𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙛𝙞𝙩𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝙖 𝙈𝙖𝙧𝙦𝙪𝙚𝙚 𝙒𝙚𝙙𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 ✨

When it comes to your special day, nothing beats the flexibility and charm of a marquee wedding! Here are a few reasons why:

Unlimited Customisation: A marquee is a blank canvas, giving you total control over décor, layout, lighting, and more! From rustic chic, to modern elegance, you can bring your dream wedding to life.

Location Flexibility: Whether it’s a countryside field or your own garden, you choose the location that’s meaningful to you.

All-Weather Comfort: Marquees are adaptable to any weather, ensuring your guests are comfortable rain or shine.

Personalised Atmosphere: Want a cosy, intimate vibe or a grand, spacious event? Marquees give you the freedom to set the tone.

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25/10/2024

Happy Friday, everyone! 😊

Hope you’ve all had a fab week and are ready for a well-deserved weekend break! I've been head down, tapping away on my computer nonstop for the last three days, putting the finishing touches on my wedding planning guides. They’re so close to being ready, I can almost taste it! Eeeeeek! Just a few more tweaks, reviews, and proofing, and I’ll be ready to start sharing them with everyone.

Wishing you all a wonderful weekend, whatever you may be doing! I’m off to recharge and get ready for another exciting week in the wedding world!🚶‍♂️🌳🌲🌴

22/10/2024

Hi, I’m Elaine! 👋

I thought I would share a little about me.

Weddings have been my heart for 20+ years, and I genuinely love helping couples bring their dream day to life, with all the magic and joy that comes with it.

My journey started with a flair for interior design, which quickly turned into a love for creative wedding styling. I spent 13 years leasing and managing a fairy-tale countryside venue, where I wore many hats venue manager, wedding planner, creative stylist, and so much more. Every wedding I helped to create was unique, and that’s what I adore about this industry. 💕

Before weddings, I was a Customer Service Manager at British Gas, where my passion for going above and beyond was born. Now, I bring that same dedication to couples, venues, and suppliers, ensuring every celebration is stress-free and filled with joy.

On the personal side, I’m a proud mum of three grown kids and wife to the most supportive husband. I moved from Leicester to Lincolnshire 18 years ago to start our journey together, and though we don’t always get as much time together, we love our weekend walks through the forest. 🌲 And yes, I’m obsessed with autumn colours, Sunday roasts, and dancing—even if my body can’t keep up like it used to! 😅

Oh, and fun fact—my husband and I got married on Christmas Eve, under a tree full of fairy lights. 🌟 So Christmas is definitely my favourite time of year! 🎄

Why do I do what I do? Because I want to make wedding planning easier for you, and I’m here to guide you every step of the way. Weddings should be joyful, and I’m all about creating moments that reflect your love story. ❤️

Photograph courtesy of Lovely Lindsay of

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22/10/2024

I absolutely love this idea! If a marquee isn’t in the budget, no need to fret! Tony and Chrysta of Village Farm Marquees can transform any venue, be it a cosy barn, a sleek modern hall, or even an outdoor space, into the perfect setting for your celebration.

Check out their post below and see how they can work their magic to create the dream atmosphere for your event! ✨

If you can’t quite stretch your budget for a marquee, don’t worry – we can also transform a venue of your choice! ✨

Whether it’s a charming barn, a modern hall, or an outdoor space, we’ll work our magic to create the perfect setting for your event.

21/10/2024

Are you wedding dress hunting, Osh Gosh Gowns, have some excellent advise to prepare for your appointment.

Are you about to start your search for your wedding dress? 💍

Before you visit us, do a little research to get an idea of the style of dress you like.

💖 You can visit our YouTube channel to browse some of the dresses we stock https://www.youtube.com/
💖 Browse bridal magazines
💖 Follow us on social media

Feel free to bring pictures to your appointment with ideas of styles you like, but please don’t worry if you aren’t sure. We are here to help you, and we will experiment with different styles and colours during your time with us.

https://oshgoshgowns.co.uk/book-your-appointment/

15/10/2024

Planning a Winter Wedding

If you know me or have read my blog about my very own winter wonderland wedding on Christmas Eve, you already know it's my favorite time of year for a wedding! As someone who has planned and coordinated hundreds of winter weddings, I can confidently say the timing and flow of your day are key to making it all come together beautifully.

One important thing to consider is daylight—it fades much earlier in winter, often around 4pm, which means capturing those perfect moments needs a little more planning. For example, a 1pm ceremony gives you plenty of time for those stunning sunset shots famously know as the golden hour that photographers love to include in your album. 🌅

Winter weddings can be just as full of joy and celebration as a summer wedding and at least your guests know they won't get sunburnt. Imagine the warm glow of candles, a fire pit for Marshmallows, cosy wraps and blankets and of course a hot chocolate station for your guests, The magical sparkle of a winter evening. ✨ Just perfect in my eyes.

Want to see how a perfect winter timeline could look? Take a look at my blog

12/10/2024

"So many exciting things are happening behind the scenes! Eeeeeeek!

After several fabulous conversations with wedding venues and wedding suppliers, it looks like I'm evolving beyond wedding consultancy and exclusive decor packages into something so much bigger and better. I'm bursting with excitement and can’t wait to spill the beans! 😆 🤣 😂

For now, I can share that my "Wedding Planning Guide Books"and my wedding planning club, "Elaine's Wedding Planning Lounge", are both on the way!

I announced earlier this week that the "Wedding Planning Guide Books" are in the works. Now, I’m thrilled to reveal that the long-awaited club doors will be opening soon, too! I'm Nervous and excited to see my plans coming together 😊 🤗

If you or someone you know someone planning a wedding and would love to be the first to know? Sign up to my waitlist. message for the link. Please also share this post!

Sign up for the waitlist now, discounts, freebies, and more await those on the list.

The best is yet to come... so stay tuned for more exciting updates. 🌟



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09/10/2024

✨ Another busy day in Elaine's world of wedding planning! ✨

Up bright and early, putting the finishing touches on some beautiful decor samples before hitting the road to deliver them. 💫 Then, I spent the morning creating a lovely wedding showcase in a beautiful consultation room. I do love designing wedding decor!
After that, it was time for some business training (because learning never stops 📚) and I even squeezed in a little food shopping! 🛍️
It’s all go, but I wouldn’t have it any other way—even in what some call "retirement," it seems! 🌟

A spot of lunch, a cup of tea, and now I’m ready for this afternoon’s projects.

Stay tuned for exciting things coming soon… 👀💖

19/11/2023

📣 Attention, bargain hunters! 🛍️ Today is the final day of our clearance sale, and you don't want to miss out on these incredible deals! Whether it's for a wedding you're into crafting, home buys, or already thinking about Christmas presents, we've got something for everyone. 🎁

Pop in say hi, at Elsham Hall - The Barn, North Lincolnshire, DN20 0QZ before 3pm today. We're located in a beautiful setting, theres a xmas market opposit us, so you can enjoy a lovely time while finding amazing items at unbeatable prices. ⏰

Join us for the last chance to grab some incredible bargains! See you there! 🎉❤️


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