
11/08/2025
GET MARRIED ...
And then
Have a Wedding !!!
Confused?
You may well be, but did you know that you can separate the legals from the celebratory?
If you want your wedding day to be a celebration of your unique quirks, in a place of your choosing at a time of your choosing then choose an independent celebrant.
If you want a short, statutory and legal ceremony, use a registrar.
To legally marry, you need to give notice and then on the day repeat 2 sentences after the registrar, sign the schedule and that's it...your legal...congratulations. Go out, celebrate and bask in the glow.
Having timed a basic registration ceremony...it took 6 minutes. Short, sweet and perfunctory.
Your wedding ceremony with a celebrant is as long or as short as you want it to be.
You might exchange vows and rings, have meaningful symbolic rituals, readings, music, entertainment and ANYTHING ELSE that will make your ceremony unforgettable. Celebratory, fun, complete.
No two ceremonies the same as no two couples are the same...
You can have both, despite everything the registration services may tell you, we have right now ( until the law changes) two distinct roles. They are complimentary roles and SHOULD work alongside each other seamlessly, however the registration services are monopolising the industry and in some cases bullying the venues and couples into not using celebrants!
I could go on a rant, but I am not going to, suffice to say if you want to know more about how to get married and then have a wedding that suits you, drop me a line