Jayne Belinda Celebrant for all occasions

29/07/2024

Nobody told me,
how often I would see your face,
then blink and see another instead.
Nobody told me,
that trying to recall the exact sound of your laugh,
would keep me awake at night.
Nobody told me,
that I would reach for my phone so often,
to heartbreakingly put it back down again.
Nobody told me,
that you were my moon and my sun,
my reason and my way,
my morning and my night.
Nobody told me,
that your life would feel like a movie I made up in my head,
that I would seek out others who had seen it too,
just to feel you there for a moment.
Nobody told me that food would lose taste,
that air would lack oxygen,
that I would miss you,
this much.
I miss you,
this much.
Nobody told me.
- Donna Ashworth
‘I Wish I Knew’

Thank you Donna Ashworth
~Beautiful Ramblings

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18/07/2024

May all your wounds find healing, in the last and enduring sleep 💫

Thank you Rose Betts, such love 🧡

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28/06/2024

Such beautiful words ❤️

If Tomorrow Starts Without Me (Saddest Poem Ever)

When tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
all filled with tears for me,

I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
and each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too.

But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,
and said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye
For all my life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.

I had so much to live for,
So much left yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
and all the fun we had

If I could re-live yesterday
Just even for a while,
I'd say good-bye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realized,
That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories,
would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne.

He said, "This is eternity,
And all I've promised you."
Today your life on earth is past,
But here life starts anew

I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day's the same way
There's no longing for the past.

You have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true.
Though there were times
You did some things
You knew you shouldn't do.

But you have been forgiven
And now at last you're free.
So won't you come and take my hand
And share my life with me?

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.

Author believed to be
~ David Romano

【PS】

16/06/2024

❤️

LOVE CAME FIRST

You don’t move on after loss, but you must move with. You must shake hands with grief, welcome her in, for she lives with you now. Pull her a chair at the table and offer her comfort. She is not the monster you first thought her to be. She is love. And she will walk with you now, stay with you now, peacefully. If you let her.
And on the days when your anger is high, remember why she came, remember who she represents. Remember. Grief came to you my friend because love came first. Love came first...

Donna Ashworth

For anyone struggling today

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06/06/2024

02/06/2024

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28/05/2024

🧡I missed you quietly today. So quietly that no one noticed.

I missed you as I climbed out of bed and as I brushed my teeth; when I waited at the lights on the drive into work and as I heard the rain outside my window.

I missed you as I ordered lunch and as I kicked off my shoes when I got home; as I switched off the lights and climbed into bed for the night.

I missed you without tears or noise or fanfare.
But oh how I felt it.

I felt it in the morning, at lunchtime, in the evening and at night. I felt it as I woke, as I waited, as I worked. I felt it at home, on the road, in the light, in the dark, in the rain.

I felt it in every one of those moments, each one sitting heavier and heavier as the weight of me missing you kept growing and growing.

Yes, I missed you so quietly today.

But I felt it so loudly.

*****

Becky Hemsley 2024

19/05/2024

I hope death is like
being carried to your bedroom
when you were a child
& fell asleep on the couch
during a family party.
I hope you can hear the laughter
from the next room.

by Lilies Abounded

art | Henry Raymond Thompson (fl. 1892-1904)

12/05/2024

👼 WHEN YOU SAY GOODBYE TO A PARENT 👼
You are suddenly living in a whole new world.

You are no longer ‘the child’ and regardless of how long you have officially been ‘grown up’ for, you realise you actually never were until this moment. The shock of this adjustment will shake your very core.

When you have finally said goodbye to both your parents, assuming you were lucky enough to have had two. You are an orphan on this earth and that never, ever gets easier to take no matter how old and grey you are yourself and no matter how many children of your own you have.

You see, a part of your body is physically connected to the people that made it and also a part of your soul. When they no longer live, it is as if you are missing something practical that you need – like a finger or an arm. Because really, you are. You are missing your parent and that is something far more necessary than any limb.

And yet the connection is so strong it carries on somehow, no-one knows how exactly. But they are there. In some way, shape or form they are still guiding you if you listen closely enough. You can hear the words they would choose to say to you.

You can feel the warmth of their approval, their smile when a goal is achieved, their all-consuming love filling the air around you when a baby is born they haven’t met.

If you watch your children very closely you will see that they too have a connection with your parents long after they are gone. They will say things that resonate with you because it brings so many memories of the parent you are missing. They will carry on traits, thoughts and sometimes they will even see them in their dreams.

This is not something we can explain.

Love is a very mystical and wondrous entity.

It is far better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all and grief, grief is the price of that love. The deeper the love the stronger the grief.

When you say goodbye to a parent, do not forget to connect with that little girl who still lives inside you somewhere.

Take very good care of her, for she, she will be alone and scared.

When you say goodbye to your parents, you lose an identity, a place in the world. When the people who put you on this earth are no longer here, it changes everything.

Look after yourself the way they looked after you and listen out for them when you need it the most.

They never really leave.

Donna Ashworth

15/03/2024

Grief…just this…there are no words…💔

Melancholy, a sculpture created by Albert Gyorgy, portrays the void that grief leaves us with. This famous sculpture can be found at Lake Geneva, Switzerland

12/03/2024

A truly remarkable tribute to a wonderful life and loved by all who knew her. Insight Funeral Directors, your service to all who walk through your door is commendable 🦋 thank you for trusting me once again to conduct this service in her honour, it was a privilege 🦋

Today, we had the honour of taking a remarkable lady on her final journey. It was very clear to see you are so deeply loved and hugely missed by all your family and friends. A stunning service with such beautiful tributes. What a fantastic turnout you had.

May you rest in eternal peace.

It was our honour to care for you and your family every step of the way.

Thank you to our wonderful celebrant Jayne for providing such a touching service, as always.

07/03/2024

This is such a magnificent idea… 🙏flowers are not always an affordable option, leaving loved ones feeling overwhelmed and often a little guilty for not being able to have their wishes met… until we discovered that you can ‘ hire a wreath ‘

Go and take a look here 🙏

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Silky funeral flowers for hire.The environmentally friendly and economical way to say goodbye.

06/03/2024

Go out today and play your cards right… be playful , be brave , be you and really enjoy yourself as much as you can ❤️

Touch & humour.. bring them into your day ❤️

28/02/2024

❤️ let your grief show up….

27/02/2024

💙Our loved ones are always here💙

23/02/2024

What a beautiful unique venue 💛

A celebrant lead ceremony doing things your way on your special Day 💛

Weddings:

Calling all adventurous lovebirds! Are you tired of the same old, boring wedding venues Well, picture this: a magical woodland wedding straight out of a fairytale! ���

Now, I know what you're thinking. "Why would I want to get married in a forest Won't there be bugs, unpredictable weather, and the risk of my dress getting dirty" Hold on, my dear skeptics, because I've got some tips and tricks that will make you reconsider!

First things first, embrace the unexpected! Embrace the whimsy of nature as your backdrop, with rays of sunlight filtering through the leaves, creating a dreamy atmosphere. �

Secondly, think practicality with a touch of enchantment. Opt for comfortable shoes that won't sink into the grass, and add a rustic touch to your decor with wooden signs and fairy lights. Trust me, you'll be awe-struck by the rustic charm!

Next up, let's talk about the weather. � Yes, it can be unpredictable, especially in dear old Blighty, but have no fear! Prepare some cozy blankets and umbrellas for your guests, and don't forget to check the forecast beforehand. Rain or shine, your love will shine bright! �

Now, let's address the elephant in the room: bugs. � Don't worry, folks, we've got you covered! Set up citronella candles and insect repellents to keep those pesky critters away. Plus, you can even turn it into a romantic gesture by lighting up the night with flickering flames! ��

So, are you ready to say "I do" in the midst of nature's embrace Share your thoughts and tag someone who would dare to have a woodland wedding! Let's unleash the magic of the forest! �

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14/02/2024

Always remember.. ❤️

If it has no death.. then it has no life, therefore nothing matters or it all matters, but the meaning of life.. is that it ends!

The beauty in the flower is that it fades..

02/02/2024

Yesterday, we had the honour of taking a much loved gentleman on his final journey to Mercia Forest Crematorium. It was clear to see you are so deeply loved and hugely missed by all your family and friends. A beautiful service, with a remarkable life tribute.

May you rest in eternal peace.

It was our honour to care for you and your family every step of the way.

Thank you to Jayne Belinda Celebrant for all occasions for providing such a touching service.

12/12/2023

If pulled, grief is a thread that will keep us naked.. 🙏 Mark Nepo thank you for this gentle reminder to lean in.

06/12/2023

Nothing you love is lost. Not really. Things, people—they always go away, sooner or later. You can’t hold them, any more than you can hold moonlight. But if they’ve touched you, if they’re inside you, then they’re still yours. The only things you ever really have are the ones you hold inside your heart. ~Bruce Coville

17/11/2023

Passed loved ones creating soundtracks of happenings….🩷

09/11/2023

Funerals… one of the most powerful experiences of inextricable connection 🙏🏻

But, please don’t wait until then to connect ❤️

26/10/2023

According to Hitched, celebrant-led ceremonies are taking the wedding world by storm. In fact, they've been ranked as NUMBER 1 for 2024 trends! 🏆 Here's the juicy tidbit:

"There’s been a 49% increase in search volume for ‘celebrant weddings’ in the past year with 880 monthly searches now taking place, and traffic to our article about celebrant-led weddings has increased by an incredible 157%, showing a clear trend for unique wedding ceremonies."

It is always the greatest joy to lead a wedding 💍

26/09/2023

Take them with you ❤️

24/08/2023

All that has been.. still is ❤️

01/08/2023

We are all so brave 🙏

27/07/2023

Every step of our journey matters ❤️

As an independent family-run funeral directors we arrange and conduct a wide range of funerals, burials and cremations. We have experience when it comes to tailoring all aspects of a funeral to the families wishes.
We understand how important a loved one's funeral is and we are here to help you create the send off your loved one deserves.
You may require a bespoke coffin that reflects your loved one and their personality, that's not a problem. You may require an alternative hearse or a horse and carriage, we have a wide choice for you to choose from. We can advise on floral arrangements for your loved ones funeral.
We also look at the smaller but just as important details, you may wish to have a family photo or personal item to go in your loved one’s hands. Memorial Jewellery or other keepsakes, we can help you with this. We add a personal touch to all areas of the service to ensure the funeral is personalised to your loved one.
Nothing is too much, we are here for you from the first phone call and we will be here for you after your loved one’s funeral.

Please feel free to give us a call for more information.
01902 970736

21/07/2023

The release of Doves at a funeral is a touching and significant marker of the occasion as they symbolise peace, hope, faith and love.
At a funeral or memorial service, a dove release can be a peaceful and healing tribute and the sight of these beautiful birds soaring into the sky can bring comfort at such a sad time.

For more information please feel free to call us on 01902 970736