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04/12/2024

Many factors go into a**l s*x.

A**l stimulation can be very intense and overwhelm other senses. That’s why some guys are exclusive bottoms.
Dr. Love
There’s also how well you fit. It involves hips, flexibility, the size/shape of his colon, where his prostate is and the size/shape/hardness of your c**k. Sometimes it’s great and feels effortless. Most of the time adjusting positions will help you find a good fit. But sometimes your bodies don’t fit and it’s uncomfortable or painful.
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And there’s the emotional/s*xual connection. You either have chemistry or you don’t. We’re more responsive to each other when we’re connecting emotionally and s*xually. So, take the time for romance, kissing and snuggling.
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Taking all that into account:

1. Most bottoms get hard intermittently. It’s the same for most tops. If you take a break from a**l in*******se and do something else for a while, you’ll both be ready to get back in the groove.

2. Some guys are hard the whole time! It’s usually guys under 30. As you age your er****ons change.

3. Some bottoms don’t get hard. It doesn’t mean they’re not enjoying it, but a**l stimulation doesn’t cause er****ons for some.

4. Some guys can’t get hard and bottoming is the way they receive s*xual pleasure.
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I’ve had both a hard on and I’ve been limp during a**l s*x. It’s not a sign that I’m not turned on during s*x, it’s sometimes something else that I am enjoying very much. , I’ve had what is called a soft or**sm that can be just as intense as a hard or**sm! It really depends on where my mind is at the time! I could be really into the feeling of his c**k going into and out of me and picturing what it looks like for him. He could also be hitting my prostate just the right way that is more pleasurable than having an er****on and can give me either a physical or**sm or a mental or**sm.
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Sometimes it’s all about making sure that my man is satisfied with the feelings he is having, how much enjoyment he is receiving from fu***ng me. For me it can also be about how close we are, knowing that there’s no physical way of getting closer than for him to be inside my body! I would say the best thing about being a bottom is I get to feel him inside me and then that look he gives me when he’s about to cm inside of me and that last thrust as his body tenses up and he starts cu***ng deep inside me trying to get every last drop out!
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Being a bottom, feeling that hard c**k inside you and knowing that its so hard as the guy is so h***y for you and is enjoying your body is amazing, giving him pleasure, feeling every twitch of his body, every shudder makes me want to take him further i want that satisfaction of feeling him or**sm, .. pleasuring him is the first form of enjoyment but then there is the physical side of it, the feeling when your feeling his c**k and each time he slides pushes his c**k deep inside my ass my whole body reacts and i get excited waiting and wanting that first little spasm of my butt as soon as i feel that i am in heaven enjoying each spasm more intense each time, i feel my gland swell and i shake as the first drops of cm seep from my c**k, i feel amazing and want his cm inside me

04/12/2024

I would like to believe that love is hard to find in general. Why? Because it is not something that has a traditional or conventional path to. You don't get a step by step guide to love. You find it by the same old tried and tested formula of trial and error. You try to love someone and hope they would do the same but you err and the cycle restarts. To me, it's as simple as that.
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I do understand your reference to the LGBT community though. I think it's because we don't really care as much for love as we portray ourselves to be in need of it. Ironically, I believe this is something we can learn from straight people.

As a gay man it has been challenging for me to find love. I come across people who I would genuinely like to know, explore and may be let them become a part of my life. Some do make it or I become a part of their lives. A few I think I could love. Fewer still I have actually fallen in love with only to realize that it's been an exercise in futility.
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For most part what we think of love is that it's mostly got to do with physical appearance. There in we confuse it with lust which, though important, is not what sustains a long term relationship. You are attracted to a person's appearance for sure but you're mistaken if that is the person as a whole. You don't get to truly love a person without knowing them inside out. When you say you love them you need to love their perfections as well as their imperfections. You need to love them in mirth as you need to in pain. You need to love them when they're your knight in shining Armour as well as when they annoy the s**t out of you. You don't need to just love the idea of them but them. Period.
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And love comes with adjustments and a thousand different tiny compromises that one should be willing to make.
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That is, I think, what we lack. For a fact we rarely care to go beyond one’s appearance. We fantasise spending lustful evenings and nights and mornings with them without admitting to ourselves that may be what they need is a person to know them and not a slave to worship their body. For the less endowed we shame them to the ends of the earth sometimes to an extent that we break their spirit and the way they look at themselves in the mirror. And to then ask why we, who are so hungry for love, never actually find it is a bit of an understatement. We do find love but not in ways we want. When we desire chiseled abs we get a plump tummy, when we desire flowing, ebony hair we get a receding hairline or dandruff filled scalp, when we desire someone who speaks to our soul we get someone who barely ever speaks. And instead of learning to love them we set our sight on the unattainable, people we can't be or can't have. Isn't it obvious now why we feel so alone?
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To summarize, a profound quote from a forgettable movie comes to mind- “ You like because but you love despite.”

19/10/2024

A team can be as small as 2 members and as large as 200 members. Generally a team is from 3 to 12 members with 3 or 4 extra people to cheer, replace and serve the active members. Everyone on a team helps to get the team to a goal of some sort.
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As a rule no member of a team is expected to do it all, but can, if necessary. Each player or member can lead, follow or do neither but support. The beneficiaries of a team is every one on the team and not just one person. When the goal is reached, everyone gets to hold the trophy or gets an equal part of the reward.
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Though a cash reward may go to one player, often there are many people behind than win, whom share the prize.

12/10/2024

You always get a special kick on opening day, no matter how many you go through. You look forward to it like a birthday party when you're a kid. You think something wonderful is going to happen.
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10/07/2024

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01/06/2024

Gay pride exists because, for decades, gay people were shamed for their involuntary gayness. They didn’t choose to be gay, and society told them they had to choose to be straight. Otherwise, they were ostracized, discriminated against, beaten, imprisoned, or killed for being born gay.
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Gay pride isn’t about being proud of being gay as an accomplishment. It is about feeling free to be yourself, instead of pretending to be someone you're not. It's about not worrying about fitting society’s expectations for gender roles and behavior. Gay pride today means reclaiming the identity that was repressed for so long. It's liberating and forces those against LGBT rights to accept the fact that LGBTQ+ individuals refuse to be trodden upon any longer.
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We still have gay pride festivals and parades because some people still believe being gay is morally wrong. It's because of bigots, haters, and fanatics who refuse to accept that not everyone conforms to their worldview.

Why don’t we have straight pride festivals? Because straight people have never had to deal with systemic discrimination or being afraid to come out as heteros*xual to their friends and family. Gay people have, and sadly, some still do worry about those things.

Last week, I helped my college’s Diversity Pride Club start our first-ever LGBT pride festival in my town. It was a smashing success and opened some people's eyes to the struggles and resilience of the LGBTQ+ community. That is what gay pride is all about - getting back up after you’ve fallen.
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And until people stop pushing others down, they’ll continue to rise back up.
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23/05/2024

In a long-term romantic relationship, s*x is important. In a platonic or familial relationship, it's not necessary.

I make that distinction because there are couples who choose to remain together long-term platonically because they have familial love for each other and they no longer have s*x. But in that situation, for it to be a healthy arrangement, it must be mutually agreed upon. They love and stay together because they see each other like family. But the romantic part of that relationship no longer exists, and they love each other more like family members than romantic partners.

You can also have romantic relationships in the short term that may not involve s*x. Some people delay s*x until marriage, and before marriage, they date happily without s*x. But that’s a temporary situation. When they get married, there is s*x and it is a priority if the romantic relationship is to remain.
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To maintain a romantic relationship long-term, s*x has to be a priority. It not only fulfills a biological need, but it’s vital for intimacy and remaining romantically connected over long periods. Once the s*x starts to go, the romance goes with it, and the relationship starts to transition to a familial bond. That’s why a lot of times in long-term relationships when couples don’t prioritize s*x, their relationship transitions to one that is more like roommates, who deeply care about the other, but also co-parent or share other life responsibilities. Long-term, committed couples should prioritize s*x as a means of expressing their romantic love for the other; not as a duty or responsibility, or a means to an end. If you want to keep the spark alive over years and decades, you have to prioritize that romantic connection, even when life gets busy.
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30/04/2024

"No! Why would you think that? Why wouldn't he allow his 'friend' to stay at his home if circumstances suggested such an arrangement? Should he not invite a friend to stay at their home strictly because he was gay? Unless you ask because you already suspect the husband of being a closet homos*xual independently from his friend? In that case, possibly? But, I wouldn't read much into it otherwise. I think that's more for the wife to be concerned about than anyone else. Don't you?"
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14/04/2024

Cruising, or flirting, is just the act of sharing enough about yourself and your interest in someone to see if they respond. says Dr. Love Aswani, It does require careful attention to subtle facial signals, or minutiae. Whether you are shy or not, you can develop this skill with practice. The people who have a hard time with it are usually on the Asperger's spectrum, or Neuro-Divergent, who sometimes have a hard time reading nonverbal cues.

I'm a gay man, out and open since junior high school. Very confident, outgoing, masculine. If I were single and saw you at the gym and was attracted, I would make and hold eye contact for just a bit too long. I would relax my guard so you could see a smile in my eyes, and make sure I was always looking your way whenever you turned to look. If you did the same, I'd go over and say hi. Chat about stuff looking for something we have in common. Oh, you like taking hikes in the woods? Me too! Let's get together this weekend and check out a trail together! Once we're chatting amiably, I'll say quite directly, “Man I couldn't take my eyes off you at the gym. You've got amazing form, and your posture shows off those shoulders.
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None of this is really that hard. Put a little more honesty and creativity into your compliments, be highly specific. Just saying “Oh man you are so hot, can I f*ck you" lacks originality and seriously hot guys hear that a hundred times a week.
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27/03/2024

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I'm bi I guess. But I didn't know it until my best friend's dad made sure I fell in love with men.. my best friend j and I go way back. Years. As close as family. His parents divorced and his father worked and worked never having time for himself.
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I felt bad but he showed me what a dad is since mine was an alcoholic who only cared about himself. I always went to his dad's house for a week or two with him in the summer. Very rural scene. One night camping in the yard. Just us “boys” and J fell asleep early one night. His dad I'll call jj was having beer after beer but showed no signs of being tired so I accompanied him outside by the fire while j slept. Now he starts having to p*e every 15 to 20 minutes.
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I realize the more he p*es the deeper he goes the more close and less shy. This happens until he is basically p*eing close to me and then I guess I let my curiosity get the best of me.. I snuck a peak. And I guess I don't have a good poker face because he looked at me and realized he was hanging out in sight and went “Oh geez I'm so sorry..” and acted like he put it away while he turned in the other direction. Me stunned. Realized for the first time in my life that for some odd reason, I was just stuck not knowing why I was slowly getting aroused.
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He turns around and is still apologizing and then I realize he was being cute.. he was being s*xy. He was being flirty. He never actually put away his unbelievably perfect p***s.. it was out. And starting to make an appearance.. laughing he goes “Got ya” and my reaction was “Got me…” he got serious and stopped smiling and started putting it back in fast and ashamed. I realized I embarrassed him.

I failed to think of what to do or what to say so I said “Hey!!!” He stopped and said “Hey..? What's up?” I sapparently!” He smiled and continued buttoning up. I felt so bad. I wanted to make him happy for some reason I still cannot explain.. he was so close I just went from sitting on the bench to filing to my knees. I wrapped my arms around the backs of his legs and rested my cheek on his manhood. I can feel the warmth and the blood pushing in.. so I put my mouth over it through his jeans and breathed hot curious thirsty air as he moaned “mm huhmmm uhhh.. that feels good” I reached for his belt at the same time he did so we helped each other pull his jeans down until just underwear. I can smell his scent. His work sweat. Dirt. Testosterone…I p*el down his un**es just enough to smell his p***s between his sc***um and the base of his shaft.. closed my eyes and made sweet passionate love to a man.
You know!
I was so scared and so turned on I ej******ed in 2 minutes without ever touching myself. He pulls back and says…” Wow easy your gonna make me cum…” I just smiled and said “So” and tried to get another taste. That's when he reminded me who the man was. I was not in charge.. he handled me like I was a little girl. And I made sure he understood I wasn't giving any doubt that I wanted to stop. I just looked at his p***s like a starved inmate would surf and turf without ever breaking direct visual contact until he spun me around and manly pushed my strong but not mean to the Bench on my knees. I pop up to allow him to remove my basketball shorts as he leaves one leg up and one down. He smelled my butt like a lion sniffs his women and spits all over my t***y I reach back to stroke him and he tells me to spit on my hand. Then tells me to guide him inside me.
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Now I was scared as I intentionally made sure he was missing the angle. He says “That's it. Playtime over. If you don't want to..” I helped it try to go in. Slowly stretching me but carefully. He starts losing some hard and says “Get me hard again “ I spin around and start again. Now he's super tired. Every time I go from head to mimid-shaft thrusts in a little more each time until I cough and begin to backpedal. Again.. the man will show me. “UT UT hold on.. relax. Breathe through your nose… I got u.” I have my second ej*******on as I hold onto his butt with my hands trying to tap out but I was just playing along. I knew I wasn't in charge of anything except letting him I'm charge until he was done.. a few rough minutes of pushing my throat open back and forth with this thing. I felt my next command: back around, bend over all the way put it in. “ finally the heads in. “ I gagaspedrom slight pain slightly surprised and realized I was trouble now. He slowly works me like a tight tight-fitting on a pitcher's hand until he assures me “Good job. . You're such a brave one. That's it. Just relax. I'm proud of you..” omg. I'm in another world. I'm Saying things like “Uhh uhh oh no. Please! Don't hurt me. Oww oww. “ I loved it and hated it equally. Until all of a sudden, He pulled out of me completely. Now I missed it! I turn around and show him my puzzled face. “Turn around I'm not done “ I turned around and bent over at the same time “Yes sir” and opened my cheeks.. he slid back inside me. Hard as ever and now more spit.
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Now he's not having s*x with me. He's pounding me. I'm seeing stars and in shock. Fast. Hard. Grunting with every stroke. I'm sore and start to squirm uncomfortable for 5 seconds and all of a sudden. I felt the strongest hands on earth pin me down like railroad spikes.. “don't move stay right there! Stay!!” LOL stay? Like I had a choice. His strokes shorten and slow and he releases. “Yuhhhhhh huhhhhhh ffyyaaa uhhhh uhh” and there it was. I can't describe how I felt. I was ashamed of myself. Felt dirty. But happy and proud that I went through it for 2 reasons…1 new experience 2 I loved that I was the one who was able to take care of this. I made him happy and showed him I was honored to be used by him. I loved it. We would end end hooking up constantly over the next few years.

24/03/2024

From what straight people in love have told me, it’s no different to being in love as a gay man.

I’ve had a few relationships over the years, most with some pretty strong emotions involved, but only one I’d say I was truly in love. He came first for me, always, before even my family. He was the first person I thought about when I woke up and the last person I thought about before I fell asleep. When we were apart, which was often as we were teens when we got together, I thought about him constantly. Not in a way that prevented me from doing things, but things like ‘Oh, he would love that’ or ‘I have to tell him about this’. Dr. Love Brand Aswani The most important thing to me was that he was happy, I always wanted to see him smiling and content, and I was always one of the first, after his parents, to jump in and comfort or support him when he needed it.
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Only you dey feel my pains
I won’t say my world revolved around him because it didn't. We weren’t together all the time, I had friends and hobbies and dreams that he wasn’t necessarily a part of, though I loved it when he was included in these aspects of my life and I was included in those aspects of his. I respected him and trusted him, and I was lucky enough that he felt the same way about me.

Most of my friends are straight, which makes sense as there are far more straight people than gay people, and I’ve talked about relationships with my friends often over the years. For those who have been in love, they’ve described things in a very similar way to how I have here. Some aren’t as good with words as I am, some are way better, some are very poetic, some very practical, but it always sounds, at its core, the same. There is no difference between how it feels for a straight person to fall in love compared to a gay person, the feelings are generally the same.

23/03/2024

As a gay top myself, I can tell what I find attractive in a bottom. First off, a great smile is a huge turn-on, along with a slim or defined build and a s*xy, round ass. But for me, physically, it tends to be mostly about the body and the ass. I love my guys with smooth, at least somewhat well-defined bodies and especially a smooth, round ass.

The mental part is huge too, and I love my bottoms to be eager and excited by pleasing me. The bottom’s role is to give of themselves, using their mind and body to seduce turn on the top, while the top’s role is to dominate the bottom with his c**k and body and use the bottom’s body for his pleasure and in the process bringing the bottom intense satisfaction and pleasure too. But the top’s pleasure comes from penetrating and dominating, while the bottom’s pleasure comes from being dominated, penetrated, stretched, and filled. , But the s*x act itself - the act of fu***ng - is like an intense dance, where we each play off each other’s reactions and emotions, the top watching for the bottom’s moans and facial reactions to his thrusts and the bottom reacting to the top’s thrusts and moans. The effects tend to snowball, and what’s attractive is when a bottom plays off my emotions, letting me know exactly how he feels from my c**k inside him, from my thrusts, and from my moans, especially as I start to get close. A bottom who communicates this through moans, words, expressions, and even body positioning, is a huge turn-on for me.

Ultimately, the entire act of fu***ng builds up to the moment where, at the top, I cm inside the bottom. This and the seconds building up to it are almost always the most exciting part of the s*x act for both me and almost all the bottoms I have been with, and I love when a bottom communicates that he is anticipating my or**sm as much as I am, and when he reacts just as much as I do with moans and words and movements as I cm inside him. When that happens, it’s like we’ve worked together, as a team, to reach the hottest, most intense, and most intimate moment possible.
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This can be an amazing moment for two lovers, but it can also be amazing to go through it with a person you just met, having brought each other to a moment of intense pleasure and connection as your initial attraction for each other built into an explosive finale, leaving us both spent but in bliss, the bottom in my strong arms. A bottom who gets all that makes the hottest bottom of all to me.

20/03/2024

Highly ambitious with whatever they decide to focus on.

Very passionate. Independent. Can be manipulative if they choose to be. Can be at times so focused on a goal they can be unaware of situations that need more attention. Sexually open individuals; there is always a surprise when in this area and a Capricorn has no problem letting you know this once they get to know you.

They tend to explore different ideas, jack-of-all-trades masters at some. When it comes to social graces they are very good at these kinds of politics. They pay attention to and secure relationships with powerful people. Can be very judgemental. Can come off quiet and observant but when you get to know them they can be very talkative. They tend to adopt the rules of the world and how people see it but also have deep compassion in certain areas more than others and go over and beyond to show dedication in such areas.
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They tend to be hypocritical and close-minded in certain areas, especially in personal relationships and family situations. They can be stubborn in their views even when proven wrong. They will not tell the person they are right but if proven they will adopt the idea in a new situation. They may come off as negative but they are natural “fixers”, they like to see what's wrong to make it right.

Can be highly dramatic and emotionally selfish but tangibly they are great at giving and tend to pick out unique gifts that are well-appreciated and thoughtful. Their work ethic is uncanny almost or just as much as Virgo another earth sign. Once a Capricorn sees that someone or something is not conducive to the way they like to live they will remove them or it from their life never to look back. If I had to describe Capricorn in one word it would be passionate.

16/03/2024

How are you Aswani, I’m 14 and gay. I can’t find no one. What should I do?

After reading the comments, some of which are quite rude and scary, I suggest you keep it simple .
So dear...
Your still young and lonely. What you seem to need are friends who you share similiar interests with. A lot of people jumped right to s*x, but you didnt say that. So friends first goes a long ways with this sort of thing. Explains , Someone mentioned PFLAG, and that might work in some areas. There is a group in many areas called Meetup, which organize groups with similiar interests, from cooking, art, birdwatching, hiking, canoeing, biking, and even gay and le***an teen groups. So, do some internet searches for local gay groups for teens or just fun activities. I took a welding class at an Art group and met a fun group of people. Please avoid anyone older, as in 18 or over online, because you can cause a lot of legal problems if your doing stuff with someone considered an adult, and be honest about your age.

Also, this would be a great time to follow any hobby or interest you have in your free time. If your busy and having fun, you’ll make new friends there and find that you just needed to be exposed to a new group of people. You would be shocked how friendly people are when your volunteering for a pet adoption agency to walk their pups on your free time, or help cleaning kennels, etc. Volunteers have a very welcoming attitude as a group. Even Veterinary offices like help from volunteers. Also food banks, daycares. In two years or so, you will need to be considering what you want to do after high school if college is in your future, so you might want to find a group or interest that involves that so you can figure out if you really like that interest as a career.
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And , finally, just try to be the kind of person you want to be and how you want to be treated. If your kind and nice to people , that is how people will usually treat you. If they dont, then dont hang out with them. My gram used to say You get what you give. If you whine or throw temper tantrums, you better get used to that for the rest of your life. My mom said “You are as successful as your p*ers” so look at your circle of friends and figure out what you want to be. In otherwords, if your hanging out with potheads all the time, guess what? If your hanging out with friends that are talking about where they are planning on going to college, guess what? If your friends are working jobs and volunteering, thats a good direction to be going as a teenager and you get to have spending money. Its like drifing in a river, and you let that current take you where you want to end up when your older. If you dont hop on the boat, you never get there.
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Good luck. Not a religious person here, so I will say work hard, believe in Karma, and stay safe. A little planning goes a long ways.

11/03/2024

Since you’re the only one who knows them best, only you know the difference. And if are in a relationship and still got feelings for someone else,it probably means that your boyfriend’s love wasn’t enough for you. I hope you’re getting me.

And you know what, it’s okay. It happens, so it’s fine. Be at ease first, then think calmly. Just think about what’s important.

In my opinion, be with your guy. Even after knowing about your affair , he’s still with you. He cares, girl. Let him learn to love you little more, care more and be the best guy he could be for you. Learn to let him learn and take his time. Explains , Temptations will always come but you need to let it go. Spend more time with him, send him texts, be at your best at romance , it will bring out the best in him as a lover and might be possible that it will cool down your heart.
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You know what, it’s easy to break up and land into a new and fresh relationships. But being in love with the same for the rest of your life, it’s tough but more than beautiful.Things take time girl. A relationship will get more stronger with every fight, patch up, up and downs.
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Let it go. You made a decision a year ago, there must be something about him that made you say ‘yes’ to him. Believe in your relationship with him.

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