Love Affairs

24/09/2022

A Woman Have S*x
Because She Wants. The Man. A man have s*x because he wants s*x. You See The Difference? S*x is a physical thing to a man.

But for a woman, s*x is both physical and emotional. A woman can have s*x because of love. But a man can have s*x because of s*x.

Before a woman can have s*x with you, she must have feelings for you. She must have that emotionally attachment to you.

That EROS dimension of love will be there.
Hardly will you find a woman having s*x with a man she does not love. Except if she's a pr******te. But for a man, reverse can be the case.

A man may have no iota of love for you, and still have s*x with you. This is why a man can hire a pr******te just to have s*x. He doesn't need to love the pr******te before he fulfills his s*xual desire.

√ Now, understand this:
As a woman, a man can use you to feed his s*xual desires. He can even give you money. He can take you out. All because he wants s*x, not you!

If you want to know if a man truly loves you, don't give him s*x. Sit back and watch. If he leaves you because you don't give him s*x, then he doesn't love you. He only loves s*x!

Dear Young Adult Girl!🌹🌹
As you're growing up and getting closer to the journey of marriage life..pls try to understand that you can choose a husband for yourself but your kids can't choose their own father,while choosing a father for them pls choose a father,a friend,a tutor,a prophet,and a guidance for them...

And don't forget to be good mother you can raise a hero and not a zero❣ Wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made, so think deep, choose your prison mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely, to avoid prison break.🤷

10/09/2022

*THE A, B, C, D OF INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE*

A: Always love your spouse.
B: Believe in each other.
C: Celebrate each other often.
D: Don't argue but always reason together.
E: Expect imperfections from your spouse.
F: Fix solutions to problems quick
G: Go for a walk together once a week.
H: Hold each other's hands often.
I: Ignite the passion in your spouse daily.
J: Just laugh over issues worth criticizing.
K: Kill the spirit of unhealthy competition.
L: Let your spouse know your movements.
M: Make love like newly weds.
N: No separate room for you both.
O: Oppose any intruder or third party.
P: Pray together always.
Q: Quality time should be spent together.
R: Resist every temptation of infidelity.
S: Stay positive to each other's vision.
T: Take no record of past offence.
U: Utilize every opportunity to bond.
V: Visualize a glorious future together.
W: Win each other's admiration daily.
X: X-ray your lives together.
Y: Yell not at each other for any reason.
Z: Zip your mouth when you're angry.

If you're blessed by this post, kindly share with your contacts and groups; you may save a marriage by doing so.

30/08/2022

What Keeps Marriages Or Relationships Blossoming & Maturing: ACCROSS ALL LEVELS OF LIFE AND RELATIONSHIP BOTH ON THE VERTICAL AND HORIZONTAL PLANE
1. Love
2. Submission
3. Communication, effective communication
4. Tolerance
5. Patience
6. Forgiveness
7. Understanding
8. Respect
9. Accountability
10. Prayer , praying together
11. Being friends , good friends.
12. Not keeping secrets
13. Faithfulness
14. Loyalty
15. Being supportive
16. Caring
17. Sharing
18. Empathising
19. Sympathising
20. Counting on each other
21. Keep your marriage vows
22. Respect each other’s family
23. Resolve issues without involving third parties unless they are grave issues
24. Believe in your partner
25. TLOF TLOF , love making.
Practice these things and you will not seek any marriage counselling from anyone.

30/08/2022

ACT OF S*X

"When a virgin has s*x for the first time with a man, the fact that the rupture of the h***n causes a flow of blood which spurts on the s*x of the man, means that an alliance or a bond has been established between them , and only death can separate them!
Originally, When a man has s*x with a virgin girl, he is expected to wash the blood of the h***n and thus bind himself to that girl by a wedding ring💍.

Many men and women will not fulfill their destiny because of the one to whom they gave their virginity.
It is because of this irrevocable covenant that God does not want you to lose your virginity before marriage.

When you have s*x with your partner, this is your way of saying, "My enemies are now your enemies, and your enemies are now my enemies; My friends are now your friends and your friends are now my friends; I will stay by your side no matter what, I will never leave you and I will never abandon you. I will defend you to death
You now have one flesh, united soul and body! Here is what the Bible tells us:
“1 Corinthians 6:16 ►
“Do you not know that whoever becomes attached to the pr*stitute is one body with her? For, it is said, the two will become one flesh."

This type of alliance should only be made by those who are legally married. Whenever you have s*x with a person, you make a blood pact with that person at the same time.
When God made a covenant with Abraham, it was through circumcision which included a shedding of blood. When God gave Moses the commandments and the covenants, the blood of animals was one of them.
Through s*xual sin, body, mind and soul are linked. Everything that is in the man or in the woman enters the life of the woman or of the man. Through s*x, you receive all the iniquities of your partner's family in your life and even their ancestral curses because the life of a man is in the blood.

S*xual sin can turn your good and perfect destiny into a bad destiny of doom!

25/08/2022

DEAR HUSBAND....

There's nothing to boast about if your home is not settled.

There's nothing to be happy about if your wife is not happy.

There's nothing to be confident about if your wife is not fulfilled under you.

God made you the head of your family because He wants you to function as a leader not a taskmaster.

God made you a father just because He wants you to father and raise a generation.

Get this fact sir, it doesn't cost much to make your home good, make your wife happy and raise your children well just be correct.

A CORRECT HUSBAND WILL MAKE HIS WIFE CORRECT.

Be committed to your wife.
Be exemplary to your children.

God made you male-man because He doesn't want a generation to be unfortunate.

Take your wife serious.
Raise your children diligently.

It is time to correct the wrongs in your home and redefine your relationship with your wife.


© Gifted Breed, 2022

24/08/2022

Dear Lady

5 TYPES OF MEN NOT TO MARRY

1) Those with Addiction Problems.

He has a strong gambling/drinking problem

He uses drugs.

Aunty, marrying such a Man is SU***DE.

A Man with an addiction can steal, lie, go into debt to sustain his habit, become violent, and usually this habits goes with having bad friends which is also a problem on its own.

2) A Promiscuous Partner

You keep catching him with different ladies.
You know he's cheating on you...

You will think you can cope, till you enter.

"it doesn't matter, as long as he comes back home to me at night'

"he can have a side chic, as long as I'm the main chic"

Aunty, when you Enter, your eye will clear.

Marriage to a promiscuous Man is HELL.

You'll be embarrassed, despised, mocked, abandoned.

You could get infected with any disease he goes outside to bring too.

3) A Man who doesn't have a Heart for God.

He's Handsome, and romantic but he doesn't go to church.

He's very generous, but he thinks serving God is fanatism.

Marrying this type of Man is Spiritual Su***de.. .

Hear the voice of reason, Don't do it..

4) An Abusive Man.

His temper is second to none

He's abusing you emotionally, physically, mentally.

And you believe he'll change after Marriage, Dear Sister, Run oh. Run oh. Don't Marry Thanos oh.

5) A Man who doesn't listen to You.

Your complaints always fall on deaf ears.

Your opinion never influence or change him.

He listens to only himself.

He knows it all.

He's Alpha and Omega.

For your own good, avoid this type of Man.
********
Not every Man is a Bride GROOM, some are Bride DOOM.
Shine your Eyes!!!

(c) Musa Gift

22/08/2022

HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF*
*(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for
you.*
*(2) Stop begging.*
*(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.*
*(4) When people disrespect you, confront
them immediately.*
*(5) Don't eat other people's food more
than they eat yours.*
*(6) Reduce how you visit some people,
especially if they don't reciprocate it.*
*(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.*
*(8) Stop entertaining gossip about other
people.*
*(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how
people value you is what comes out of your
mouth.*
*(10) Always look your best. Dress the way
you should be addressed.*
*(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your
goals*
*(12) Respect your time.*
*(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you
don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.*
*(14) Learn to spend money on yourself.
That's how people will learn to spend on
you.*
*(15) Be scarce sometimes.*
*(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.*
*(17) Don't go where you are not invited.
And when invited don't overstay your
welcome.*
*(18) Treat people exactly the way they
deserve.*
*(19) Except they owe you money, two call
attempts is enough. If they value you they
will call you back.*
*(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best.*

21/08/2022

A WOMAN IS DESIGNED TO MEET THE SEXUAL NEEDS OF A MAN.

LOOKING SEXY AT HOME DOESN'T BRING INJURY TO A MAN'S SPIRITUALITY.

EVERYTHING ABOUT A WOMAN IS DESIGNED TO ATTRACT A MAN. IF IT DOESN'T, YOU NEED PRAYER.

STOP LOOKING UNATTRACTIVE AT HOME BUT ONLY ATTRACTIVE AT SOCIAL FUNCTIONS.

ADAM'S SPIRITUAL NEEDS WERE MET BY HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD, BUT HIS EMOTIONAL NEEDS WERE NOT MET.

Pastor Biodun Oladele
August 15th, 2022.

5 REASONS YOU MUST MARRY

Genesis 2:15-18 The first reason God gave Adam a wife was for companionship. Adam's relationship with God satisfied his spiritual needs but the other needs of Adam with emotions were not met. No matter how close to God you are, it won't remove your need for relationship with humans. Spirituality doesn't remove emotional needs.

God instituted marriage to solve the need for companionship, just like blood runs the human being , the blood that runs a woman body is affection. The easiest way a woman can malfunction is to be love-starved.

Just as a man is designed to meet the affectionate needs of a woman, a woman is designed to meet the s*xual needs of a man.

Spirituality doesn't stop s*xuality. Everything about a woman is designed to attract a man. If it doesn't, you need prayer. It is safe to look good at home than when you go out, stop looking unattractive at home but only attractive at social functions. Looking s*xy at home doesn't bring injury to a man's spirituality.

You also marry for procreation, God's ideology for the human race is incarnation, you shouldn't die but should keep existing in every generation. Your values, ideology, behavioral pattern should not die but be passed on. The only way that can happen is through procreation. Your seed ought to extend you in every generation.

S

The Official page of Pastor Biodun Oladele Senior Pastor Spirit Chapel International Church.

18/08/2022

LIFE LESSONS

Author Unknown

She asked a question in a general Group on a WhatsApp platform.
I responded to the question professionally.

She tagged my response and typed: "you're an idiot! "

Upon thinking through her response, I calmly replied: "Thanks so much. Now that you have pointed out my attention to this idiotic part of me, I'll surely work on it, God bless you my dear."

And the whole platform shook. Over 118 people commented. They were so surprised by my calm response. Of course she was terribly bashed to the extent that she "left" the group.

An hour later she called me to apologise for how stupid she's been etc. I forgave her and we became friends.

Then I later ended up handling her premarital counselling sessions.

Two days ago, on my Birthday, she and her husband surprised me with a gift worth over $10,000. This was a year after she called me an idiot.

Life Lessons from this experience:

1. MATURITY: Your reaction to negative feedbacks or situations shows how mature you are.

2. CHOICE: You have the power of choice whenever anybody does or says anything offensive to you.

3. SELF CONTROL: If someone calls you anything negative and you lose yourself and begin to fight or shout or do anything terrible, you only prove them right.

4. SILENCE IS GOLDEN: It is better to keep quiet and let people think you're a fool, than to open your mouth to enable them confirm you're truly a fool.

5. DISCERNMENT: You cannot throw both the baby and the dirty water away from the bathing bowl because the baby had pooed in the bath water.

6. POSITIVE POWER: You have the power to win people through your maturity and composure and not through overly being more sanctimonious than the person.

7. POSITIVE IMPACT: Life is all about people. If I had responded to her negatively, I would have lost a friend forever.

8. WISDOM: There are people who are sent to you by God to help your journey in life to be worthwhile, your meeting point might be at a fighting point. Be

10/08/2022

WHO IS A HUSBAND AND WHAT IS HIS ROLE?

~ Rev Chris Oyakhilome Ds.c DD

Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master.

The reason for most problems in Christian marriages is the fact that women refute God’s definition of marriage and form theirs. They believe they are equal partners.

If most women had their fathers bold enough to talk to them, they will be very successful in their marriage and they will be very happy people. Most women have never been taught by their parents, their fathers particularly and that’s their biggest problem because they don’t know who a man is, they think he is another woman.

In marriage, you have the man who is the head of that union and because he’s the head of that union, its important to understand him. You think he’s the one that needs to understand his wife and that is where you are wrong. He will eventually but you have to know the type of man you are married to and his needs.

When you say you are marrying a man, you are coming under his authority. The Bible says, the man is the head of the woman (1 Corinthians 11:3) so when you marry him you come under his authority, you are not authority sharers even though you are both heirs to the kingdom of God.

When you decide not to subject yourself to that authority, you are a rebel and God is not going to accept what you are doing because you are not functioning correctly. Why did God make the woman?

Making woman was not God’s original plan because after God created Adam and before He made Eve, He said in Genesis 1:31 “Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good”. God made woman because of man so woman was not His original idea. This is reality.

Genesis 2:18a “And the Lord God said “for it is not good for a man to be alone..” The Bible didn’t say “lonely” but “alone”. There is a big difference. Man wasn’t lonely but alone. Genesis 2:18b “…I will make him an help meet”. He didn’t say a partner or a supervisor or a special adviso

23/06/2022

God will not take you serious until you mind is transformed to think in terms of family, team, national and generation and all that starts with a seed and a decision, a determination with a tenacious persistent and sacrificial outlook on purpose, divine will for kingdom establishment and expansion

23/06/2022

Perfect love cast out fear
Love is the mother of all spiritual virtues including POWER