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09/12/2023

Hmmmm, spouses please you have to be kind and soft in word in this period of no much money ooooo

09/08/2023

Never tell much about your family issues or past to your spouse especially wen you no it has nothing to do with him or her because as time goes on they will use it against you.

09/08/2023

Never tell much about your family issues or past to your spouse especially wen you no it has nothing to do with him or her because as time goes on they will use it against you

09/08/2023

Never tell your

03/06/2023

A lady worked at a meat distribution factory.
One day, when she finished with her work
schedule, she went into the meat cold room
(Freezer) to inspect something, but in a
moment of misfortune, the door closed and
she was locked inside with no help in sight.
Although she screamed and knocked with
all her might, her cries went unheard as no
one could hear her. Most of the workers had
already gone, and outside the cold room it's
impossible to hear what was going on
inside.
Five hours later, whilst she was at the verge
of death, the security guard of the factory
eventually opened the door.
She was miraculously saved from dying that
day.
When she later asked the security guard
how he had come to open the door, which
wasn't his usual work routine.
His explanation: "I've been working in this
factory for 35 years, hundreds of workers
come in and out every day, but you're one of
the few who greet me in the morning and
say goodbye to me every night when leaving
after work. Many treat me as if I'm invisible.
Today, as you reported for work, like all
other days, you greeted me in your simple
manner 'Hello'. But this evening after
working hours, I curiously observed that I
had not heard your "Bye, see you
tomorrow".
Hence, I decided to check around the
factory. I look forward to your 'hi' and 'bye'
every day because they remind me that I am
someone.
By not hearing your farewell today, I knew
something had happened. That's why I was
searching every where for you."
Be humble, love and respect those around
you. Try to have an impact on people who
cross your path every day, you never know
what tomorrow will bring..

Stay Blessed.

28/03/2023

We spend so much money on data because phone is the only true friend most of us have.
Why not make ALQURAN KAREEM our best and true friend, because the phone we choose to be our best friend will fail one day when it stolen or spoil but ALLAH that owns the QURAN that will make as best friend will never fail.

27/03/2023

Some essential questions to ask your would-be spouse ๐Ÿ‘‡

What is the thing you value most in your life?

Do you have physical or mental illness?

What is your concept of marriage?

What are your expectations of marriage?

What are your goals in life?

Why have you chosen me as a potential spouse?

What is the role of religion in your life?

What is your understanding of an Islamic marriage?

Are you an active person in the Muslim community?

Do you engage in any volunteering activities?

In your understanding, what is the role of a husband and what is the role of a wife?

How is your relationship with your family?

Do you have friends from the opposite s*x?

What is the level of your friendship?

How do you spend money?

How do you save money?

What do you do in your free time?

How do you make your decisions?

How do you express anger?

How do you think marital dispute should be resolved?

Define mental, verbal, and emotional abuse?

Are you willing to seek marital counseling if you felt the need?

Do you support the idea of a working wife? (With this question, you'd know if he'll allow you to work or earn money or not)

Do you expect your wife to share financial responsibility with you? (With this question, you'd know if he's Mr sharing-formula or Mr carry-it-all)

Whatโ€™s your best or favorite food?

What are your doโ€™s and donโ€™ts?

What is your hobby?

What's your genotype and blood group?

Do you prefer homeschooling for our children or going to school?

Do you plan to live with your parents or relative after marriage?

Do you intend to bring your male relative in after marriage?

Are you married or single? (This question is important so you'd know the position you're occupying in his house) Normally, married men are supposed to disclose their marital status but some men are deceptive. So you need to ask him.

Do you have a child? [It's not only married people that have children. A love child may occur due to illicit affair]

And other questions you feel are n

24/03/2023

Do you know how many breaths you daily take?๐Ÿค”
Every day we take about 22,000 breaths๐Ÿ˜ฏ

12/03/2023

Which country drinks the most coffee โ˜•โ“
Finland ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ฎ

07/10/2022

*Question:* Asalam Alykum warahmatulah wabarahkatu pls what advice can u give a sister who is expecting second wife?

*Answer:* Hmmmm, darling Sis, it's not easy, But when Allah makes it easier for you, you will be amazed on the unimaginable things you will be doing.

I was once in your shoe and these are the few things I did and the result is Ma'asha Allah.

* I continuously told my self that what is made for me will never pass me by and what passes me was never made for me. Reason, I was having the feeling that all the attention, Care love and finances am getting from my hubby will now be divided into two๐Ÿ˜Ž.
But with the above statement I always overcome my thoughts.

2* Since the time I saw the signs of adding more wife, I started developing my self, spiritually, socially, intelecually and financially and these really assisted me a lot cos it added value to my life before the new wife came in.

3* I called my hubby asked him the reason for adding more, he said "You are my love and no one can replace your place in my heart, I just want to do it for the sake of Allah and I need your support cos without you it can't be possible " these words really melt my heart๐Ÿ˜

No mind that buddy he get PhD. In melting women's heart๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

Then the journey starts.. .

4* I went to Allah to report my case to Him and then beseech Him to make it easy for me give me wisdom, patience and the financial capabilities to handle the situation, I said all these in sujud while shedding uncontrollably ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚, Then I told Him let this be the end of me shedding tears cos of mathna. Sis Allah answers prayers if only you knew how to call on him.

5* Then I surrender since the case is already in Allah's custody, I do my things with clean heart, I participated much in the preparation for the wedding cos there was family issue regarding the mathna( That one NA another story?) I was my hubby PA, best man, event planner and financial assistance. ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

04/09/2022

WHEN MARRIAGE IS A MISTAKE.
๐Ÿงฉ An Article worth reading

Most times when a marriage is in trouble, people tend to see their Marriage as a mistake rather than seeing the mistakes they are making in their marriage. At this point they regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marriage without issues.

Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had remained with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse. This is because the first marriage was not a mistake,and the mistake has not been discovered yet.

So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marriage until you discover the mistakes you are making in your marriage and correct them.

So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage.

When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but repair the tyre and move on.

When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.

When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room.

When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.

So when marriage has an issue, we don't have to try to change the spouse instead of changing the attitude that is creating the problem.

Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is seen in our own marriage. The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage by paying the necessary price and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. It is said, โ€œThe way you make your bed is the way you will lie on itโ€.

Your marriage is as good or as sweet as you make it. Some couples, because of the *mnegative things they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other

02/09/2022

*COMMUNICATION TIPS FOR COUPLES*.
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โฃ๏ธA lot of times, couples get pi**ed off with each other by the way they respond to each other. We can do better if we learn responses in the affirmative and not in the combative. Let's read the following:

๐Ÿค”1. Statement: Are you okay; is anything the matter?
๐Ÿคฆ- Wrong response: Can't you see yourself; what kind of question is that?
๐Ÿ˜†- Right response: I'm not feeling fine; I think I need some attention.

๐Ÿค”2. Statement: I got wounded in kitchen.
๐Ÿคฆ- Wrong response: I've told you to always be careful with knife.
๐Ÿ˜†- Right response: Oh sorry, let me have a look. Please be more careful with knife.

๐Ÿค”3. Statement: I'll like to eat corn flakes.
๐Ÿคฆ- Wrong response: No way! It's for the children; and that's for one month! Take garri if you are hungry.
๐Ÿ˜†- Right response: Okay, you can eat a little. I trust you'll give us money to buy another.

๐Ÿค”4. Statement: I'm really hungry.
๐Ÿคฆ- Wrong response: Even I myself have not eaten since morning.
๐Ÿ˜†- Right response: Oh sorry, let's see if there's something you can manage for now.

๐Ÿค”5. Statement: Why don't you do it this way?
๐Ÿคฆ- Wrong response: Why is it that you always find fault with what I do?
๐Ÿ˜†- Right response: Well, I've tried this before and I think it will work. If not, I'll try that.

๐Ÿค”6. Statement: I want more food.
๐Ÿคฆ- Wrong response: Ha-ha, it has finished. You want to finish all the food in the house?
๐Ÿ˜†- Right response: Sorry, please manage that for now. We are down on food stuff.

๐Ÿค”7. Statement: Handle that thing carefully please.
๐Ÿคฆ- Wrong response: Am I that daft? You will just be talking to me as if I don't have any sense.
๐Ÿ˜†- Right response: Yes dear, I will.

๐Ÿค”8. Statement: Haven't you finished what you are doing?
๐Ÿคฆ- Wrong response: You are seated there doing nothing and you are asking if I've not finished!
๐Ÿ˜†- Right response: It will still take a while; can you please lend me a hand?

๐Ÿค”9. Statement: I bought this on my way; I thought it will be usef

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