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WHAT MANY PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND ABOUT LOVE:
My love...
1. There will be times I will be so mad at you and cold towards you. It's not that I hate you. I am just disappointed by what you did, my love hasn't gone any where
2. There will be times I will not spend as much time with you as you wish me to. It's not that I am ignoring you, I am working hard for our future
3. There will be times I will say or do something wrong. It's not that I meant to hurt you, we all fall short sometimes. Forgive me, teach me to love you
4. There will be friends in my life. But never doubt that you are my first priority
5. There will be moments I will not be that conversational, I will not be so fun to talk with. It's not that I find you boring. My mood has changed, I need some minutes to myself, I will come around
6. There will be moments where I want to scream at you and say all that is in my head in anger. It's not that you are my enemy, but sometimes you get on my nerves. I will control my temper and my tongue, you're still the one that I love
7. There will be moments where you want sex but I will not be up to it. It's not that I don't find you sexy anymore or I am cheating on you. I am just tired, allow me to rest and I will sex you good when I am refreshed. I love the sex in our marriage
8. There will be wonderful people of the opposite gender at work and in public, they dress well and are successful; some of them more successful than you. It doesn't mean I will abandon you and chase after them
9. There will be moments where I will be tough on you. It's not that I am trying to change you or treat you like a baby. I am only challenging you to be better because I know your potential
10. There will be moments where I forget things, special dates or a duty I said I will do. It's not that I am taking you for granted, sometimes in this busy life, the mind forgets
11. There will be days when things between us will get so tough and we might seem like we are falling apart. It's
12 THINGS TO SAY NO TO IN YOUR MARRIAGE
1. Say NO to going to bed with unresolved issues. The longer issues pile up the messy things become and the climate in your home worsens
2. Say NO to involving parents or family in solving marital matters. Instead, see a counsellor, a pastor or a neutral person of authority who believes in marriage if you can't manage a breakthrough as a couple. Parents and family are biased and after you two have solved issues, they will remember the wrongs done to their son/daughter and it will affect family relations. Minimise the amount of people involved in your domestic affairs
3. Say NO to coming to big decisions without giving the other an opportunity to be heard and considered. This is how to build unity
3. Say NO to using the words "My" in marriage. "My car", "My child", "My house", "My money"... Instead say "Our car", "Our child", "Our house", "Our money" regardless of who contributes the most financially. You two are a team
4. Say NO to arguing in front of the children. Don't expose them to tension that will emotionally stress them
5. Say NO to ending a sexual moment with only one of you sexually satisfied. Both of you ought to enjoy love making
6. Say NO to using insults no matter how angry you get. Your spouse will easily remember the insults spoken in moments of anger than the loving words spoken in times of peace
7. Say NO to eating outside yet your spouse has taken the time to prepare a family meal for you. Make it a habit to eat together
8. Say NO to visits by your relatives without informing your spouse. It is not your home alone. If you want your spouse to be a good host to your relatives, consult with him/her when the visit will happen and for how long
9. Say NO to entertaining another or flirting with others. You two are allowed to have a healthy social life and friends even of the opposite gender but with boundaries and transparency
10. Say NO to sleeping in different beds/rooms yet you are in the sam
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