29/12/2022
Babe, come, sit down and read.
Don't, in the name of searching for love or the title of 'Mrs' make yourself into something cheap and to be used.
A lot of the men out there will not hesitate to approach you, profess love (if that's what you want to hear) and go the marriage route if it will get you to spread your legs.
You don't need to sleep with a man to get him to marry you but see, you are almost living with him. Bit by bit in your weekend box, you have stylishly been moving stuff there feeling like wifey - elect, thinking he doesn't know or see you dropping toothbrush, bra. Keep telling yourself that.
You have turned yourself into the sexperiment specie used for all the unspeakables but so long as "he loves you", or gives you the honour of hanging around him with the title of his girl, it feels worth it, right?
What about all your money given out? Love does not care, right?
Go to the market on your pocket, come back and cook for battalions of friends calling you "our wife". Eh, iya'n je o. The real "our wife" is the one that has not messed herself up in desperation for love and these same guys know it.
Hurry up with the food though, when he's done eating the food, he'd have the maker of the food for dessert.
And like this is not bad enough you still get beaten, punished and taunted with other ladies?
Sister, step back a bit and ask yourself why. I promise you, you are more than this. There are many out there who'd treat you better if you can only calm down.
Oya, begin to give yourself sense this moment. Collect your money too. You deserve better.
