09/03/2022
Sabi nila, “Walang sino man ang magiging handa sa pag-aasawa, kaya mag-asawa ka kung dun ka masaya, mabubuhay karin”.
Mali!
Ang PAG-AASAWA ay pinaghahandaan. Hindi enough na basta’t mahal niyo ang isa’t isa, may stable job na kayo at pwede nyo na buhayin ang isa’t isa ay ready ka na. “YOU PREPARE AND GET READY” not for the “HAPPY MOMENTS”, but you are actually preparing for the WORST and LOWEST MOMENTS.
Ang tanong...
- Ready magpakumbaba kahit alam mong nasa tama ka?
- Ready ka ba magpatawad kahit malaki kasalanan niya?
- Ready ka ba mahalin pa rin siya kahit wala na yung make up niya at pumanget na siya?
- Ready ka ba ibigay ang mga pangangailangan niya?
ADVICE KO LANG SA MGA NAGPAPLANO MAG-ASAWA
- Understand that there is NO PERFECT RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE
- Understand that THERE IS NO PERFECT HUSBAND AND WIFE.
- Understand that you have to accept each other’s flaws.
- Be 100% willing to give up all your HOPES in changing your partner.
- Marriage is not all about “FEELINGS” but it takes TRUE LOVE, Patience, Understanding, Trust, and Acceptance to MAKE IT WORK!”
And just like in any jobs, before you get officially hired, may “PAGHAHANDA” tayong ginagawa. To prepare us for the ACTUAL WORK. It works the same with marriage, Ang MARRIAGE ay “PINAGTATRABAHUAN” kaya dapat itong “PAGHANDAAN”.
Take note of this:
“When God knows you’re READY and PREPARED for the RESPONSIBILITY of LIFETIME COMMITMENT, he’ll reveal the person under the right circumstances.”
Jesus said in Matthew 19:11-12 (MSG),
But Jesus said, "NOT EVERYONE IS MATURE ENOUGH TO LIVE A MARRIED LIFE. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. MARRIAGE ISN’T FOR EVERYONE.
Before you look for the right person, BE THE RIGHT PERSON first...
Kaya wag kang padala sa sinasabi nila.
WAG MA-PRESSURE. Marry when you are ready and sure.
Don’t waste your time wishing.
GROW and BE READY.
Love and Care,
Mrs. Pammy
