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Love & Logic A supportive space for navigating the journey of relationships—from joyful connection to healing after heartbreak.

Whether you’re growing together, going through conflict, or finding yourself again, Love & Logic is here for advice and emotional support.

13/06/2025

Even if you think I'm the worst wife, there is no excuse for cheating. If you're that unhappy, have the balls to leave like a grown man.

I created this account after my husband cheated on me — again. He had done it before, but this time, I finally have soli...
12/06/2025

I created this account after my husband cheated on me — again. He had done it before, but this time, I finally have solid proof. I want this space to be somewhat anonymous, a place where I can vent freely and express everything I’ve been carrying. This journey is incredibly difficult.

My husband is still asking for another chance, but honestly, I don’t think I can give it anymore.

Here’s my story.

A few months ago, I discovered that he had been talking to a police friend, apparently seeking advice. I found out that he was going through a tough time at work because a sensitive video had leaked in the office. In the video, he was with a female coworker — although she wasn’t identifiable. The HR department issued him a notice to explain, but he didn’t respond. Instead, he filed a lawsuit against HR for allegedly violating data privacy, claiming they were the ones who leaked the video.

I haven’t seen the video, but based on what I read in the legal documents, it involved the woman holding his backside. It wasn’t specified whether he was naked, but I assumed he was — otherwise, why would it be considered sensitive in the first place? I found out about all of this only because I happened to read his testimony.

When I confronted him, he got angry at me for looking at his Messenger account and changed all his passwords. He told me he didn’t tell me because he knew I’d react negatively. I mean — who wouldn’t? But somehow, he turned the situation around and made it seem like the real issue was that I never truly trusted him.

The thing is, how could I? After everything that’s happened, he never made a real effort to earn back my trust. He just kept doing the same things over and over.

I’m tired. I don’t want this anymore.

(to be continued...)

🌿 Wisdom Wednesday 🌿“Cheating doesn’t just break hearts—it breaks minds.”Infidelity in romantic relationships can leave ...
10/06/2025

🌿 Wisdom Wednesday 🌿
“Cheating doesn’t just break hearts—it breaks minds.”

Infidelity in romantic relationships can leave deep emotional scars that extend far beyond the betrayal itself. When trust is shattered, it can trigger a cascade of mental health struggles that often go unseen. Here’s how cheating can affect someone psychologically:

🔹 Anxiety & Hypervigilance – Constant worry about future betrayals, second-guessing partners, and even oneself.
🔹 Depression – Feelings of worthlessness, sadness, and hopelessness often follow the realization of betrayal.
🔹 Self-esteem Issues – Many blame themselves, leading to self-doubt and a distorted self-image.
🔹 Trust Issues – It becomes harder to trust future partners or even friends and family.
🔹 PTSD-like Symptoms – Intrusive thoughts, emotional numbness, and avoidance behaviors can develop in severe cases.

💬 “Healing after betrayal isn’t just about forgiving someone else—it’s about finding the strength to believe in yourself again.”

Wisdom Tip:
If you’ve experienced betrayal, know that your emotions are valid. Seek support—whether from friends, therapy, or community groups. Healing doesn’t mean forgetting; it means learning how to love and trust again without losing yourself in the process.

💬 Talk It Out Tuesday🎯 Conversation Starter: How do you bring up the “hard topics”?“Let’s be real—some convos are tough....
10/06/2025

💬 Talk It Out Tuesday

🎯 Conversation Starter: How do you bring up the “hard topics”?

“Let’s be real—some convos are tough.
🔹 Finances
🔹 S*x
🔹 Boundaries
🔹 Past trauma

Which of these is hardest for you to talk about in a relationship? Why?

Tips for Tackling Tough Conversations:

1. Set the Scene
🕯 Choose a calm, private time—not during a fight, not before bed, and definitely not over text.
🛋 “Can we talk about something important tonight when we’re both relaxed?”

2. Use “I” Statements, Not Blame
❌ “You never listen to me.”
✅ “I feel unheard when I talk about this, and I’d love your full attention.”

3. Focus on the Goal, Not Winning
🎯 Are you trying to be right, or trying to be understood?
Mutual understanding leads to lasting solutions.

4. Be Curious, Not Critical
🔍 Ask, “Help me understand how you feel about this,” instead of “Why do you always…?”

5. Take Breaks if Needed
🚨 If emotions escalate, it’s okay to pause.
Say, “Let’s cool down and come back to this in 30 minutes.”

6. Normalize Difficult Topics
🗣 Talk about s*x, money, trauma, and boundaries before they cause conflict.
Healthy couples practice these convos.

7. End With Reassurance
💖 “Thank you for being honest. I want us to keep growing through these talks.”

👇 Drop your thoughts or a 🌱 if you’re working on mindful communication this week.
09/06/2025

👇 Drop your thoughts or a 🌱 if you’re working on mindful communication this week.

Talk It Out TuesdayRelationships thrive on communication, understanding, and healthy boundaries.Not every conversation w...
12/05/2025

Talk It Out Tuesday

Relationships thrive on communication, understanding, and healthy boundaries.

Not every conversation will be easy—but avoiding tough talks only builds walls.

This week, challenge yourself and your partner to:

• Speak with love, even when it’s hard.
• Listen without interrupting or getting defensive.
• Respect each other’s boundaries, even when they feel unfamiliar.

Healthy love means working with each other, not against. It's okay to say, “I need space,” or “That hurt me,” or “Let’s figure this out together.”

Remember: You’re on the same team.
Talk it out, grow together, and build a love that lasts.

12/05/2025

Love & Logic exists to offer clear, compassionate, and practical relationship advice for couples and individuals at every stage—whether in love, in conflict, or in recovery. We believe relationships are complex, not perfect. That’s why we address both the beauty and the struggles of love—with empathy, emotional intelligence, and real-life wisdom.

Our mission is to:
• Support couples in building strong, respectful partnerships.
• Guide individuals through breakups, separation, and self-discovery.
• Provide tools for communication, healing, and growth.
• Normalize both the ups and downs of relationships.

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