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12/08/2024

HAVE YOU NOTICED?..A *bronze* medalist is generally *more happy* than a *silver medalist* at the end of the game.

It’s not an incidental finding but a proven fact in many research studies after studying reactions of silver medalists vs bronze medalists!

Ideally, a silver medalist should be more happy than the bronze. But, the human mind doesn't work like mathematics.

This happens because of a phenomenon called the *counterfactual thinking*.

The silver medalist thinks, "oh I couldn't win the gold medal." the bronze medalist thinks, "at least I got a medal."

A silver medal is won after losing, but a bronze medal is won after winning.

This happens even in our life, we don't appreciate what we have but feel sad with what we don't have. Let's be grateful for our blessings, they far outweigh our problems if we start counting.

Life is after all full of choices, do always count your blessings to stay positive & motivated.

Written by: Old Soul

04/08/2024

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22/07/2024

Avoid humiliating your spouse during disagreements or arguments, as reconciliation will naturally come with time. Hurtful words once spoken cannot be easily taken back. Furthermore, discussing these conflicts in public only leads to mutual embarrassment.

It's wiser to keep personal matters private and not subject them to public exposure or judgment. Avoid sharing marital conflicts on social media, as it can damage your relationship.

Always remember, just as floodwaters eventually recede and the sun rises again after a storm, challenges in life and relationships will also pass. Strengthen your bond by respecting your spouse's dignity and values. No family or couple is perfect, but those who stay united and face challenges together are truly admirable.

12/07/2024

—mas better, mas malaki. ❤️✨

08/07/2024

HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE.
1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.
2. Challenges are part of life. It is only a dead man who has no challenges.
3. no problem has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are going through.
4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self-esteem and inferiority complex.
5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say something just to make you feel sad.
6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.
7. In your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favourite hobbies like sports, games, watching movies, surfing the internet, playing computer games, etc.
8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.
9. No matter what you are going through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope.
10. Be very prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.
11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.
Never change your originality for the sake of others. Because no one can play your role better than you.
You are the best. So be yourself...