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02/11/2024

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01/11/2024

YOUR TONE OF VOICE MATTERS.

When we speak to someone, our tone of voice carries more weight than we might think. Even if our intentions are good, the way we say things can linger in someone's heart long after the words have been spoken. A harsh or careless tone can echo in their mind, replaying moments that may hurt more than we ever intended. Those moments can be jarring, leaving behind an emotional bruise that's hard to forget.

It's so important to be mindful of not just what we say, but how we say it. The tone we use, the approach we take, and the words we choose can either lift someone up or tear them down. Everyone you meet is carrying something within them-struggles, fears, hopes-things we might never see.

So, in every conversation, choose to be kind. Speak with empathy and warmth, because your words have the power to heal, to comfort, and to show that you care. After all, the way we make others feel is often what they remember the most.

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31/10/2024

YOU MUST HAVE THAT S*X! 🔞

Prepare well for s*x before you get married! You must have regular s*x in marriage whether you feel like it or not. What? yeah! There are days heavens know you have no single libido left, hitting and pounding is the last thing at the back of your skull. Your whole body aches from head to toe and nothing you need badly at that moment like a sweet, sound sleep! Then hubby suddenly found you by his side, roves his eyes all over your body like freshly baked bread and wanna devour you like a sweet smelling sacrifice, what will you do? Have that s*x of course!

A successful marriage involves two parties who constantly make sacrifice for each other. You don't joke with s*x in marriage! Libido is not something you play with. Denying your spouse s*x is playing with fire! You either give them the s*x or watch your best friend impregnates your wife! It is a two way thing. As long as you are not sick or tired, you shouldn't deny your husband s*x. As long as nothing is wrong with you physically, you shouldn't deny your wife s*x.

Many singles think marriage is a place you can behave anyhow, that's childish! Marriage is not a place you act as you like, it is a place you act as you should!

Yes, your husband should understand you when you are sick and tired, understandable! Yes, your wife should give you a break when you are fatigued, understandable, but when it has to do with low desire and nothing else, you have to step up your desire or simply make sacrifice to accommodate your spouse!

Many men are starving their wives s*x and wonder why she's running after men. Many women use lack of s*xual desire to starve their husbands s*x for weeks and months on end and wonder why he has an affair!

There are days both of you will have hot desire for s*x and can't wait to pounce on each other, thank God for it and enjoy every bit of it, and there are days one of you just don't feel like it while the other is seriously burning, yearning, desiring, hungry and out rightly begging to have s*x, make the sacrifice!

Singles, you need to prepare your mind to please your spouse and make them happy within your capacity. Genuine love seek the happiness of others!

I and hubby don't joke with this area of our lives. Heavens know I like s*x with hubby. That thing is just plain delicious and I always look forward to the next episode, I can't do without it in a week but there are days (rare though) the libido goes down below zero and no single desire to be touched, talk less of s*x, I still respond to my lover and hubby never takes it for granted. He is extra-ordinarily tender and appreciates me profusely after.

There are days hubby just don't feel like it; very busy, lots of things on his mind, tired or needing rest, yet, he wouldn't say no. Once he finds me restless, he calms me down and I keep saying thank you every time I have the opportunity to do so.

Yes, rest whenever you need to. Understand when your spouse needs rest and allow them to rest or recover from the illness but when it is becoming a habit to stay off s*x just because you don't feel like it while your spouse is almost burning to death, you need to review that attitude.

CHUKWUBUIKE DESTINY ✍️
REPORTER .

31/10/2024

Unspoken Rules for Men:

1. Never shake a hand sitting down. Standing up shows respect and engagement. It signifies that you value the person you are meeting and are fully present in the interaction.

2. Protect who is behind you, and respect who is beside you. This emphasizes loyalty and honor. Protecting those behind you means safeguarding your family, friends, and teammates. Respecting those beside you signifies recognizing the equality and value of your peers.

3. Never insult the cooking when you are the guest. Showing gratitude and respect for hospitality is essential. Criticizing the cooking is disrespectful and ungrateful, especially when someone has gone out of their way to host you.

4. Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy.
This rule underscores courtesy and consideration for others. It demonstrates awareness and respect for shared resources and the contributions of others.

5. Never make the first offer in a negotiation.
Letting the other party make the first offer can provide strategic advantages. It gives you insight into their expectations and can help you negotiate better terms.

6. Don't take credit for work you didn't do.
Integrity in acknowledging others' efforts is crucial. Taking undue credit undermines trust and damages your credibility.

7. Take the blame, and give credit when due.
Owning up to mistakes and recognizing others' contributions builds respect and trust. It shows maturity and leadership.

8. If you are not invited, don't ask to go.
Respecting boundaries and invitations is key to maintaining good social etiquette. It avoids awkward situations and respects the host’s intentions.

9. Always aim for the head. This metaphorical rule can apply to many scenarios, implying that you should strive for excellence and precision in your efforts.

10. Don't beg for a relationship.Self-respect and dignity are important. Desperation can lead to unhealthy dynamics and undervalues your worth.

11. Dress well no matter what the occasion. Good grooming and dressing appropriately show respect for yourself and others. It also boosts confidence and makes a positive impression.

12. Always carry cash.
Being prepared for various situations, including emergencies, is practical. It reflects foresight and responsibility.

13. Listen, nod, and most of all make eye contact. Active listening and non-verbal engagement are crucial for effective communication. They show that you value and are attentive to the speaker.

14. Show restraint in expressing anger, no matter what. Being angry is a waste of energy. Managing anger is vital for maintaining composure and making rational decisions. It prevents regrettable actions and fosters a more positive environment.

15. Whether it's dinner, drinks, or both, avoid placing your phone on the dinner table.
Prioritizing face-to-face interactions over digital distractions shows respect and attentiveness to those present.

16. Never pose with alcohol. Maintaining a responsible image is important. Posing with alcohol can convey unprofessionalism or recklessness.

17. Proper grammar will get you far in life. Leave the foul language for the less educated.
Good communication skills, including proper grammar, enhance your credibility and professionalism. Avoiding foul language shows respect and maturity.

18. Ask more than you answer. Showing interest in others by asking questions fosters better relationships and understanding. It also demonstrates humility and a willingness to learn.

19. You can tell a great deal about a person by their handshake, so make yours strong and firm. A firm handshake conveys confidence and sincerity. It is often the first impression you make, so it’s important to get it right.

20. Speak honestly. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Honesty builds trust and integrity. It involves being truthful and consistent, fostering deeper connections and mutual respect.

Speaking honestly also means balancing truth with empathy and tact, ensuring that your words are respectful and considerate....

📸✍️ Millionaires' Mind

30/10/2024

SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN :
Insights Every Man Should Know

Understanding women can be a lifelong journey, one that requires patience, empathy, and a willingness to learn. These insights are designed to help deepen your connection with the woman in your life, drawing on both practical wisdom and biblical.

1. Anger Isn't Always Literal
In moments of anger a woman may say things she doesn't fully mean. It is important to remember that anger often masks deeper emotions like fear, pain and insecurity.

2. Separation from a Loved One Is Distressing
A woman often finds it difficult to be away from the man she truly loves.ious

3. Trust Is Earned Over Time
Trust is a precious commodity in any relationship, and it is often earned gradually overtime.

4. A Woman Is a Lifelong Lesson
Understanding a woman is akin to attending a school which you will never graduate.

5. Marriage is Just The Beginning
Your wedding certificate is not a "driving license" but a "learner's permit." The commitment you make on your wedding day is the start of a journey that requires ongoing effort, love and devotion.

6. Her Mood Can Change Quickly
A woman's mood can sometimes shift rapidly, from bitterness to sweetness depending on how she is treated.

7. She Never Forgets
A woman tends to have a long memory, particularly when it comes to emotional pain.

8. She Has Secrets
Women can be highly secretive especially when they are hurting.

9. She Loves to Be Wooed
All women love to be wooed and appreciated, yet men often overlook this vital aspect of a relationship.

10. Her Presence Is like Salt
A woman's presence might not always be loud or obvious, but her absence is deeply felt. She brings flavor and meaning to your life, much like Salt enhances the taste of food.

11. Love Makes Her Selfless
When a woman truly loves you, she becomes selfless, going out of her to make you happy.

12. Neglect Has Consequences
If you neglect her, she may eventually seek comfort elsewhere. Women have options even if they don't always show it

NOTE :
IF YOU HAVE A GOOD WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE, NEVER TAKE HER FOR GRANTED, WOMEN ARE LIKE EXPENSIVE JEWELRY --- VALUABLE AND PRECIOUS.

30/10/2024

Getting out of a toxic relationship can be challenging, and understanding certain difficult truths can help you navigate this process. Here are five important truths to consider:

1. You Are Responsible for Your Happiness

You must recognize that your happiness is your responsibility, not someone else's. Relying on a partner for emotional fulfillment can lead to disappointment. It's crucial to cultivate your own sense of joy and self-worth.

2. Love Is Not Enough

Many people believe that love can conquer all problems, but this isn't always the case. A toxic relationship often involves unhealthy patterns, such as manipulation, control, or abuse, which cannot be resolved by love alone. Relationships require mutual respect, understanding, and support.

3. Change Is Unlikely

While it’s tempting to believe that your partner will change, especially if they have promised to do so, significant behavioral changes are rare without genuine effort and commitment. If the toxic behaviors persist, it’s important to accept that the relationship may not improve.

4. You Deserve Better

It's easy to underestimate your self-worth in a toxic relationship. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect, kindness, and love. Accepting less can perpetuate unhealthy dynamics. Prioritize your well-being and recognize that you are worthy of a healthy relationship.

5. Leaving Is Hard, but Staying Is Harder

Deciding to leave a toxic relationship can be daunting due to fear of loneliness, uncertainty, or the unknown. However, staying in a toxic environment can have long-term emotional and psychological consequences. Acknowledge that the initial pain of leaving is temporary, while the pain of staying can be enduring.

Conclusion

Acknowledging these truths can empower you to make informed decisions about your relationship. Surround yourself with supportive friends or professionals who can help you through this transition. Prioritize your mental and emotional health, paving the way for a healthier future.

MRKB

30/10/2024

30/10/2024

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30/10/2024

Out of all 24 senators in the 19th Congress,
only one stood up for the Filipino people.

30/10/2024

Mature Men never do these 10 things:

Mature men behave in specific ways that show their maturity. They are calm, respectful, and responsible. Here are ten things mature men never do:

1- Closed-minded: They keep an open mind and consider different viewpoints.

2- Criticizing others: They avoid judging others and understand everyone has their reasons.

3- Making excuses: They take responsibility for their actions without blaming others.

4- Wasting time: They value time and make the most of it.

5- Refusing to learn: They are always willing to learn and grow.

6- Blaming others: They accept their mistakes instead of shifting blame.

7- Disrespecting others: They treat everyone with kindness and respect.

8- Leaving when things get tough: They stay committed during challenges.

9- Being self-centered: They think of others and act selflessly.

10- Getting overly emotional: They know their limits and handle situations calmly.
Mature men are great partners, providing stability and happiness.

Mature men are good, godly and exemplary.

Thanks for reading.

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29/10/2024

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29/10/2024

Umabot sa 19 na indibidwal ang naaresto sa isang operasyon laban sa illegal na notary public sa Quezon City, ayon sa National Bureau of Investigation (NBI).

Ang operasyon ay nag-ugat sa reklamo ng Integrated Bar of the Philippines laban sa mga hindi abogado na nagsasagawa ng notarial acts sa mga stall sa Congressional Avenue sa Barangay Bago Bantay.

Matapos ang surveillance at undercover operations ng NBI, kinumpirma ang mga illegal na aktibidad. Noong Oktubre 22, isinagawa ang sabay-sabay na entrapment operation na nagresulta sa pagkakaaresto ng mga suspek habang nagnotaryo.

Kabilang sa mga naaresto ay sina Sherryl Bonifacio, Uldarico Francisco, at iba pa. Sila ay isinailalim sa inquest proceedings sa tanggapan ng piskal ng Quezon City.

Nahaharap si Bonifacio at Francisco sa mga kaso ng paglabag sa Revised Penal Code (RPC) Articles 172 at 177. Ang iba pang mga suspek, tulad nina Cancino, Acuna, at Lucena, ay nahaharap din sa iba pang kaso kabilang ang estafa.

Source:https://www.philstar.com/nation/2024/10/27/2395519/19-nabbed-over-illegal-notarial-practice-quezon-city

28/10/2024

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Toxic behaviors in in-law relationships can significantly strain a marriage and create a hostile environment for everyone involved. Here are some common examples, categorized for easier understanding:

Boundary Violations

- Unannounced visits: Constantly dropping by without notice, making it difficult to maintain privacy or personal space.
- Overly involved in decision-making: Interfering in major life choices like buying a house, having children, or career decisions, as if their opinion holds more weight than the couple's.
- Ignoring established boundaries: Disregarding requests to limit contact, avoid certain topics, or respect personal space.

Emotional Manipulation and Control

- Making you feel bad: Intentionally saying or doing hurtful things to undermine your confidence and self-esteem.
- Playing the blame game: Shifting responsibility for their own actions onto you or others, refusing to take accountability.
- Giving unsolicited advice: Constantly offering opinions and suggestions, even when not asked, and dismissing your choices.

Disrespectful and Hurtful Behavior

- Gossiping and spreading rumors: Sharing negative or untrue information about you with others, undermining your reputation.
- Treating you like a child: Dismissing your opinions, infantilizing you, and making decisions on your behalf.
- Sabotaging special moments: Intentionally disrupting or ruining events that are meant to be joyful or meaningful.

Other Red Flags

- Trying to cause conflict between you and your partner: Sowing seeds of doubt, exaggerating issues, or pitting you against each other.
- Giving you the silent treatment: Withdrawing communication and affection as a form of punishment or control.
- Being constantly critical: Finding fault with everything you do, say, or wear, making you feel inadequate.

It's important to remember that these are just examples, and every situation is unique. What constitutes "toxic" behavior can vary depending on individual personalities, cultural norms, and the overall dynamics of the relationship.

If you are struggling with toxic in-laws, it's crucial to communicate openly with your partner about your concerns, set clear boundaries, and consider seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor.

28/10/2024

Beware of relationships with people without emotional intelligence.

They will never understand you, they will personalize everything and you will never be seen or heard.

Beware of relationships with people who cannot regulate their emotions, you will always be at the mercy of their anger and bad mood.

Beware of relationships with people without self-awareness, they have no idea how their behavior affects the people around them so it is only a matter of time before they get hurt.

Beware of relationships with people without empathy, they will never see or care how you feel. If no one ever told you, I am telling you now.

Look for people in your life with emotional intelligence, self-awareness, empathy, and the ability to regulate their emotions, otherwise you will be at the mercy of their dysfunction and pay the price for their immaturity and lack of growth.

28/10/2024

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