15/03/2024
In the midst of my hiatus, Becky had reached out to Fleurapy and sent a beautiful brief with notes on the significance of the venue and its significance for them. It included some ideas and suggestions on how the flowers could be made even more meaningful for their guests. So even though I had decided not to do weddings anymore, this really tugged at my heartstrings.
The wedding was set in Corner House in Botanic Gardens, and so the flowers were to be an extension of the location. Most of the guests came in from overseas, and each was to receive their own boutonniere that reflects their uniqueness, while also representing a piece of Singapore's flora.
Weddings are the bread and butter of many floral studios. A good wedding set-up is beautiful, breath-taking and transformative. That being said, it is freaking hard work. doesn’t matter how exhilarating setting up is, the tearing down is always depressing. No one talks about the sadness when restaurant staff have chucked your flowers in a corner for guests to pick apart or for the florist to come dispose of them. Or how depressing it is to return to a dark studio in the middle of the night and still having to scrub buckets.
I’ve come to realise that it’s not really about how cool the couple is (though that helps a little for sure), or how proposal went, or how much creative freedom they’re giving you. What makes wedding work a JOY is when the couple is in a good, loving and respectful relationship! Because the trust and respect they have towards you, a “vendor”, naturally flows from there. These are the kind of couples that I would ultimately bust my budget and break my back for!
Even though this is a post about a wedding, I am semi-retired from the wedding scene 🫣. This year, I am doing weddings for personal friends whose journeys I’ve been somewhat privy to! Or for really small and intimate weddings with a beautiful story and hopefully no depressing tear-downs involved.