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07/01/2023

THIS THING CALLED MARRIAGE

1. It is not just about saying sorry to your spouse, but also doing your best not to repeat the same mistakes

2. It is not just about being faithful, but also making faithfulness enjoyable and exciting

3. It is not just about talking to your spouse about issues, but also talking at the right time and with the right tone

4. It is not just about having s*x, but also making love that both enjoy

5. It is not just about staying with your spouse when your spouse has financial challenges or business losses, but also treating your spouse with respect as you stay

6. It is not just about praying for your marriage, but also being intentional about putting in the effort that accompanies the prayer

7. It is not just about supporting your spouse, but also not reminding your spouse of what you have done for him/her or making your spouse feel they will be no where without you

8. It is not just about coming home early, but also being present and participating in the home. Not physically present but emotionally absent

9. It is not just about learning how to be a better spouse, but also unlearning the bad habits and behaviours that can bring down your marriage

10. It is not just about spending quality time together, but also knowing moments when you need your spouse to focus on work, personal reflection, personal hobbies, me time or bonding time with friends

11. It is not just about helping your spouse, but not complaining as you help

12. It is not just about agreeing with your spouse, but lovingly disagreeing with your spouse when you have a different point of view as you find common ground

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

In the book MOTO MOTO COUPLE, Akello and I address in depth the 21 issues that affect every relationship/marriage including work, s*x, finances, children, in-laws, communication and how rekindle love back in your marriage. She giving the female perspective, I give the man's perspective on each of those 21 issues.
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GET A COPY OF THE LOVE BOOK, "MOTO MOTO COUPLE", WRITTEN BY AKELLO OLIECH & DAYAN MASINDE
STEP 1: MPESA Ksh. 400 to 0721590954
STEP 2: Text your email address to 0721590954
STEP 3: Receive the digital book in your email
STEP 4: Download and read on phone/computer

06/01/2023

HOW TO WIN AS A COUPLE

1. Cover each other's weaknesses

2. Celebrate each other's strengths

3. Have no topics that you cannot talk about. No judgment. Openness will open your mind to solutions

4. Consider each other's opinions and contribution

5. Be 100% in. Full commitment

6. Make incremental progress. Seek growth, not perfection

7. Develop a culture of reviewing your relationship; are we doing OK, where can we improve?

8. Accept correction, be humble

9. Work on yourselves to be the best wife, best husband

10. Have joint goals

11. Support each other in your individual goals

12. Keep each other as priority even as you have friends

13. Thank God together. A thankful couple is a powerful couple

14. Don't compete with each other, accommodate each other

15. Bring whatever lessons or opportunities you learn out there into your marriage. Learn together

16. Be patient. Some wins take time

17. When you fall whether as a couple or as individuals, pick each other up

18. Protect what you have built together. It is very easy to lose it fast

19. Control your tempers. A lot of bad choices are made in moments of anger

20. Don't copy other couples. Create your own testimonies

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

In the book MOTO MOTO COUPLE, Akello and I address in depth the 21 issues that affect every relationship/marriage including work, s*x, finances, children, in-laws, communication and how rekindle love back in your marriage. She giving the female perspective, I give the man's perspective on each of those 21 issues.
____________________________
GET A COPY OF THE LOVE BOOK, "MOTO MOTO COUPLE", WRITTEN BY AKELLO OLIECH & DAYAN MASINDE
STEP 1: MPESA Ksh. 400 to 0721590954
STEP 2: Text your email address to 0721590954
STEP 3: Receive the digital book in your email
STEP 4: Download and read on phone/computer

06/01/2023

DANGERS OF SILENT TREATMENT

1. It solves nothing since there is no talking about issues

2. It affects s*xual intimacy leading to hard hearts in marriage. Love making soothes the union

3. It is a form of emotional abuse because your spouse feels imprisoned. It hurts when you share a bedroom and a house with someone who ignores you

4. It sets a bad mood in the house bringing about an unhealthy environment for the children

5. It makes you two drift apart since you get used to not engaging

6. It creates new issues thus complicating things further

7. It destroys unity and thus hindering blessings. Where there is unity, God commands a blessing

8. It demonstrates a form of childishness. Grown ups talk about matters no matter how difficult

9. It opens the door for you or your spouse to find comfort in another thus leading to affairs

10. It hurts and displeases God who is a God of reconciliation

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

In the book MOTO MOTO COUPLE, Akello and I address in depth the 21 issues that affect every relationship/marriage including work, s*x, finances, children, in-laws, communication and how rekindle love back in your marriage. She giving the female perspective, I give the man's perspective on each of those 21 issues.
____________________________
GET A COPY OF THE LOVE BOOK, "MOTO MOTO COUPLE", WRITTEN BY AKELLO OLIECH & DAYAN MASINDE
STEP 1: MPESA Ksh. 400 to 0721590954
STEP 2: Text your email address to 0721590954
STEP 3: Receive the digital book in your email
STEP 4: Download and read on phone/computer

02/01/2023

THE 14 NEEDS OF A WIFE

1. THE NEED TO BE PURSUED
She needs her husband to desire her, to miss her, to look for her, to hunt for her, to make advances towards her. It makes her feel treasured

2. THE NEED FOR INFORMATION
She would love for him to voluntarily give information, to be accountable to her. This gives her clarity and makes her feel involved

3. THE NEED FOR SECURITY
Security is about being certain that he is committed to her, that he has a vision that involves her. The confidence that what they have is long term

4. THE NEED FOR COMPANIONSHIP
She doesn't just want the husband-wife title, she needs a companion, a best friend. Someone to talk to about anything. Someone emotionally present

5. THE S*XUAL NEED
Yes, women have s*xual desires too. She doesn't want to be starved, to train her body to do without s*x. She needs sweet love making that services her good

6. THE NEED FOR COMPLIMENTS
She needs her beauty and attractiveness noticed and crowned by her man. It celebrates her femininity

7. THE NEED TO BE SUPPORTED
As she is his helper, she needs her dreams supported too. She needs his support in raising the children, handling challenges and finding solutions

8. THE NEED TO BE STUDIED
She loves it when he shows interest in her, when he asks loving questions to find her out. "How was your day?", "Are you OK Love?", "What happened to your arm, I notice you have a mark?", "I see these days you are learning a lot about economics, good stuff". It makes her feel important

9. THE NEED TO BE TREATED SPECIAL
She needs him to keep her as his priority. To be faithful. To call her by special names, to show honour to her, to take care of her in public and private

10. THE NEED TO BE TREATED WITH GENTLENESS
She needs him not to handle her as if she is a fellow man, but to speak to her with care

11. THE NEED TO BE THOUGHT OF
She loves it when he considers her in making decisions, when he sees something along his path and buys for her, when he does something she likes even when it is not his cup of tea

12. THE NEED TO BE PAMPERED
She loves it when she is soothed, when she is showered with affection, when she is having a bad day and he makes her smile, when she acts a bit stubborn and he wins her over with his charm

13. THE NEED TO BE ASSURED
She will have moments of doubt, of insecurities, of feeling low. She needs him to assure her how much she means to him

14. THE NEED TO BE APPRECIATED
For all the good she does, she needs him to appreciate her. It inspires her to do more and sacrifice more

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

In my book, MANHOOD SERIES, I walk with men towards understanding themselves and help women to understand men. I talk about how to be proactive and to cultivate a vision and take charge as a man; plus the man's place in marriage and family. I talk about how to deal with men's issues.

In my other book, WOMANHOOD SERIES, I walk with women towards understanding themselves and help men to understand women. I talk about the woman and her purpose, leading her life, not being a victim of circumstances; plus the woman's place in marriage and family. I talk about how to be emotionally rational.

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To purchase the MANHOOD SERIES written by Dayan Masinde, MPESA Ksh. 200 to 0721590954, then text the word MAN and your email address to the same number and the book will be sent to your email address for you to download and read on your phone or computer.

To purchase the WOMANHOOD SERIES written by Dayan Masinde, MPESA Ksh. 200 to 0721590954, then text the word WOMAN and your email address to the same number and the book will be sent to your email address for you to download and read on your phone or computer.

02/01/2023

THE 14 NEEDS OF A HUSBAND

1. THE NEED TO BE NEEDED
He needs to feel valued in her life and in the family, his presence celebrated, him being asked for counsel, asked to be of help

2. THE NEED TO BE RESPECTED
He needs to feels respected and not belittled, especially when being corrected. He wonders, "Will I still be treated as King when being corrected or is my Kingship thrown out of the window when I fall short or during storms?"

3. THE NEED TO BE ADMIRED
Despite his short comings, he needs her to notice his many good traits and his efforts. To be honoured. Not for distant men to be treated and spoken to better than him

4. THE NEED TO BE BELIEVED
He needs her not to have a prejudiced conclusion about him, not to question everything he says and to pour doubt into his ideas. It crushes him when he is talking to a woman who has already formed an opinion of him

5. THE NEED TO BE HEARD
He needs her not do dominate the conversation or make everything about her, turning deaf ears to his silent cries. Him feeling heard encourages him to open up and share anything

6. THE NEED FOR S*X
He is with her because he s*xually desires her. His s*xual needs being met by her will mean a lot. Getting pleasure should not be an uphill task

7. THE NEED TO BE INFORMED
It makes him feel honoured when she willingly tells him her plans. "Hey Love, I will be going for lunch with Lupita later today"

8. THE NEED TO BE SEDUCED
He loves a good show. A woman who flirts back at him, who teases him, turns him on, entertains him with a good view, makes s*xual moves on him. He too needs to feel desired

9. THE NEED TO PLAY
Life is already tough with much responsibilities. He needs to play. To have a woman who can laugh, joke around, make things light, keep him young, bring out the boy in him

10. THE NEED FOR PEACE
No drama. He cherishes an environment of no shouting or attacks, where he doesn't have to be on guard, where peace is protected

11. THE NEED FOR LOYALTY
He needs to know she will be there for him and with him even when things get tough, that she is not only there when it is easy and smooth. That she is not one foot in another out. That she is faithful

12. THE NEED FOR COMPANIONSHIP
He too needs a best friend, not just a wife. A confidant, a companion to do life with, someone to create memories with

13. THE NEED TO BE ASSURED
There are days when a man will be unsure, moments of weakness, moments where every one else might leave him. He needs her to assure him "You are still great. You are still loved. You are still King"

14. THE NEED TO BE APPRECIATED
Most often men feel unappreciated in a world quick to find fault in men and bring them down. It will mean a lot when he is appreciated for his efforts and growth

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

In my book, MANHOOD SERIES, I walk with men towards understanding themselves and help women to understand men. I talk about how to be proactive and to cultivate a vision and take charge as a man; plus the man's place in marriage and family. I talk about how to deal with men's issues.

In my other book, WOMANHOOD SERIES, I walk with women towards understanding themselves and help men to understand women. I talk about the woman and her purpose, leading her life, not being a victim of circumstances; plus the woman's place in marriage and family. I talk about how to be emotionally rational.

___________________________________

To purchase the MANHOOD SERIES written by Dayan Masinde, MPESA Ksh. 200 to 0721590954, then text the word MAN and your email address to the same number and the book will be sent to your email address for you to download and read on your phone or computer.

To purchase the WOMANHOOD SERIES written by Dayan Masinde, MPESA Ksh. 200 to 0721590954, then text the word WOMAN and your email address to the same number and the book will be sent to your email address for you to download and read on your phone or computer.

02/01/2023