07/22/2024
The biggest difference I’ve seen in my eloping couples vs my traditional couples 👇🏼
I shot traditional weddings for 5 years and fully transitioned into elopements exclusively for over a year now and here’s the biggest difference I’ve noticed in my couples who have had traditional weddings vs the ones that eloped.
Stress 😞
I know eloping is definitely not for everyone and I know that traditional weddings are also not for everyone. But so far, I have never seen or heard any of my eloping couples regret going out and having an epic day for just the two of them. And I’ve heard of so many couples who have had traditional weddings regret it and would’ve preferred to elope - especially if they realized what an elopement could really look like!
For a lot of couples, traditional weddings feel like an obligation which is why planning a bigger wedding can feel so stressful because deep down you know this isn’t really how you want to start your lives together. We’ve lost sight of the purpose of what your wedding should be about, which is YOU. Traditional weddings are marketed to please your guests and not yourselves. You’re there as a host taking care of everyone else when everyone else should be taking care of you.
Eloping is a way to tune out the noise and actually get to focus on doing what you want in the exact way you want it. And guess what?! If you still want to party with your friends and family to celebrate, YOU CAN! Elopements do not mean you have to isolate yourself!
I’m just here to encourage any couples who are struggling while planning a bigger wedding that there might be better options for you out there and to encourage you to listen to your gut if you’re feeling overwhelmed and stressed. Maybe take a step back and really think about what you want and what the most epic day with your partner would look like.
Multiple couples I’ve worked with over the past year actually started planning a bigger wedding and even put down deposits before finally listening to their own needs and ditching the entire wedding they had planned! So it’s never too late! 🫶🏼
I would love to be a safe space for you and help plan your elopement!