Marriage beyond the I Do

04/20/2024

A special thank you 😊 to All who wished me a happy birthday. The love was well appreciated. Blessings to each and every one of you.

04/17/2024

Omg someone’s birthday is in two days. 🎁🎊🎂🎈It’s amazing how I get younger every year.

04/14/2024

After crossing paths at a Charlotte nightclub, Fantasia and her husband got engaged after just 3 weeks of dating.

"I knew he was the one when I was preparing to hit the road, and he knelt down and asked, 'Can I cover you?' I was taken aback and asked, 'Cover me?' He proceeded to pray while on his knees. I was so moved by the gesture that I couldn't even focus on the prayer. I was left wondering, 'Is this real?'"

04/04/2024

WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO SOLVE ISSUES QUICKLY IN MARRIAGE

1. To enjoy sleep. Sleep is a struggle when you are not in good terms with your spouse

2. To prevent your spouse or yourself from being tempted into an affair. Most affairs start in moments of offense, when you are mad at your spouse or your spouse is mad at you and an outsider gives you a shoulder to lean on OR gives your spouse a shoulder to lean on

3. To prevent a small issue from growing into bigger issues or complications. Any unresolved matters morphs into huge threats that will be harder to solve

4. To show your spouse that you value what you two have. How much you value your marriage will be seen in how quick you solve matters

5. For the sake of peace at home. The home is the one place you should come to find peace. The biggest impediment to peace at home is unresolved issues

6. For the sake of the children. You cannot parent children in a healthy way if you two are at war

7. To prevent you two from drifting apart. Each day that goes with you two not talking to each well you two drift apart

8. To train your reconciliation muscle. Reconciliation is a practice you constantly need to teach yourselves if you want to have a strong marriage

9. To focus on more important things such as investing together, raising children well, touching lives and fulfilling purpose. You can't do all these in an environment of offense

10. To prevent misinterpretations and assumptions. When you two are not in good talking terms, you read too much into each other's words and actions, assuming the worst, thus giving birth to new issues

11. To prevent yourselves from resenting each other. As long as you two don't reconcile, you are giving room to resentment. Soon, you will both start to despise each other and offense will lead to more offense

12. To protect your intimacy. Your emotional, physical and sexual intimacy will be destroyed if you two remain mad at each other. Offense brings loneliness, sexual frustration, alcoholism and p**n addiction. Many married are looking for escapes because their marriage has issues. Sometimes your spouse will not want to make love to you, not because he/she is having an affair but because of offense

13. So that you two can fulfil the vision of your marriage. You will not walk in agreement if you don't see eye to eye. Don't destroy everything you two have built and were meant to build

14. So that you two don't end up divorcing due to irreconcilable differences

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

01/30/2024

Bible Scholars:
As the Author of “Stop Courting Boaz” Who can concur or disagree with why I feel “Waiting on Boaz” is a man made cliche. Hint: There are multiple reasons.

01/29/2024

Sometimes I wonder why some appear single on social media but in actuality are in relationships. I would much rather be someone’s best told story vs someone’s best kept secret.

01/29/2024

Author Dr LaTonya McGee encourages all women… single, dating/courting or married to order her life changing book STOP COURTING BOAZ. A book that will change your outlook concerning YOU. It not only prepares women for successful relationships, the book prepares you for life itself. As per the title, if you are waiting on Boaz, you will change your mind after journeying through Stop Courting Boaz as it introduces you to a new look into the relationship between Ruth and Boaz before taking you into a new into you as a beautiful individual. Boaz was intended for Ruth as your husband is for you. Order your copy today on Amazon.

01/26/2024

Bible Scholars, I’m going easy on you today. How long did Jacob wait for Rachel? Men take it a step further. Tell us why waiting on the right woman is meaningful to you? Both singles and married can answer.

01/24/2024

Bible Scholars: Did Lot’s wife simply look back or did she go back???

12/25/2023

Merry Christmas 🎄

12/13/2023

🚨🚨🗣️🗣️ COUNTDOWN… LET THE ONE NIGHT REVIVAL BEGIN 🔥🔥🔥

12/08/2023

Thank you Minister AlidaJai Rogers for your powerful 🔥🔥🔥 prayer this morning. God heard every word and responded. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

07/11/2023

PERFECT LOVE CASTS OUT FEAR!
1John 4:8

06/25/2023

Women we should always strive to turn our houses into homes. A house with constant chaos disturbs the infrastructure. Build up, don’t tear down…

04/20/2023

Pray for Jamie Foxx, Lors No weapon formed against him shall not Prosper give Jamie a testimony to tell what you have some by healing him. In Jesus name

04/20/2023

04/04/2023

09/23/2021

True love is not a hide-and-seek game; in true love, both lovers seek each other. - Michael Bassey Johnson

07/04/2021

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03/31/2021

Learn to LOVE yourself. When you do that it is easier to love another person. That makes marriage that much Loveable.

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03/27/2021

Love holds no barriers, love is respect, let be make sure that both parties look out for one another. Love at least real love will not humiliate each other. Love each other and as my Aunt says “Be good to each other”.
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03/23/2021

Why have a flower girl when you can have a flower guy...
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03/13/2021

Today was an awesome day got to spend it with my partner in crime. Love doing ministry with my wife and wife.

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03/09/2021

What’s this thing called, “Submission,” is live. See link in bio for all listening platforms. Submission isn’t always as easy topic especially when being portrayed as a “Do what I say,” method of one sided communication when it comes to marriage. Join hosts and as they break down the biblical formula for submission.

03/01/2021

A wedding is a ceremony where two people are united in marriage. They commit in front of God first and those that they have invited to love each other no matter what. When you think about the ceremony there are several commitments made in this less than an hour ceremony. Let's remember those commitments.

02/28/2021

Submission does not mean that a woman bows down to a man or if he says, “Jump, ” a woman asks, “How high.” Do you agree or disagree? Let's talk about it. Comment or Dm or let's collab... Link in bio for full episode.
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02/28/2021

Click link in bio for full episode. Let’s start a conversation on this very topic. Please comment or feel free to DM us. We’re down for a collab. Pull up a seat, have a snack and enjoy.
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02/28/2021

🚨🗣📣Today is the day, “What’s this thing called submission” podcast is going live today, 3:00PM E.S.T. You don’t want to miss it. The true meaning of submission is broken down beautifully from a beautiful biblical standpoint, not man’s point of view. 🤔
After a small hiatus, Marriage at Best podcast is coming back with more Marriage News from serious topics to straight humor. Growing old together has it’s challenges and certainly some ups and downs. Marriage at best is here to help you face and get through marital challenges and making downs temporary as we steer towards an (up)wards victory in any situation you are facing. Tune in to our newest podcast to air 2.28.21 as we discuss, “What’s this thing called submission?” Also be sure to listen to our current podcasts. https://linktr.ee/Marriageatbest Also in bio.
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02/27/2021

After a small hiatus, Marriage at Best podcast is coming back with more Marriage News from serious topics to straight humor. Growing old together has it’s challenges and certainly some ups and downs. Marriage at best is here to help you face and get through marital challenges and making downs temporary as we steer towards an (up)wards victory in any situation you are facing. Tune in to our newest podcast to air 2.28.21 as we discuss, “What’s this thing called submission?” Also be sure to listen to our current podcast. https://linktr.ee/Marriageatbest Also in bio.
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