My daughters’s birth was moved up an entire week and I had so many things planned but the doctors know best. One of the things I had to shift around at short notice was the design portfolio reveal for one of my sweet new couples Valerie & Mark to the day before my daughters’s birth. They loved everything about it and it just made my heart melt!
I love when clients love the designs I come up with for them
Double tap if you too want to feel this good about your event design?
Sike! There are many ways to scale down your wedding guest list. DM me today for the steps on deciding who will make the guest list cut.
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I'm always going to encourage you to plan your wedding Like a BOSS! But what exactly does that mean?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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What do you think it means to be BOSS Bride?
Don’t let this be you! I’m so passionate about budgets and I really want you to win! Don’t spend what you don’t have and what you do have put it in the right places! DM me for some sound spending advice.
It’s been an interesting roller coaster for me the last few weeks. Meetings on top of meetings, designs, day-of prep and as I look at the calendar the ish is just not slowing down. But what I’m gonna do is celebrate the small wins while the workload is heavy...like sliding into the weekend! I’m ready...what’s on your agenda this weekend? Relaxing? Booked with events? Chillin with the fam?
Tell me! I want to hear about it.
Do you have a bridesmaid in your wedding party that you really wish you didni't ask to be in your #bridetribe?
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Here's how to handle it:
1. Have a heart to heart with the whole group so no one feels singled out. Let them all know that this is a really stressful time and it means the world to you that they support you but if for any reason they want to back out-no hard feelings.
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2. Speak to each of the ladies individually. They have lives too, so continue to be the friend you've always been. Check in with them and make sure they are ok, they may be going through something
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3.Let them know upfront (like when you invite them to join your wedding party) what you expect. Something like, "Yes there will be a couple of parties before the wedding I would like you to do your best to attend and you may have to pay for your hair and makeup, dress and flight - is that cool with you?"
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4. If you are getting a bad feeling -do not ignore that intuition. It's best to ask them to step down early one instead of the night before, after they've already booked a flight, paid for a dress, etc.
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Does this help? I'd love to know. Drop a line in the comments!
Are you a BOSS Bride?
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I'm always going to encourage you to plan your wedding Like a BOSS! But what exactly does that mean?
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1. It means to DELEGATE. A BOSS does not have time to concern herself with mundane or super complicated planning tasks. She hires professionals and trusts them to get it done.
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2. It means to HAVE CLASS. A BOSS will write all her vendors a positive review because they know it's important to their future business and handle disputes off-line.
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3. It means not being a BRIDEZILLA. A BOSS can tactfully address difficult situations without attacking her support system or being mean.
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What do you think it means to be BOSS Bride?
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So thankful for the group of vendors that came together to make this DOPE photoshoot a success!! 🎶 Credit “Do It” Chloe x Halle. Vendor Team:
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Planning a wedding?
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If you didn't do your research BEFORE you started booking vendors then this is likely your reaction when you start requesting quotes.
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Events are a luxury...and if you don't have an idea of how much it costs you're going to be in for a real shock!
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I'm talking to myself too BOSS! I, too was shocked when I was planning my own wedding and I'd told a videographer my budget was $2k and they said, "Do you mean 12k?" 🤣 this right here was my reaction - so believe my I understand.
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Let me show you how to not make the same mistakes.
The first step is to DO YOUR RESEARCH so you understand how much what you want costs - and you'll have better expectations the next time you receive a quote.
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Questions about this? Drop them in the comments.