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Watch friends pitch their single q***r besties using 3-5 minute slideshows live at inclusive venues in KC. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🎤→ Next: 3.20.25 @ The Ship

02/01/2025

We’re also just going to leave this right here 😁

Click the link in our bio to preview January’s pitchees and their contact info .xo

01/30/2025

Whew 🥵 The pressure! came to .xo and held nothing back!! He was THE vibe.

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01/28/2025

We’re all about bringing people together. You don’t have to take our word for it — ask your friends & check the recaps. 😏

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01/23/2025

✋🏽STOP SCROLLING ✋🏽 tonight’s .xo and over 150 q***rs will be in the building watching pitches, sipping drinks, and making new connections. Will be you be there too?

📍 - 1707 Locust St.

Plus join us for AFTER HOURS, our new post-event social .kc for a little more of whatever you’re in the mood for — $1 well drinks going on all night!

01/20/2025

We’re excited to welcome back .kc for Episode 2 of .xo 🎉 if you loved their backdrop in November, you’ll be obsessed with their January set up 😍

01/18/2025

She’s baccckkkk — catch on 1.23.25 from 6:30-9:30 PM serving vibes .xo ✨

📍1707 Locust St. Kansas City, MO

01/17/2025

‼️IMPORTANT NOTICE ‼️

Please be advised that due to capacity concerns, we’ve had to change the venue for Where To Find Us. The event will now be held at , 1707 Locust St — Same date. Same time. Click the link in our bio .xo to grab tickets. See you there!

Tiff & Lo 💕

01/15/2025

Tell ya friends, the early bird ticket sales end on 1.16.25! Click the link in our bio .xo to grab your discounted tickets now + RSVP for AFTER HOURS, our free post event social.✨

01/14/2025

QU**RS ASSEMBLE! In just 10 days, we’ll be rocking our White Lie T-shirts and setting the stage for KC’s bravest wing-people to share a pitch deck on why you should date their single q***r friend. 😍 Aside from pitches, the night will feature music by , a performance by , and our newest addition: AFTER HOURS —the conversational encore to .xo.

Don’t miss out! Meet us at 6:30 pm!

📍1060 Union Ave. Kansas City, MO 64101

01/09/2025

Have you heard? This month we’re Introducing: AFTER HOURS—the conversational encore to .xo

Consider it your invitation to move beyond the entertainment and presentations, and dive into authentic, meaningful connections.

Here, you can grab a drink, unwind, and let the evening unfold naturally—because often, the most memorable moments happen after the slides fade to black.

✨ 1.23.25 @ 9:30 PM
📍 .kc @ 4117 Mill St.
✨ RSVP at link in bio: Free Entry

01/07/2025

Who’s ready for another hot & steamy performance .xo?!

Lucky for you, singer, songwriter, and boylesque artist will be setting stage on fire at our upcoming event on 1.23.25!

So mark your calendars and get ready—It’s going to be 𝙚𝙡𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙘. Oh, and word on the street is, Richi’s single 😉.

𝗝𝗼𝗶𝗻 𝘂𝘀 𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘀 𝗼𝘂𝘁:
𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘮𝘦：𝘞𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘞𝘩𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘓𝘪𝘦 𝘛－𝘚𝘩𝘪𝘳𝘵

Date: January 23, 2025
Time: 6:30-9:30 PM
Place:
Music:
Performance x
Tickets: Early Bird Special - $10, ends on 1.16.25
Ages: 21+

After Party: After Hours .kc
Tickets: Free

✨ Click the link in our bio to grab your discounted tickets now or sign up to pitch your single q***r friend!

01/06/2025

We get it—holidays and travel can throw off your timing! So, we’ve extended the deadline to pitch your single friend .xo for our upcoming event. You now have until midnight on January 8, 2025, to sign up.

The application is short and sweet, so don’t wait—get it in ASAP!

01/02/2025

Be a better wing-person in 2025—Sign up to pitch your single q***r bestie .xo! Applications close on 1.6.25 so hurry!

01/01/2025

I hope this year brings you the courage to embrace more of what you crave—whether it’s dating, exploring, taking risks, speaking up, taking more time offline, trying new things, or enjoying solo dates and trips. Above all, I hope you pour into yourself more than ever. You deserve it, and I hope this is the year you make it happen.

Happy New Year 🎉

12/31/2024

It’s not just an event—it’s the beginning of countless stories, connections, and moments that matter 💕

12/27/2024

Deep thinkers & intellectuals in the q***r community, we’re brewing up something new & special for you in 2025! Something that we hope will inspire learning, spark wonder, and ignite meaningful conversations. Stay tuned… we’ll be dropping more details soon.

In the meantime, sign up to pitch your single q***r bestie .xo and grab your tickets before the early bird specials end! 💕

12/26/2024

The holidays are already here we hope yours are truly filled with cheer! 🍾✨🎄🎉

12/23/2024

Early bird tickets are available til 1.16.25 — grab your tickets now to get them at discounted prices! 🥳

𝐖𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐄 𝐓𝐎 𝐅𝐈𝐍𝐃 𝐔𝐒 - 𝐖𝐡𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐋𝐢𝐞 𝐄𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧:
Date: January 23, 2025
Time: 6:30-9:30 PM
Place:
Music:
Performance x

After Party: .kc
Theme: White Lie T-Shirt Edition
Ages: 21+
Tickets: Early Bird Special - $10, ends on 1.16.25

📧 click the link in our bio .xo to subscribe to our email list & get exclusive subscriber only FLASH SALES & DISCOUNTS!

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“I’m low-key a fem for everyone” 😏

WE VIBEEEEEE ✨ Seriously. Episode 2 of Where To Find Us was 🔥🔥🔥 — Y’all truly brought the energy last week! From the impromptu jam sessions to the hilarious pitches and sexy performance by @richiramosofficial, this episode turned out to be one of those events you just had to be there for.

@wheretofindus.xo is back tomorrow with a mission to create a safe space where the queer community can land softly, feel celebrated, and embrace their truest selves. In times when many of us might be feeling weighed down, we hope to bring a little light, love, and joy to your week. With that being said, meet us @parlorkcmo at 6:30pm, where we’ll be rocking our White Lie T-shirts and setting the stage for KC’s bravest wing-people to share a pitch deck on why you should date their single queer friend. Aside from pitches, the night will feature music by @djmunch816, a performance by @richiramosofficial, and our newest addition: AFTER HOURS —the conversational encore to @wheretofindus.xo. See you there! 📍 1707 Locust St. Kansas City, MO 64108

And that’s why you come to @wheretofindus.xo — Show up solo or bring the squad. Discounted group tickets are now available until 1.22.25 🙌🏾

We’re on the hunt for 12 eligible queer singles ready to be pitched on @theblackboxkc stage to a crowd like shark tank! Have a friend who’s single and ready to mingle? This is your chance to be the wing person you were always meant to be, and pitch them to a group of 150+ mostly single queer folks. Or maybe YOU are the single queer friend who wants to be pitched! Send this to your bestie and let them know… it’s time for them to work their magic! We won’t judge if you lay the peer pressure on thick 💁🏽‍♀️ Applications are open now—we’re constantly reviewing submissions so APPLY ASAP by clicking the link in our bio!

Introducing: AFTER HOURS—the conversational encore to Where To Find Us. Think of it as your official permission slip to carry on that witty banter, dig a little deeper into that intriguing story, or finally introduce yourself to someone you didn’t get a chance to chat with before. Here, the “show” shifts from spotlight pitches to genuine, human connection at its finest. Come sip a drink, relax, and let the night unfold at its own pace—because sometimes, the most meaningful moments happen after the slides fade to black. ✨ 1.23.25 @ 9:30 PM 📍 Jungalow @ 4117 Mill Street ✨ RSVP at link in bio: Free Entry

🚨BIG NEWS 🚨 The next 𝑾𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝑻𝒐 𝑭𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝑼𝒔 is on the horizon and we’ve opened up applications for all the wing people ready to pitch their single queer bestie! If that’s you, click the link in our bio @wheretofindus.xo sign up NOW. Applications close on 1.6.25.

Whether you’re a drag queen, king, dancer, musician, burlesque artist, or anything in between — if you bring the energy, we want to hear from you! This is all about celebrating our community, sharing talent, and creating something truly special.✨ DM us if you’re interested or tag someone who’s perfect for the stage! 🎤✨😎

“How Fly Is She?!” … so fly her friends pitched her @wheretofindus.xo 😏

FREE EVENT PHOTOS are now available! 📸 The full album from our first-ever 𝑾𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝑻𝒐 𝑭𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝑼𝒔 event is officially live! We’ve captured all the moments, the smiles, and the good vibes, and now we’re sharing them with YOU! Relive the magic, share them with your friends, & tag us @wheretofindus.xo so we can see all your favorite moments! 💫 #wheretofinduskc @wtfukc #kansascityevents #kansascitylgbtqia