The Road to Marriage

Name: The Road to Marriage
Address: Laguna Hills, CA, US
Telephone: +12105162074
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The Road to Marriage

TRTM is for couples who want to create a wedding planning journey/experience that’s as unique as their love story.
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Located in Orange County, CA & serving all couples in California and select TX locations.

06/19/2024

“A bride should look like herself, only more beautiful.”
~Sophia Loren

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06/12/2024

Can you believe in*******al marriage has only been legal in the U.S. for 57 years 😲

Before the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision, in the 1967 case of Loving vs Virginia, striking down all remaining anti-miscegenation laws in*******al couples could be arrested for simply being married 💔

Despite the ignorance and discrimination they faced, we celebrate their victory on June 12th as Loving Day 💘

Because of Mildred and Richard Loving’s bravery, tenacity, and unwavering commitment I have the privilege of safeguarding the memories of the in*******al couples who trust me to guide them on their wedding planning journey 💫

Please join me in celebrating Loving Day & my 2024 in*******al couples 🥰

“The freedom to marry, or not marry a person of another race resides with the individual, and cannot be infringed by the state.”
~The United States Supreme Court 1967

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06/03/2024

Let’s spread some positivity this week 🌟

It’s so easy to get caught up in self-improvement and overlook our gifts 🫣

I’ll even go first…one thing I love about myself is my dry humor 🤭

Adding a little levity to a situation and making someone laugh is always a pleasure 🩵

Now it’s your turn 💭

Don’t be shy, what’s something you like about yourself ☺️

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05/27/2024

Which wedding details are your favorite 🪧

Whether you love the
✨ Flickering candles 🕯️
✨ Cherished photos of the newlyweds 📸
✨ Wax seals on your perfectly placed menu card 🍽️

Each element is integral to creating this wedding vision 🥰

From incorporating their color palette, various textures, and subtle nerdy-chic features into various components we created a cohesive design 💜🩶💚🤍

Drop me an emoji below of your favorite wedding detail 😍

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05/17/2024

Happy Wedding Weekend C & E 🍾

After almost a year of planning it’s finally time to create your amazing vision 💜🩶🌿🥼🏳️‍🌈

5.19.24 can’t get here fast enough 😆

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05/15/2024

LOVE IS IN THE AIR🫶🏾

This week, I’m kicking off my 2024 wedding season with C&E’s event🪄

I absolutely cannot wait for them to experience the elation and carefree moments that will become their wedding day memories 🥹

Share what you’re looking forward to this week🎊

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05/14/2024

FAQ: Our venue has a coordinator, why are we required to hire a wedding planner🤔

Feeling confused, you’re not alone, let’s talk about why having both gives you the best of both worlds 💭

Venue Coordinators are an integral part of the wedding planning process, but they’ve been hired to represent the best interests of the venue💒

Their duties include tasks like
✨Overseeing the setup and clean up of the venue’s rentals such as tables, chairs, and potentially in-house linens
✨Ensuring your vendors are aware of and respecting the venue’s policies
✨Sharing their preferred list of wedding vendors

Wedding Planners are your personal advocates focusing on YOUR vision and needs
💕Ensuring your design is cohesive
💕Researching and recommending vendors that align with your personality and financial comfort zone
💕Communicating your vision to your vendor team
💕Working BTS to ensure a seamless experience on your wedding day

Having both guarantees your needs and the needs of the venue are met 😉

If you found this helpful drop me a 👍🏾

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04/26/2024

Happy Anniversary my love 😘

Thank you for choosing to do life with me 🤪

Thank you for daring me to dream bigger 💫

Thank you for learning and growing with me especially during the challenging times 🥹

There’s no one else I’d rather take this ride with, I love you CB 😘

04/17/2024

On a gorgeous day like this, who else gets the itch for summer travel 🛫

Is it just me or does the anticipation of planning a trip feel as thrilling as going on vacation 😆

Because I’m an over planner by nature, I’m already thinking ahead to next summer 🤣

My husband, Justin, and I are thinking of checking off one of our bucket list items and going to Japan for our 10th wedding anniversary 🗾

Where are you dreaming of going next 🌍

Share your wanderlust destinations 👇🏾

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04/11/2024

Is your guest list out of control😳

Navigating who makes the cut can feel like a game of Tetris, but remember, it’s all about creating a day filled with love and joy, not just names on a list. 📝

Cutting down a guest list often means making hard decisions. 😢

But it’s not about being ruthless, it’s about creating the atmosphere you want. 💕

✨Here are some tips for cutting down your guest list✨

☝🏾Make sure the most important people you want to share this experience with are on the list first

✌🏾Be honest with yourself, are you inviting someone because of desire or obligation

Remember, your wedding is all about you and your partner 💘

So, create a guest list that reflects the people you want to share your special day with 🫶🏾

Share someone you couldn’t celebrate without on your wedding day👇🏾

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04/02/2024

Who else had their fur baby at OR in their wedding 🐾

They’re not like family because they are family 💕

Imagining their little paws walking down the aisle brings happy tears to my eyes 🥹

You’re wedding day would be incomplete without them 😭

Share your fur baby’s name below and let’s celebrate our four-legged family members together 🫶🏾

My fur baby’s name is Cassius…what’s yours 🩵

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04/01/2024

Who else starts dreaming of their next summer vacation this time of year 😎

I’m looking forward to the delicious food, unexpected surprises, and creating unforgettable memories 💫

Like discovering this taste of Italy hidden in Puerto Vallarta 🍕

Where are you dreaming of going next 🌏

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03/22/2024

Who says you can’t plan the wedding of your dreams in 6 months or less 🤔

Life moves fast. And sometimes so do wedding plans 😅

Perhaps time got away from you, or plans took longer to put in motion ⏳

Whatever the reason, the good news is I’m here to guide you through it all 🤓

On the blog, I’m sharing my tried-and-true strategies to help you navigate the challenges and make the most of this exciting time 🎊

No frills, this is straightforward advice to turn your swift plans into a memorable event 😉

Click the link in my bio to learn more ⬆️

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03/19/2024

Ah, spring is finally here and I couldn’t be more excited 😆

These are a few of my favorite things about spring
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Let’s spread some springtime joy together ✨

Using emojis share your favorite things about spring

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03/18/2024

“It can only be true love when you enable your other half to be better, to be the person they’re destined to be.”
~Michelle Yeoh

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03/01/2024

Have you ever done something that scared the hell out of you but you did it anyway 😥

For me it’s public speaking 🎤

The thought of talking in front of a group of people has my hands shaking and my back sweating 😰

While I sat there listening to everyone introducing themselves, I was secretly calculating how many speakers there were between me and the mic 😳

Before I knew it, I was standing in front of planners I admire and gripping that microphone like a lifeline trying not to talk too fast 💨

I hear the more you practice the easier it gets 🤔

Luckily, I have opportunities like these to practice facing my fear 😅

If you’re willing to share one of your fears, I’d be happy to listen…even if you can’t imagine conquering it yet ☺️

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02/16/2024

Planner Tip: One of the biggest mistakes engaged couples make in their wedding planning process is booking their wedding planner AFTER the venue 😲

I may be biased, but hiring a professional planner should be the 1st step for every couple as they start to plan their dream wedding 😊️

Here are a few reasons why
📋Guides you to choose a venue that will fit your needs and financial comfort zone

📋Reviews timing & contracts

📋Ensures the venue aligns with your design vision

📋Makes sure there is a solid weather plan

📋Provides realistic pros and cons, especially when it comes to capacity

DM me to learn more about hiring

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02/13/2024

Happy Galentine’s Day ❣️

Today is all about celebrating your squad - the ones who have been by your side through thick and thin 🥹

Whether they were there cheering you on when you landed your dream job 📣

Or giving you tough love when you needed it most, your girls are the ultimate support system 🥰

They’re not just friends, they’re the sisters of your heart 💗

Take a moment today to send them some extra love and appreciation 💛

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02/03/2024

Not every family member needs an invite to your big day 😲

Sometimes, keeping it intimate means more laughs, deeper connections, and less ‘who’s that again?’ moments 😆

Remember, your wedding, your rules! 🥂

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01/29/2024

“Of all the things you wear, your expression is the most important.”
~Anonymous

On your wedding day, your expression is the most important thing you wear 🫶🏾

The pressure to find the perfect dress can be overwhelming, but it’s not about the dress - it’s about how it makes you feel 🪞

When you put on that dress you’re glowing, you feel more attractive, and it truly makes you feel like a bride 💖

Embrace the joy and confidence that comes with finding “the one” that reflects your inner radiance ✨

If you know someone planning their wedding who needs to hear this, share this message with them

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01/24/2024

Stepping out of my comfort zone, and diving into the world of networking as an introvert can be a real challenge 😅

This year, I’m determined to attend 2 networking events per month with the goal of meeting 3-5 new people at each event 👋🏾

Whether it’s reconnecting as a small group or having one-on-one conversations, it’s all about making genuine connections 🗯️

So tell me, what’s something that takes you out of your comfort zone 😳

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01/20/2024

There’s something special about wedding planning with couples and their mothers 💕

Moms bring such a positive energy and elation to the process, and let’s be real, they’ve been waiting for this moment longer than the couple 🎉

They’re also an invaluable sounding board when it comes to family dynamics and seating arrangements 😅

Witnessing the pride and joy they have for their children on wedding day is so heartwarming 🥹

Moms you’re always welcome to join the wedding planning journey

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01/18/2024

Let’s debunk this wedding myth - wedding planners are a luxury item 💸

It’s simply not true 👎🏾

Whether you’re hosting a small intimate wedding or a large wedding with tons of details, having a wedding planner by your side is beneficial 💯

They can help you make smart, educated decisions 🤓

They’re experts that have strong relationships with vendors 👩🏾‍💻

They are the unbiased third party to help diffuse family tension and opinions 😅

No matter the size or financial comfort zone of the event, having a wedding planner on your team is invaluable 😌

Tag someone that needs to hear this ❣️

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01/18/2024

Ever wondered what happens when you fully embrace your wedding vision 🪄

E&J envisioned an intimate destination event with their favorite people over a good meal ❣️

When we met, they were overwhelmed with options and they’d put their dreams of getting married abroad on hold 😮‍💨

We focused on solidifying their guest list, explored venues in Northern CA that embodied characteristics of The Champagne region of France, giving E&J peace of mind that we were refining their vision 👩🏾‍💻

Ultimately, they embraced their desire to have an intimate celebration abroad and we set our sights on Paris 🇫🇷

On wedding day, everyone boarded the Henry IV and took a scenic cruise on The Seine as they enjoyed canapés and champagne 🍾

When we reached the Eiffel Tower dock, guests were invited to join E&J on the upper deck as they witnessed them vow to always love one another unconditionally 🥹

Because they embraced their vision E&J created a celebration that was uniquely theirs✨

Share this with a loved one considering a destination wedding and let the inspiration flow 🗺️

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01/17/2024

Think of The Road To Marriage as the zen master of event planning 😌

We keep things so chill, you’ll wonder if we meditate between meetings 🧘🏾‍♀️

Stress? We don’t know her ☺️

Scroll through to see some of the ways we’ll be guiding clients through planning events of all shapes and sizes this year ✨

Whether you need help from Day 1 or some expert support in the home stretch, we have offerings to meet you where you are and make planning fun along the way 💍

If you’re planning a wedding and want to avoid the last-minute panic, a mountain of indecisive moments, and the stress that comes with doing all the things, all while genuinely enjoying the planning and celebrating, we’re here for you 💖

Check the link in our bio to connect and learn how can make your event a seamless, joyful experience 🥂

Let’s create something unforgettable together 💫

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01/12/2024

What better way to kick off the year than with an introduction
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I’m Helayne (Ha-lane) and I’m the owner and lead planner at The Road To Marriage 💙

I’m usually BTS, working to ensure my clients can stress less and focus on enjoying their engagement, while I guide them on their wedding planning journey 👩🏾‍💻😌

Instead of hiding, this year, I’m going to show my face until you get sick of seeing me 😂

Sadly, I’m by far my biggest critic and, choosing photos to post can be stressful 🫣

Instead of letting that little voice in my head remind me of all the reasons I shouldn’t, couldn’t, or haven’t 🤫

I’m going to remember why I should, I can, and embrace being proud of myself because I did 🥹

Who else is challenging themselves not to let themselves down in 2024 😅

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11/20/2023

This past weekend, after 11 months of planning, we celebrated S&C 🎊

As caretakers 🩺, animal rescuers 🐾, and escape room aficionados 🧩 these two are constantly putting others first

It was such a delight to see them surrounded by their favorite people as they celebrated their marriage 🏳️‍🌈

Thank you to these fantastic wedding pros who embraced this amazing couple and their vision for rustic elegance with rainbow details ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

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11/14/2023

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Witnessing Ben’s soulful performances has often given me goosebumps 🪄

And his inviting personality makes guests feel at ease asking questions about his craft ☺️

He’s a gem who’s at the top of the referral list 🎼❣️

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11/13/2023

Happy Monday❣️

I can’t believe there are only 48 more days left in this year 😲

Heading into my last wedding week of the year, I’m reflecting on some of the incredible opportunities I’ve been blessed with this season 🥹

•I planned and produced my first two destination weddings {Puerto Vallarta 🌴& Paris 🇫🇷}

•I was invited to design the August Taste of Jay’s event at the Rose Center and had the pleasure of collaborating with , , , , , , , , , via , 🩷🤍💚💜

•I had the privilege of advocating for my LGBTQ+ couples by sparing them the rejection and disappointment of interacting with businesses who do not appreciate or support their love 🏳️‍🌈

•I had the pleasure of meeting some phenomenal wedding pros, creating new relationships, and expanding my network to bring my clients even more amazing options for their wedding planning needs 🫶🏾

While planning for 2024 & 2025 has already begun I don’t want to lose sight of how amazing 2023 has been and continues to be 🥰

What’s on your mind this week🤔

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11/05/2023

When travel is an integral part of your relationship getting married abroad is the perfect way to celebrate ✈️👰🏻‍♀️🤵🏻‍♂️

E&J envisioned sharing their love of France with an intimate group of their family & friends 🇫🇷

Today they’re cruising the Seine to exchange their vows on the upper deck of the Henri IV with views of the Eiffel Tower🛥️🤩

Cheers to our newlyweds for staying true to their unconditional, always and forever love

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THANK YOU DOCTOR WHO 🥼 E’s tattoo written in Gallifreyan caught C’s eye, and these two Whovians have been inseparable ever since 💘 Paying homage to Dr Who for bringing them together we included details like 🎶C surprising E by walking down the aisle to the Doctor Who theme song “Clara” 🥃Signature drinks named “Rosé Tyler & Allons-y 🕰️🧳A Tardis replica for guests to take photos with Without you these moments may never have happened 🥹 Cheers to our nerdy-chic newlyweds 🤓 Photographer: @truedaughtersphotography Venue: @park31venue Floral Designer: @entireeventsco Cinema: @lonaweddings Entertainment: @lumenevents Catering: @trueflavorssa Specialty Linen: @brighteventrentals Cake & Cupcakes: @cakesbycathyyoung Stationery: @rosevilledesigns Wedding Gown: @bluebridalaustin Makeup: @makeupbycynthiabarba Napkins & Specialty China: @luxeeventdecor Specialty Flatware: @illusionsrentals Mariachis: @campanasdeamerica Bartending: @bartendersanddreams Menswear: @menswearhouse Party Bus: @eti_limoandcharter Hairstylists: @mphairdesign_ Full Service Planning: @theroadtomarriage #newlyweds2024 #park31wedding #sanantonionewlyweds #drwhofansgetit #travelingweddingplanner✈️

Because your wedding day is probably the largest and most elaborate event you’ve planned it’s easy to overlook expenses that can significantly impact your financial comfort zone 😅 There can be a tremendous amount of details and vendors to put together to make this one day happen ✨ The reality is, it all adds up very quickly 💰 You may have thought of your big ticket items (wedding planner, venue, floral, catering, etc) but what about those items that are often overlooked 🌟Getting ready space: You may need to pay for your room the night before to have access early the next morning OR add extra hours onto your venue rental 🌟Shipping + postage for stationery: Oversized envelopes, vintage stamps, and custom envelopes all play a part in elevating costs 🌟Ceremony sound equipment: An additional ceremony setup, speakers, and microphones can increase your entertainment expenses 🌟Late night snack offerings: Offering guests a late night bite is a fun addition that also adds additional costs 🌟After hours fees for rental companies: Late night pickups are outside of your rental company’s business hours, and are priced accordingly If you found this helpful drop me a 👍🏾below Venue: @ocean_institute_weddings Photographer: @jennabechtholt Rentals: @brighteventrentals Floral: @ellamah Officiant: @lizraeandco Invitation Suite: @rosevilledesigns Grooming Services: @emilylynnandcompany Reception Stationery: @shinewedding Menswear: @enzocustom Late Night Snack: @innout #weddingexpenses #overlookedweddingdetails #tipsforweddingplanning #engagedcoupletips #weddingplanneradvice #weddingplanningcosts #southerncaliforniaengagedcouples #ocengagedcouple #losangelesengagedcouples #sandiegoengagedcouples #austinengagedcouples #sanantonioengagedcouples #lgbtqengagedcouples #destinationweddingcouple #travelingweddingplanner✈️

Planning a wedding should be about celebrating, not stressing 🎊 That’s why I offer Event Management services instead of Day Of…which is really not a thing but more on that later 😉 I’ll guide you through the planning process ✨Managing 3 vendors ✨Providing additional referrals ✨Offering support through 6 virtual meetings & unlimited emails and texts Let’s make sure you get the wedding planning support you need when you need it 🫶🏾 Share this with a friend or save for later ❣️ Photo #1: @wanderlustcreatives @thefighouse Photo #2: @virginiaannphotography @utsaarts Photo #3: @porterhouselaweddings @valentine_dtla Photo #4: @jennabechtholt @ocean_institute

You’re engaged 💍 What an exciting time 😆 Friends and family are likely already asking you tons of questions you may not know the answers to 💭 Once you’ve celebrated and spent time living in the moment, here are 3 conversations I want you to have with your partner 😉 🤔 Other than you and your partner, who will be involved in the decision-making process? 💰 What is your financial comfort zone and who’s contributing? 📝 What are you and your partner’s top priorities for your wedding day? This could be entertainment 🎵, cuisine 🦐, floral 🪻, etc Share with a friend who needs to hear this! Photographer: @virginiaannphotography Floral: @entireeventsco Specialty Linens: @bbjlatavola Chargers & Flatware: @luxeeventdecor Wedding Gown: @ladyinlacebridal Wedding Cake: @cakesbycathyyoung #tipsforengagedcouples #tipsforweddingplanning #communicationisvitalinanyrelationship

👋🏾Everyone I’m Helayne, the Owner & Lead Planner @theroadtomarriage 💍 Today let’s share some of our latest favorites 💫 Currently, I’m hooked on @abbottelemabc & @nextlevelcheffox 📺 When I need to get focused, @alexisffrench keeps me in the zone 🎧 For dinner, nothing hits the spot like a Brussel sprout & bacon 🍕 The BEST way to unwind after a long day is to cuddle with my Boxer, Cassius 🐾 What’re some of your current favorites ❤️ Share what you’re watching & listening to 🍿🎵 Photographer: @auraelizabethphoto #gettoknowmoreaboutme #afewofmyfavoritethings❣️ #whatareyouwatchingnow #musicrecommendationsplease

When @jayscatering offered me the opportunity to design their August Taste of Jay’s for the @rosecentervenue I was thrilled My top priorities for this project were 1. Create a diverse team of wedding professionals 2. Lean into the romantic aesthetic of Rose Center Event Venue 3. Highlight the elegant yet simple sophistication of incorporating textures into your decor 4. Applying the colors and textures to create cohesion between multiple designs Thank you again to the extraordinary team who donated their time, expertise, and creativity to this collaboration Having your support in bringing this vision to life means the world to me 🥹 Venue: @rosecentervenue Photo & Video: @christineliphotography Catering: @jayscatering Florals: @flowersbyladybuggs Specialty Linens: @luxe_linen @veronica_luxelinen Tabletop Rentals: @catalogatelier Furniture Vignettes: @adorefolklore Violinist: @benhoytviolin DJ: @dj_dazzler Artist: @christianguillenart Macarons: @lemacaronfrenchpastries