06/15/2024
Embracing the Present: A Lesson in Love
I’m visiting my mom and seeing how much has changed since my last visit in January. My little old handicapped aunt has gotten even more fragile and every step hurts her. My stepdad is in such a bad shape, he can not get up anymore, his legs are giving in.. And he’s mourning the time when he was able to at least go to the bathroom on his own and look out of the window.
I’m sure we all notice how quickly everything can change. Today he is still able to sit up and watch TV, and tomorrow even this might be gone.
And I feel it’s so crucial to cherish every moment we have NOW, instead of regretting what used to be. This would make the present moment so much more joyful for everyone.
Why is it so hard for us, and why do we slide into regrets so easily?
I also catch myself thinking how much I wish my mom was closer, not thousands of miles away, so that I could visit her just whenever I want on weekends. Time flies, life is so unpredictable, who knows when I’ll be able to come again?
And then I remember the beautiful story of Polyanna (if you haven’t read it yet and want a cheer up - oh, what a joy that story is!) and I think: I still have 10 more days with her, and that’s a lot.
What if we imagine that every day is a gift that we can open and enjoy? Fill it with mindful attention and gratitude for what we have NOW? So that later, when we look back, we won’t mourn the missed opportunities because we were too busy regretting what’s gone or fearing what might come.
During my trip to Colorado, I clearly heard and felt: “I want to fill this house with love”.
And now I apply it to everything. I remember and ask myself: Am I filling my home - my body - with love? Am I filling my mom’s house with love? My relationships?
Is my presence a blessing? What do I choose to focus on and how does it make me and people around me feel?
What can I do right now, today, to fill this house with love? ❤️
What do you think?
Please share with me in the comments