10/25/2025
Your officiant can help ensure your guests honor your request for an unplugged wedding ceremony!
Often, a gentle reminder will suffice: "A quick reminder: (name) and (name) have requested that all guests power their phones off for the duration of the ceremony. Please make sure your phone is off."
I have some couples offer a little "Compromise." When the wedding party is in place, before the ceremony begins, the officiant uses the above "gentle reminder" but adds: "They have agreed to give all of you 60 seconds to snap some shots before we begin." As an officiant, I jovially count down the seconds. When the 60 seconds are up, I remind everyone to power off their phones.
Tough audiences often respond well to a touch of humor: After announcing the terms of the Unplugged Ceremony, I sometimes add something like, "Make sure those phones are OFF! If your cheesie ringtone of an 80's hairband goes off during the ceremony, I will track you down....and you'll be banned from the bar (or NO CAKE FOR YOU!)". Of course.....add a wink and a grin!
https://www.brides.com/story/no-cell-phone-rule-at-weddings-etiquette