The Vow Whisperer

The Vow Whisperer Juilliard-trained actress, public speaker and officiant, I help couples craft the perfect vows

What a joy it was to officiate the wedding of Edward and Kevin! Their ceremony was filled with heartfelt moments and dee...
10/30/2024

What a joy it was to officiate the wedding of Edward and Kevin! Their ceremony was filled with heartfelt moments and deep connections, truly showcasing the strength of their love. Being part of their wedding day and witnessing their vows was truly magical.⁠

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While the champagne tower is a timeless tradition, it adds a modern twist to contemporary weddings. Its elegance and gra...
10/25/2024

While the champagne tower is a timeless tradition, it adds a modern twist to contemporary weddings. Its elegance and grandeur make it a standout feature that combines tradition with a chic, stylish touch. ⁠

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The first slice of cake isn’t just about tradition; it’s a meaningful and celebratory moment that symbolizes the couple’...
10/21/2024

The first slice of cake isn’t just about tradition; it’s a meaningful and celebratory moment that symbolizes the couple’s shared future and the sweetness of their new life together.⁠









Find out why Italy is the ultimate destination wedding location for so many of our couples. Its blend of scenic beauty, ...
10/16/2024

Find out why Italy is the ultimate destination wedding location for so many of our couples. Its blend of scenic beauty, historic charm, and unparalleled romance ensures an unforgettable celebration.⁠

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Honoring the newlyweds with a cascade of petals, symbolizing their love, beauty, and the new adventures that lie ahead. ...
10/11/2024

Honoring the newlyweds with a cascade of petals, symbolizing their love, beauty, and the new adventures that lie ahead. Overflowing with joy for this lovely couple.

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Wedding Website: theknot.com/meetthemooneysinitaly
Honeymoon Location: Positano, Florence
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The coterie of women surrounding a bride is a heartwarming wedding tradition. They are often there starting early mornin...
10/09/2024

The coterie of women surrounding a bride is a heartwarming wedding tradition. They are often there starting early morning, full of joy, comfort, help, and loyalty to the one who deserves it most.⁠ 🤍









10/01/2024

A magical day surrounded by love and laughter—our celebration, just for the grown-ups! 🤍 Let’s dance, toast, and enjoy this special moment together.

09/29/2024

Building a strong marriage means tackling the tough topics together. Honest conversations now lay the foundation for a lasting partnership 🤍

09/24/2024

Whether you choose to change your name or keep it, it’s all about what feels true to you. Celebrate your unique path and the choices that define you.

09/22/2024

September's soft hues and gentle breezes create the perfect backdrop for your love story. Let Orchids, Hydrangeas, Dahlias, and Agapanthus blossom during your magical moment for a unique touch!

09/19/2024

In February of 2022, I had the honor of working with Daniela & Jonathan. With an all-night reception filled with dancing and unforgettable moments. This glamorous wedding is one I will never forget.

How exciting to have been included in this feature!  I crafted the ceremony with the couple and then coached Emma’s uncl...
09/19/2024

How exciting to have been included in this feature! I crafted the ceremony with the couple and then coached Emma’s uncle to perform the ceremony. Alan was one of the most enthusiastic “students” I’ve had…Congratulations to all my fellow vendors!

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The US is home to some of the most magical fall backgrounds for a wedding.  As the fall season approaches, it's the perf...
09/17/2024

The US is home to some of the most magical fall backgrounds for a wedding. As the fall season approaches, it's the perfect time to explore stunning venues that shine in autumn's glow. And if you can do your ceremony at the golden hour, the light will be extraordinary!

09/15/2024

From a fun-filled welcome dinner to a breathtaking ceremony, with a joyful reception and ending with a farewell brunch —a wedding weekend is a celebration of love, laughter, and unforgettable moments with those who mean the most.

09/10/2024

Dear Friends,

I share an office with my husband, Paul. I am on Zoom calls throughout the day... meeting potential clients or practicing vows and ceremonies with existing ones. Paul often hears people professing their undying love to me across the screen!

In the 5 years since I founded The Vow Whisperer, my emotional responses are still the same. It never grows old. I continue to be touched and moved to tears so easily.

Often, I tell my husband and whomever is listening, that officiating a wedding is like a performance for me. Having had a wonderful, but too short acting career, doing a wedding ceremony is like a mini one-act play. For 25 minutes, I get to hold a room. I feel the energy of the audience or rather guests and often riff off of that. And for that short bit of time, I’m the star again. I’ve practiced the monologue and here I am hoping to engage, capture, and enrapture everyone, even for just a fleeting moment.

I miss my acting days a lot, but it’s ok to be doing this now. Between coaching couples with their vows, officiating weddings, and helping friends and family members officiate, my life is full. My work life is full, rather. And it’s work that is a calling in so many ways.

From what my couples tell me, I’ve made a big impact on their lives…yes, perhaps also for just a fleeting moment.

I will continue doing this as long as the tears keep flowing. As long as I can make an emotional dent in peoples’ hearts and as long as I can pretend to still be on a stage.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

With love,

Tanya

Bridal bliss begins with a little self-care.  We recommend that you treat yourself to pre-wedding escapes to de-stress a...
09/08/2024

Bridal bliss begins with a little self-care. We recommend that you treat yourself to pre-wedding escapes to de-stress and relax. Here are some of the best spas in the US to indulge in to get ready for that magical day.

09/03/2024

Autumn is in the air, and so is love! Don't let the summer heat fool you—September weddings are as dreamy as the changing leaves!

09/01/2024

In June of 2022, I had the honor of working with Nicole and Micheal. This NYC wedding was absolutely remarkable and truly one I will never forget.

08/27/2024

Feeling nervous before your wedding is a sign of just how much this day means to you. Remember, those butterflies are a reminder of the excitement and love that make this moment so special.

08/25/2024

Creating the perfect setting for a love story—every detail on the table is a chapter in the beautiful narrative of a lifetime together. From the soft glow of candles to the delicate touch of flowers, each piece is thoughtfully placed to celebrate a union as timeless as the decor itself.

08/21/2024

Dreaming of saying I do in paradise? Check out these bucket list wedding venue locations that will turn your vows into a fairytale.

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There are many outstanding wedding photographers that you can have capture your favorite day! Here are just a few favori...
08/13/2024

There are many outstanding wedding photographers that you can have capture your favorite day! Here are just a few favorites that do a beautiful job capturing your most special moment.

Embrace all the beauty that summer has to offer with stunning summer wedding decor that radiates warmth and joy. From vi...
08/04/2024

Embrace all the beauty that summer has to offer with stunning summer wedding decor that radiates warmth and joy. From vibrant floral arrangements to elegant outdoor setups these decor ideas can help make your summer wedding unforgettable.

07/31/2024

Experience the magic of exotic weddings, where every detail is infused with local charm and breathtaking beauty. From lush landscapes to vibrant cultural traditions, each moment is a celebration of love in paradise. Join us as we explore stunning destinations that turn dream weddings into reality.

Planning a wedding in Italy? Here are just some of my favorite wedding planners who help bring magic to every celebratio...
07/28/2024

Planning a wedding in Italy? Here are just some of my favorite wedding planners who help bring magic to every celebration. From romantic tuscan vineyards to breathtaking Amalfi Coast views these experts will make your dream wedding into a reality!

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How did I get here?

I am a former stage and screen Juilliard-trained actress, who transitioned to become a communications and public relations executive in the luxury world. My background played an important role in coaching leaders for presentations and public speaking engagements. Simultaneously, as a side hobby, I coached many friends in writing and performing their vows, as well as family and friends' wedding toasts. After my own wedding, where my husband and I wrote our vows, the amazing accolades we received prompted me to create The Vow Whisperer. Using my acting skills to help create the happiest moments is a gift! To round out the package, I am an ordained Officiant.