How to Navigate Life Transitions as a Team (Marriage Tips Part 1)
If I could gift any parent a superpower, it would be the ability to navigate transitions as a team. 💪✨
Marriage and parenting are true team sports. Even if one of you is the main financial provider, both of you are equally needed. In today’s world, it’s easy for dads to be left out—from baby showers to mom groups, it often feels like the parenting playbook is written for just one. But I’ll say it again: No baby gadget, no toy, no activity can ever nourish your child’s development as much as the relationship they see between you two. That’s the foundation.
I know life gets busy—work, kids, household chaos—it can feel like working on your marriage is a luxury for those with too much time. But it’s quite the opposite. When you become a parent, the stakes are higher, and the need for teamwork is even greater.
In my latest YouTube video, I share 4 strategies to help couples navigate big transitions together—whether you’re becoming parents, moving, or going through a career change. I believe it’s going to help a lot of families move from playing defense to offense in their partnership.
Drop “Youtube” in the comments, and I’ll send you the link to watch! And if you know someone going through a big life change, pass it on. 💛
I've been hinting for a little while that a brand-new program was coming, and the wait is finally over...
I'm so excited to officially introduce to you, Effortless Love. 🌸
Effortless Love is a 9-week LIVE online group coaching experience that takes you from distant, frustrated, and passing ships in the night to loved-up, supported, and working together as a team.
If you’re struggling to get your partner to do more around the house or you’re emotionally distant, this program will help you go from clashing to connecting, ASAP.✨
Since this is a brand-new program, I'm offering a special price for all my founding members 🎉
Click the link in my bio to find all the details!
With love,
🌸 Sayuri
(Your Relationship Coach)
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🌸 WHAT IS EFFORTLESS LOVE AND WHO IS IT FOR? 🌸
I've spent the last 2 years listening closely to my community–from doing 1-1 coaching to reading your private emails.
You've opened up about your real-life relationship struggles and shared what it is that you really want in your relationship.
🗣 I heard you loud and clear: 🗣
🌸 You have issues splitting the household chores with your partner
🌸 Your partner doesn't follow through with what they say
🌸 You and your partner want different things
🌸 You're struggling to make big decisions with the house, business, and career
🌸 You're missing the romantic spark
If any of these resonates with what you're currently walking through with your partner then you’re in the right place.
Effortless Love is my new program designed for women to gain the skills to navigate real-life situations with their partners with flow and ease.
It's a 9-week LIVE virtual experience that takes you from distant, frustrated, and passing ships in the night to loved-up, supported, and working with your partner as ONE team. ✨
👯♀️ I'm excited to be working side-by-side with women only to equip her with the essential relationship skills she'd need to steward her influence, stop the tension, and bring peace back into the home. (Believe it or not, there's A LOT a woman can do to break down or build up the home!)
I believe life with the person you love shouldn't feel this hard. But, in order to live an effortless love, we need to master relationship skills that most of us were never taught.
During the program, you'll learn research-based relationship skills, strategies, and systems that will turn your relationship into a REAL PARTNERSHIP. Your relationship will go from something you endure 😩 to something that's effortless. 🌸
You'll also get access to checklists, templates, and conversation cheat sheets, which will make the implementation effortless. (I know you already have enough on your plate and a
What do you do when you and your partner want different things in life?
This can feel terrifying when you and the person you're sharing life with are not on the same page about the important things in life.😰
If you’re wondering how to navigate this situation, I highly encourage you to watch my newest YouTube video, where I lay out 5 tips on what to do when you and your partner want different things.
And don't worry, if you follow these five tips, you'll get to a compromise you authentically feel good about.
It’s important that you know what to do in these situations because this can lead to many breakdowns in your relationship. 😩
🔗 Click the link in my bio for my YouTube Channel and look for the video, "What to Do When You and Your Partner Want Different Things."
Then, share with me in the comments of the video which of the 5 tips resonated with you most.
🌸 Your Relationship Coach, Sayuri
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So you just had a fight with your partner. Now what? 😰
The #1 mistake I see couples make when trying to make up after a fight is saying "I'm sorry" too early. 😳
You can't always see the impact of the hurt. As easy as it would be to just hit a restart button, this is not reality.
If you don't take the time to process the argument in a constructive way, it will continue to resurface and take deeper roots of resentment.
🤯 I know how overwhelmed you're feeling from not being on good terms with your partner–especially when you already have so much on your plate from work, the household, and the kids.
Reconciling with your partner doesn't need to be hard. Life is already hard enough. You don't need to make it any harder on each other.
But it does require a conscious effort.
I've identified 10 crucial steps to truly restore, repair, and
reclaim your relationship after a fight.
CONFESSION: My marriage was my source of inspiration for these 10-steps. They say necessity is the mother of invention. And God knows I needed a better way to manage conflict with my husband.🤪
With my professional training as a Relationship Coach in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and my 10+ years working with couples, I've been able to validate these steps with actual research, so now I want to help YOU!
Download my FREE Cheatsheet “What To Do After A Fight" and learn how to create a more productive and positive outcome. 🌸
🔗 Click the link in my bio and select the third link, "Get Instant Access to Free Cheatsheet, What To Do After A Fight."
💡 PS. Saying I'm sorry actually comes after the 7th step! This means that there are 6 steps you need to take to be ready to accept the apology.
You're not a failure because you're seeking help for your relationship.
You don't need to necessarily be having major problems to get the support that you need.
In fact, you seeking help shows you genuinely care and want to make sure this area of your life thrives–like your business or career!
Since I started You & Me Time, it's been my pleasure to help business owners, high performing individuals, and professionals strengthen their relationships.
🤪 Building a business is no joke.
🤪 Being a parent is no joke.
🤪 Running a household is no joke.
And, if you're doing all or any of these things, it's important that you seek the right support system.🌸
One thing I learned from @dantcathy is to be humble to get the help. Just because you’re strong doesn’t mean
you always have to be the strongest one.
And as he shares in this video, when you're busy juggling all your responsibilities, sometimes you need someone to take your hand and lead you through the process of getting back on track to the essential elements of a healthy marriage.
So leave the shame.
Stop thinking, “What are they going to think of me?”
You’ll be the hero of your family for doing the real work that matters most.
🌸Sayuri
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Comment a "🤯" if you can relate to how this family is currently living their life.
If this sounds like your household, the good news is that this is something YOU can control.
Yes, the responsibilities and commitments we have with our work, our kids, and our household are real–BUT, but there are also many things that "seem urgent" but are not important that may be filling up your time and draining your energy.
🕵🏼♀️ Be a detective of where your time and energy are going as a family.
If something doesn't align with the season you're living in, cut it off or put it on hold.
✨ Honor yourself.
✨ Honor your family.
✨ God has so much to teach you in this season. Don't waste the lessons with time and energy suckers!
Your Relationship Coach,
🌸Sayuri
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🤯 Have you been wondering why healthy relationships are so hard in 2022 and what you can do about it?
Do you feel like it’s been a struggle to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner this year? If so, I want you to know–you are not alone.
If you’re looking for some real-life relationship or marriage advice, you’re going to enjoy my latest YouTube video. In it, I share 3 big reasons why healthy relationships are so hard in 2022 and what you can do about it.
When your relationship feels hard, every area of your life is impacted–from your ability to focus at work to your quality of sleep.
In today’s world where we’re surrounded by negatives news every hour, it’s easy to allow uncertainty, stress, and anxiety to fill our minds–that’s why in this video I share with you what are some practical things YOU can do to strengthen your relationship during these times.
Taking the time to learn how to improve your relationship is part of your personal growth. It is your responsibility to equip yourself with research-based relationship advice that will help you navigate life with your partner.
🔗 To watch the full video, click the link in the comments to watch my new Youtube video, “Why healthy relationships are HARD in 2022 and what YOU can do about it”
Watch it now. You'll thank me later.
Your Relationship Coach,
🌸Sayuri
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So your partner tells you that they’re going to do something, and they don’t.
They don’t like it when you nag, bicker, or micromanage.
🤯 So what are you supposed to do?
If you're thinking this, I'm SO excited for you to watch this week's video. In it, I share with you my three tips on what YOU can do when your partner doesn't follow through with what they said they're going to do.
🔗 To watch the full video, click the link in the comments to watch my new Youtube video, "What To Do When Your Partner Doesn’t Follow Through.” In it, I share my 3 tips that will help you get over this frustration in your relationship. Watch it. You'll thank me later🙃
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Are you frustrated at your partner for leaving their underwear on the floor? 😒
Watch this video to find out what YOU can do to help them STOP throwing their clothes on the floor and start putting them in the hamper.🧺
🔗 Click the link in the comments to watch my new Youtube video, “What To Do When Your Spouse Won't Change”. Here, I share 5 things you can do to shift things around even if your partner is unwilling to change. Watch it. You'll thank me later lol🤭
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Are you frustrated because no matter how nicely you try talking to your partner, they still won’t change?🤯
If you’ve been looking for relationship advice that walks you through what to do when your partner or spouse won’t change, then you’re going to appreciate the 5 tips I share in this video.😏
If you’ve tried it all—from going to marriage counseling to prayer, and your partner is still refusing to change, then this video is a must-watch!
I know how frustrating it is to feel you’re in a hopeless marriage, or that you’re with someone that has a fixed mindset while you’re trying to grow into your highest self.
I hope you find the content I share on this video truly valuable, and it not only helps you fix your relationship but truly transforms it into something you’re proud of. YES, you heard that right. YOU can transform your relationship—even if your partner refuses to change. Watch the video to find out how YOU can do this!
🔗 Click the link in the comments to watch the entire video on my Youtube Channel, “What To Do When Your Spouse Won't Change”
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Are you going through a life transition such as,
🤰🏽Pregnancy,
🏡 Moving,
💰 Starting a business, OR
🤪 even transitioning to a busier season?
If you answered "YES," this may be the perfect time to hire a Relationship Coach as part of your support system.💆🏽♀️
You may say, Sayuri, I can't afford to be thinking about my relationship right now. And I'll say, you can't afford NOT to be on the same page with your partner right now.
You guys need to be a united front and come together as ONE TEAM—especially during busy seasons and transitions!
🌸 This is why one of my favorite parts of my program, Effortless Love, is equipping you with skills, strategies, and systems to implement into your home life and relationship that will make navigating through transitions actually fun!
The enrollment for Effortless Love opens in July so if you want to join me on this journey, click the link in the comments to join the waitlist!
I love how real-life and practical every part of my program is because as an entrepreneur, wife, and mom, I know how challenging it is to blend so many moving parts! 🤯
If you're walking through a transition right now, let me know in the comments what transition you're walking through! I'd LOVE to cheer you on and even share some nuggets of wisdom!🤰🏽🏡💰