12/26/2023
You just got engaged, now what?
First off, congrats!! Youāre marrying the love of your life, what a beautiful time to be alive š„¹
once the adrenaline has worn off, you may be thinking āok what the heck do I do now?ā
I got you!
FIRST thing you need to do is set a date. Pretty much nothing else can be officially booked or planned without a date. You canāt even accurately create a vision without a date!! So thatās top priority. When picking a date keep in mind that many venues offer discounts for weekday weddings, and any Saturday from June to October will be hot real estate for brides so youāll want to book your vendors asap!
Next up you need a budget š© not exactly the most fun part of the planning but it is necessary. Many brides find it helpful to do a little research in this phase of generally how much things cost so they know what to expect and a rough budget range to be realistic with what theyāll need to spend if they want certain things.
Our next step goes hand in hand with budget setting: choosing your priorities.
Your priorities are the things youāre going to give to in every way. The most research, the most planning, the most dedication, the most excitement, and depending on what they are, sometimes the most money. I typically recommend picking three or so priorities. They can be specific things or more general things. Some brides might pick their dress, their photographer, and the flowers. Others might say their entire appearance including dress, hair, makeup, jewelry, and skincare, the ~vibes~ of the day, and having a relaxing and calm planning experience. Whatever your priorities are, your budget should reflect it.
Now that youāve decided whatās worth the money to you, spend the money. Itās time to start booking vendors!!
Make sure in your vendor search you ask a lot of questions, talk to a lot a people, and book people you feel comfortable working with and being with, and that youāre EXCITED about. Itās a big day, you need to LOVE your team in every way!
Obviously thereās a lot of things you have to do after this, but these are all HUGE checks off your list!!
Happy planning!!