Shawn Alexandra, Lifestylist

01/24/2024

🌷Today, I had a reminder that every day is a gift, waiting to be celebrated. I visited a new beauty and wellness salon and decided to turn an ordinary day into an extraordinary celebration of self-care. 💖

💅🏽 I treated myself to a French manicure – a timeless classic that I usually reserve for "special occasions." But, guess what? Every day is a special occasion in its own right! So, why not sprinkle a bit of celebration into the ordinary moments of life?🌸

🌿 I caught that thought – the notion that certain things should be reserved for rare occasions. Instead, I've decided to gift myself the joy of a French manicure monthly. 💝 It's not just about the nails; it's about embracing the beauty of routine self-care, like tending to a garden of personal well-being.

The experience at the salon was nothing short of tranquil. Surrounded by beautiful music and a variety of foliage in a clean open space, I felt like I was in a serene oasis. The gentle strokes of the nail artist delicately created a masterpiece on my fingertips. It was truly worth every minute of the hour drive!🌸

🌷 So, here's to making self-care a monthly ritual – a bouquet of moments dedicated to nurturing the soul. Just like flowers need consistent care to bloom, we too deserve the regular nurturing of our mind, body, and spirit.

💐 Let's blossom together on this journey of self-love and self-discovery. Remember, you are worthy of these moments of pampering and joy. 🌸

Just as my French manicure reminds me of the delicate beauty in simplicity, I find that this self-care ritual is in perfect alignment with my Word of the Year: Fabulous. 💕

Sending you all a garden full of love, positivity, and pink emoji vibes! 🌷🌸💖

Ring: David Yurman
Nails: miyu.dmv

01/19/2024

This year, I've chosen a Word of the Year that's transforming my perspective and infusing every day with positivity - my WOTY is FABULOUS!

"Fabulous" is an adjective that describes something as extraordinary, exceptionally good, or incredibly stylish.

I've made a commitment to feel fabulous from the inside out, aligning my thoughts and actions with the infectious energy of fabulousness. It's more than just a word; it's a lifestyle choice. Amidst a midlife chapter change, I choose to embrace fabulous as my way of navigating it with grace, style, and a touch of sparkle. ✨

Reflecting on the wise words of my sisterfriend RR, who said, "Bring fabulous with you...even if you have to drag it kicking and screaming!" I've taken this to heart. Life is an adventure, and I'm determined to make it a fabulous one.

Every morning, I wake up with the intention to radiate positivity, kindness, and confidence. Whether it's conquering challenges or celebrating successes, the fabulous mindset becomes the driving force behind my actions. It's about choosing joy, embracing self-love, and spreading the fabulous vibes to those around me.

Join me on this fabulous journey! Let's make every day extraordinary! Share your fabulous moments, your victories, and those little moments of joy that make your
life truly spectacular. Together, we can create a ripple effect of positivity that touches lives and transforms our world.

Here's to a year filled with fabulous adventures, self-discovery, and the unapologetic pursuit of a fabulous life!

Headscarf: Shimmery Wrapunzel
Jewelry: Albion David Yurman
Dress: Maggie Soft Surroundings
Slingbacks: Christian Louboutin

01/16/2024

💐 **Celebrating the Gift of Friendship: A Tribute to the Grande Dame** 💐

"Friends are the family we choose for ourselves." - Edna Buchanan

My Dearest Fabulous Friends,

As I reflect on this heartfelt quote by Edna Buchanan, I am reminded of the beautiful flowers that friendship brings into the bouquets of our lives. Today, I want to share a heartfelt tribute to a remarkable soul, the grande dame, who graced my life with her class, elegance, and unwavering love. (Pictured center)

Edna Buchanan's words resonate deeply, enveloping the essence of the bonds we form with those who become our chosen family. Friends are the blossoms that decorate the chapters of our journey; they are the pillars of support, the confidantes in our joy and solace in our sorrows. Each friend is a unique flower in the bouquet of our lives who contributes to the beauty of our existence.

The grande dame I speak of was the epitome of grace and refinement, a woman whose presence exuded a timeless elegance that left an indelible mark on my heart. To have known and loved her was a privilege, an honor that I will forever cherish. Her spirit, like a rare gem, shone a warm glow that turned ordinary moments into extraordinary memories.

In celebrating this exceptional friendship, I am reminded of the countless shared laughs, fancy festivities and the joyous celebrations that defined our times together. It is a testament to the beauty of true friendship.

What set the grande dame apart in the realm of friendship is not just her refinement, but also the depth of her love. She spoke softly and always had a kind word for everyone. To know that she loved me as I loved her is a treasure beyond measure.

As I write these words, I am overwhelmed with gratitude for the gift of her extraordinary friendship. I make a toast to celebrate true friendship in all its glory:

"To the grande dame who graced the world with her presence, thank you for being the epitome of friendship's grace. May your legacy live on through a love that transcends the boundaries of time and space. Cheers 🥂"

And now, as I gracefully pass the crown, I look to my beautiful and equally classy and elegant best BFF (pictured right), who steps into the role of my new grande dame. In her, I see the continuation of a legacy built on love, grace, and shared moments that define our friendship. In my celebratory nature, I make another toast:
"To my dear BFF, may your journey as my new grande dame be filled with the same elegance and love that defined our past. Here's to new adventures, shared laughter, and the timeless bonds that make life’s bouquet truly beautiful. Cheers 🥂”

And to all my dear friends who form the beautiful bouquet in my life, thank you for being the family I chose. In your company, I find the warmth of a chosen home, the joy of our cherished celebrations, and the comfort of knowing that we are each other's constellations.

Please let us all celebrate the beauty of our chosen family: "Cheers to the laughter, the love, and the timeless bonds that make life extraordinary 🥂”

With Flowers and Friendship,
Shawn Alexandra 💖

01/09/2024

🌦️ Today's a rainy day, but Paul F. Davis reminded me, "The sun always shines above the clouds.” ☀️This quote totally made my day! It's a reminder that even when things seem cloudy and uncertain, there's brightness and hope waiting for us beyond those clouds. So, why not celebrate the clouds while we wait for the sunshine to peek through again? Embrace the rain, dance in it, and remember that brighter days are on the horizon! 🌈☔️

Cheers! 🩷🥂

Headscarf & Heart Pin : 2 in 1 Wrapunzel

Diamond Hoops: Philadelphia Diamond Company
Tunic & Leggings: Soft Surroundings

01/04/2024

🎉🌟 Celebrating New Year's Nourishment 🌟🎉

As we step into a brand new year, I wanted to share with you all something that's been an absolute lifesaver for me - Kitchari! 🍲🩷

Kitchari isn't just a meal; it's like a warm, comforting hug for my belly. 🤗 I often add my favorite seasonal vegetables which makes the variations unlimited! I indulge in this delicious dish several times a year, especially during my New Year celebration. For anywhere from 3 days up to 2 weeks, topped with a garnish of fresh cilantro and a squeeze of lemon, it becomes my go-to meal! 😋🌿🍋

👩🏽‍🍳 **Basic Kitchari Recipe:**🧑🏽‍🍳
Ingredients:
- ½ cup basmati rice
- ½ cup yellow split mung beans
- 1 tablespoon ghee or coconut oil
- 1 teaspoon mustard seeds
- 1 teaspoon cumin seeds
- 1 teaspoon turmeric powder
- 1 teaspoon ginger, minced
- 2-4 cups water or vegetable broth
- Salt to taste

Instructions:
1. Rinse the rice and mung beans until the water runs clear.
2. In a pot, heat ghee/oil over medium heat. Add mustard seeds and cumin seeds. Once they start popping, add turmeric and ginger. Stir for a minute.
3. Add rice and mung beans to the pot and stir to coat with the spices.
4. Pour in the water or broth. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat and simmer until everything is cooked and becomes porridge-like (usually around 25-30 minutes).
5. Add salt to taste and adjust the consistency if needed by adding more water.

🌟 **Benefits of Kitchari:**
🩷 **Gut Health:** Kitchari is incredibly gentle on the digestive system, making it an ideal meal for detoxification and promoting gut health. And it’s naturally gluten free.
🩷 **Cleansing:** Perfect for detoxifying the body and giving it a break from heavy or processed foods.
🩷 **Soothing & Comforting:** Like a warm hug for your belly, Kitchari's spices and ingredients offer soothing comfort, especially during challenging times or to kickstart a new phase like the New Year!

So, here's my invitation to all of you: give Kitchari a try! Let me know, if you make it🥣 🌿✨

Cheers 🥂

Head scarf 2 in 1:
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01/01/2024

🎉 Celebrating the New Year in a New Way 🌟

As the countdown to 2024 began, I found myself reflecting on the incredible shifts in my celebration style. From grand galas and gorgeous gowns to tranquil beach vibes and a more serene evening, my New Year's has undergone a beautiful transformation. 👗👛 🧘🏽‍♀️

Gone are the days of extravagant parties and endless champagne fountains; in this new chapter by the Bay, it's all about a quiet, early dinner and the sparkling delight of Martinelli's blush. A favorite outfit still makes an appearance, though! 🥂🍽️👗

While I cherish the memories of lavish celebrations and fantastic feasts with fabulous friends, I've come to appreciate the simplicity and tranquility of my new routine. A phone call with my forever friend added that sprinkle of magic to my night, reminding me that distance can't dull true connections. 🩷🤗

Admittedly, there are moments when I reminisce about the glitz and glamour of yesteryears, but more importantly, I'm immensely grateful for this shift towards a healthier, more fulfilling lifestyle.💎🥰

Here's to embracing change, cherishing memories, and welcoming this new year with open arms—may it bring joy, peace, and endless opportunities for growth and happiness! Happy New Year to you and yours! Cheers🥂✨

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12/18/2023

Celebrating the warmth of family time! ✨

After a wonderful Amtrak ride back home, I’m filled with gratitude for the priceless moments shared with my loved ones.🥰 Cherishing every laugh, every story, and every hug.🤗 Here’s to the joy of being surrounded by those who mean the world to me. 🩷🏡

Headscarf: Petalsoft Wrapunzel
Tunic: Johnny Was
Jeans: LOGO QVC

12/14/2023

🌅🌊 Embracing the New Dawn at the Beach! 🌺🌟

"It's a new dawn, it's a new day, it's a new life for me. And I'm feeling good." 🎶💫
These soul-stirring lyrics by Nina Simone have become my daily anthem, resonating deeply within me, as I cherish every new healthy, sun-kissed day! ☀️Gratitude fills my heart as I revel in this beautiful chapter of my life by the Bay. 🏖️✨

Surrounded by the breathtaking sunrise, calming waves and the gentle Bay breeze, I'm reminded of life's beautiful transformation! Each day is a canvas, and I’m painting a new and amazing story. 🎨🌅 Here, in this serene paradise, I'm not just well, I'm thriving! 💖

I raise my spirit to this journey of wellness, to the celebration of the sunrise, and to feeling oh-so-good! 🌟💕 Join me in embracing the beauty of each moment and celebrating the magic of new beginnings! 🌺✨

Head wrap: Tuff 2 in 1 Wrapunzel
Tunic and Leggings: Soft Surroundings

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12/13/2023

🌟✨ Celebrating the Radiance Within ✨🌟

Feeling absolutely awesome today! 💫💖 It all starts within, Beautiful. 🌺✨ You are a garden of endless possibilities, each thought is a beautiful bloom waiting to flourish! 🌸💭 Let's sprinkle some positivity! 🌟✨

Affirm: "I am a force of positivity and brilliance! 🌟💖 My mind is a canvas, painting vibrant dreams and endless joy. ✨🎨 With every breath, I radiate confidence and grace. 💫✨"

You, Beautiful One, are already a marvel! 💖✨ Embrace your uniqueness and let it shine like the brightest star in the sky. 🌟💫 Remember, the world is your canvas—paint it with your radiant energy! 💖🌈

Shimmery Scarf Wrapunzel
Maggie Dress Soft Surroundings
Jewelry David Yurman
Slingbacks Christian Louboutin

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12/08/2023

👚Celebrating fashion and feeling fabulous! 👚

Lovely Ladies, today I'm blooming with happiness in this gorgeous fuchsia floral velvet tunic. The vibrant colors and embroidered design just make my heart sing. One of my favorite striped scarves adds the perfect finishing touch, a playful compliment to my tunic's bright flowers. And of course, no outfit is complete without my signature jewelry, a touch of sparkle that reflects my light within. It's amazing how a beautiful outfit can instantly lift my spirits and make me feel like I do it ALL! 👚💗

Isn't it true that looking good makes you feel good? When you put on something you love, it radiates outwards and boosts your confidence. You walk taller, smile brighter, and feel ready to take on anything.🎀👚

So, my fabulous friends, celebrate the power of fashion and let it help you blossom into the best version of yourself. Remember, you are worthy of feeling amazing every single day! 💗👛🎀

What do you LOVE wear? Does it makes you feel like a million dollars? Share it with me in the comments below!

Cheers! 🥂

Head wrap: Striped Delights Wrapunzel
Tunic: Ulla Velvet Easy V-Neck Blouse Johnny Was
Jewelry: Albion David Yurman

12/08/2023

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12/07/2023

Fabulous fashion, flowers, food, festivities and my new friend… Raheem DeVaughn 🌸💖🥂

12/03/2023

Sailing with the Lovely Ladies of Potomac Chapter of The Links, Incorporated. Many thanks to my friend Mary Morgan for inviting me to THE Holiday Event of the season!

11/08/2023

🌟 Embracing Life as an Art Form 🌟

"To make living itself an art, that is the goal." - Henry Miller

I LOVE this incredible quote by Henry Miller, it speaks to the very essence of what I believe it means to be a Lifestylist. 🎨✨

To me, being a Lifestylist is about surrounding myself with beauty, living intentionally, styling all aspects of my life. I have learned that it is crucial to slow down and savor the exquisite details that life has to offer. I have styled a brand new beautiful chapter in my life and want to inspire YOU to do the same. 🌷🌞

Every moment can be an opportunity for creativity and self-expression. Just as an artist takes a canvas and transforms it into a masterpiece, we can take the canvas of our lives and turn it into a work of art. 🖼️✨

From the clothes we wear to the meals we prepare, from the places we live to the people we choose to spend time with – every choice we make can be an intentional brushstroke on the canvas of our existence. 🎨🍽️🏡

So let's remember to infuse our lives with passion, purpose, and beauty. Let's be the curators of our own existence, seeking out the extraordinary in the ordinary, and making the act of living itself an art form. 🌟❤️

Let's inspire each other to live life to the fullest! 💫 Cheers! 🥂

10/29/2023

🍽️✨ Indulging in a Lavish Brunch for One! 🥂🌟

Today, I decided to treat myself to a fabulous solo Sunday brunch that's truly . 😌💖 Join me as I enjoy a moment of culinary delight in style!

On one of my favorite pink plates, is a mouthwatering, leftover crabcake nestled on a bed of crisp, fresh lettuce. 🦀🌿 These flavors are pure perfection! Paired with a gluten-free savory herb crackers for that extra crunch. And the red grape tomatoes on the vine are bursting with flavor. 🍅

But wait, there's more! 🥂🌸 Behold, a Mimosa in a sparkling champagne flute, with "Cheers!" written in pink letters. 🥂🎀 Let's raise a glass to celebrating ourselves and the simple joys in life!

My fancy velour napkin, in a rhinestone napkin holder, adds an extra touch of elegance. 💎🌸 And to set the mood, a matching rhinestone ball candle that shimmers and glows. 🕯️✨

Sometimes, taking a moment to pamper myself is the best way to recharge and feel fabulous. So, here's to indulging in life's little luxuries, especially when it's brunch for one! 🍽️💫

Bon appétit, and remember to cherish those beautiful moments of solitude! 💕😊🍾

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10/27/2023

It is truly a Fabulous Friday! Celebrate 🥂

10/26/2023

🌸✨ Celebrate the Art of Setting a Beautiful Table ✨🌸

Every day is a canvas, and setting a beautiful table is your masterpiece! 💖 Don't save the fine china and the best stemware just for special guests or holidays – everyday is a celebration, a chance to honor yourself and the gift of every new day.

🍽️🌹 Imagine yourself sitting down to a table adorned with love and care. Picture it set with your favorite dishes, a lovely bouquet of roses as the centerpiece, and the soft glow of candles. The atmosphere you create can transform an ordinary meal into an extraordinary experience.

🥂🎉 Celebrate yourself - you deserve it! Life is a tapestry of moments, and each day is a thread. Setting a beautiful table is a way to acknowledge and savor the beauty that exists in the everyday. It's a reminder that life's simple pleasures are worth celebrating.

So, don't wait for a special occasion to create a stunning table setting. Make today the occasion, and let the art of setting a beautiful table be your daily ritual. 🌟

China, Stemware, Napkins, Napkin Rings, Ball Candle and Candle Holder: Z Gallerie

Flatware:

Headwrap: Wrapunzel

Dress: Soft Surroundings

Jewelry: David Yurman

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10/20/2023

Delighted to see my BFF Elaine K. Evans-De Vaughn!! Fabulous friends, fabulous food, fabulous fun!!!