05/01/2023
2023 - What a wonderful opportunity to embrace ALL THE GOOD it has in store for us.
Winter is HERE, and in times of old, this is the time that everyone would hunker down, and sustain theirselves on all the preparations made through the year.
Nature, also lives by this standard. We see it in the animals, storing food, gathering items to keep their homes warm, all in preparation to rest, and restore through the cold.
We see it in our landscapes, in trees, plants and flowers.
Everything in our life has purpose. We just need to begin to understand what the purpose is, and recognize which circumstances are intended for restoration, growth and what we are being taught.
In life, itâs not always going to be rose colored glasses, BUT, we can still choose how we handle the circumstances that come our way.
đ What triggers us, to lose focus on the positive changes and transformations we are intended for?
đ What are we doing, in this season of winter to rest, restore and revive our energy?
Many years ago, I was facing some personal struggles which were really impacting my self worth and personal value system.
One day, after experiencing a very extreme level of anxiety, while standing in Ross, trying to decide on which pair of socks I should buy myself.
It was after about 45 min of standing, looking and asking myself if I really should spend money on myself, I realized, in that moment that all my hard work had allowed me the comfortable situation that I could afford to buy brand new socks for myself, and even more.
I had been saving money for a couple of years, and managed to secure a little nest egg for emergencies or any need that may come up at the last min for my children.
I accepted the fact, that I did not need to feel guilty for allowing myself to treat myself to some new things, and I pulled nearly a shopping cart of socks off the wall and bought them for myself.
After that, I headed to Nordstromâs (which prior to this moment, most of my clothing had been gifted to me from friends closets or purchased at thrift stores) and I purchased some more clothing- because I had earned it and I deserve the right to feel good about my accomplishments.
After that purchase, I headed to the costume jewelry store, and purchased the most ridiculous over the top ring, that fit on my right middle finger, and I decided in that moment, that I would wear that ring as a constant reminder to myself that what is behind me is no longer an option, and what is infront of me is my life.
Every moment I looked at that ring, I remembered I AM moving forward. NOT BACKWARDS.
Any time that those thoughts of self doubt, and unworthiness reoccurred, I would- you may have guessed it- givecmy mind the abrupt reminder that a middle finger can offer, and chose to tell my thoughts they no longer belong to me and are not valid and I would follow it up with thoughts of something good about myself instead.
To this day, years later, I still wear a ridiculously large ring, on my middle finger, and now I just smile- at the memory of moving forward and redirecting my mind to positive things.
While I realize it is not practical to buy a shopping cart of socks, and head on over to Nordstromâs for some retail therapy on the regular, it IS however, essential, that we make the consistent effort on a daily basis to do something that will feed our energy in a positive way.
đ Drink a cup of tea and enjoy a sunrise alone. Enjoy the beauty and solitude of the moment.
đ Pour yourself a glass of wine, light some candles and soak in the tub.
đ Walk barefoot on the grass and sit under a tree.
While these suggestions have been recommended many times, by others, it is because they offer much value and are necessary, in order for us to remain Ballanced.
Determine an object, that will help you be reminded that whichever negative energy you are struggling with, you will be able to reject it and replace it with something that is positive and for your own personal good.
Write down little âlove notesâ of good things about yourself, your accomplishments, your talents, whatever that brings you to your peace and happy place.
Put those âlove notesâ in a jar or basket, and when you are struggling, pull out a note and take in the energy of that reminder. Continue to read until you have rejected the negative.
Turn on your favorite music and dance the negative away.
What will you be doing to make the changes needed to stabilize your energy and balance this year?
Above all else, remember- you are worthy of everything that serves your highest good. You deserve to feel joy, happiness, peace, AND love.
Love â¤ď¸ WhimZie