10/01/2022
Day Four: The Flowers
Let's talk floral arrangements!
Your floral budget should come to 5% of your total budget. This should include your all of your bridal party, including corsages and boutonnieres, and any decorations (flowers for the aisle, table centerpieces, cake topper, etc.).
So, who should get a corsage/boutonniere?
Typically, you would give a corsage to the mother of the bride/groom, grandmother(s) of the bride/groom, and if there is a step-mother (meaning she is the spouse of the parent of the bride/groom). Boutonnieres should be ordered for the groom and groomsmen, father of the bride/groom, grandfather(s) of the bride/groom, and step-father (again, meaning they are the spouse to the bride/groom's father). Step-parents are not always given a corsage/boutonniere and it is not considered a required etiquette to give them one. It comes down to personal choice and budget.
If you are choosing to do real flowers for your wedding, youbwill need to have a number ready for the florist of how many you need of each item. Also, do some research to know just how big of a bouquet you want each member to have and let them know if you would like a separate bouquet to toss so that you may preserve your bridal one. You will want to make sure that the bridal bouquet is larger than the bridesmaid(s) bouquets.
Centerpieces, everyone has different options on their centerpieces. Some like tall, elegant pieces with feathers, some like pieces that are shorter with candles. It all comes down to what your preference is. Word of advice as someone who has both planned and attended weddings, make sure that your guests will be able to talk to each other without having to try to look around the centerpiece. You want tour guests to be able to enjoy, not just your big day, but each other's company as well.