22/07/2024
Let’s continue the Value Series with a hot take: Your wedding day isn’t just about your love for your new spouse.
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Before you start throwing the tomatoes, let me elaborate. (Then if you still think I’m crazy, no hard feelings.)
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You may have noticed that many wedding professional talk about love while I more reference the idea of marriage.
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I do enjoy love—I came of age in golden era of Romantic Comedies, have been called a hopeless romantic, adore Jane Austin, etc.
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But to me; love is only the beginning. It is much more nuanced (and powerful) than romance. Love sacrifices for and empowers the other, whether the context is friendship, parenting, partnership, or altruistic. When that dedication is applied in marriage the result is a partnership that multiplies the impact of your individual callings and your new family’s legacy.
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As I partner with you in your planning, I am ever mindful of how deeply family is interwoven into a wedding. As you create a new family you are both blending your individual heritages and differentiating the legacy you are crafting. I am not intimidated by the hard conversations that sometimes arise and am always game to design a day that honors your families of origin while also celebrating your marriage.
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In my business I am also mindful of my own family. This business is only successful if it serves them. Which for me includes maintaining a schedule that allows me to be present for and with them. Therefore, while it restricts how big or fast this business can grow, I limit the number of weddings and events I accept. This intentional restraint allows me to give my best to both your and my family.
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Whether this value of Honoring Family is explicit as we design your wedding or more the paradigm by which I navigate business it will ground and root our partnership in the deep calm of intention.