27/05/2022
Notify me when posted please..I really need help..I have a fiance, he's a pastor,he is a one every woman would love to be with but he's so dirty.We have talked romantically, quarrelled about this issue but still no change.Ever since I knew him that's how he has been.Each time I visit his house is always in a mess,dirty plates loitered , clothes everywhere,magots in the pots he used in cooking, toilet in a mess.He even goes out without brushing his teeth,even bathing,the few times he baths ,he doesn't know how to bathe,.the worse is,he doesn't want to be corrected,not from anyone,he wears all his clothes and throws them anyhow and later comes back to wear them no matter how dirty and smelly they are,more to that he's a very hairy person and sweats alot.If I don't go to his house to help him Clean,that's how everything will remain,he will wear his dirty clothes over and over..Why I go to help him is because the church and everyone knows we are soon to get married, secondly I'm from a boarding school,tho not perfect but I'm neat to a fault,and I hate dirt and smell.Even his neighbors and friends don't enter his house,they only end at the door.we have to quarrel before he shave his armpits and head which make him look ugly,.I must ring a bell before he cleans his toe nails which smell very badly....I virtually pick up after him,he eats like a pig,he doesn't flush his poo,where he eats or drink,that's where the plate or cup will stay till the year I visit.Talkless of seeing his towel,noooooo .,his bed sheets,you can't even seat on his bed,the smell from the house,gosh,its really frustrating.ive tried all possible means but none is working,.he is a person who doesn't notice whether a place or thing is clean or dirty.He can make months without washing his shoes....I have tried every means but it's not working,that's why I brought it here,so you guys can help me with different methods.Note,he gets angry when he's been corrected and doesn't take the corrections.please help.
