Uncle Razi & Aunty Rani - Rishta Marriage Finders (2024)

17/04/2022

LONG POST WITH KEY LESSONS 💕
Imam Ahmed ibn Hanbal’s advice to his son on his wedding day:

Dear son, you will not attain good fortune in your home except by 10 characteristics which you show to your wife, so remember them and be enthusiastic in acting upon them.

As for the first two; women like attention and they like to be told clearly that they are loved. So don’t be stingy in expressing your love for your wife. If you become limited in expressing your love, you will create a barrier of harshness between you and her, and there will be a decrease in affection.

3, Ladies hate a strict, overcautious man, yet they seek to use the soft vulnerable one. So use each quality appropriately. This will be more appealing for love and it will bring you peace of mind.

4. Ladies like from their husbands what their husbands like from them, i.e. kind words, good looks, clean clothes and a pleasant odour. Therefore, always remain in that state.

5, Indeed, the house is under the sovereignty of the woman. While she remains therein, she feels that she is sitting upon her throne, and that she is the chief of the house . Stay clear of destroying this kingdom of hers and do not ever attempt to dethrone her, otherwise you will be trying to sn**ch her sovereignty. A king gets most angry at he who tries to strip him of his authority, even if he portrays to show something else.

6. A woman wants to love her husband, but at the same time she does not want to lose her family. So do not put yourself and her family in the same scale, because then her choice will be down to either you or her family. And even if she does choose you over her family, she will remain in anxiety, which will then turn into hatred towards you in your daily life.

7. Surely woman has been created from a curved rib, and this is the secret of her beauty, and the secret of the attraction towards her. And this is no defect in her, because ‘the eyebrows look beautiful due to them being curved’. So if she errs, do not rebuke her in a manner in which there is no gentleness, attempting to straighten her; otherwise you will simply break her and her breaking, is her divorce. At the same time do not let her off upon that mistake, otherwise her crookedness will increase and she will become arrogant with her ego. Thereafter, she will never soften for you and she won’t listen to you, so stay in between the two.

8. It is in the women’s nature to be ungrateful towards their husbands and to deny favours. If you were to be nice to her for her whole life but you grieved her once, she will say, “I have never seen any good from you”. So don’t let this attitude of her make you dislike her or to run away from her. If you dislike this feature of hers, you will be pleased with some other good habits within her, so create a balance.

9. Surely there are times when a woman goes through some conditions of bodily weakness and fatigue of the mind. Such that Allah has relieved her of some of her compulsory worships during that period; Allah has totally pardoned her from praying, and has postponed the days of fasting for her within this break to a later date until she regains her health and becomes normal in her temperament once more. Thus, during these days, treat her in a godly manner. Just as Allah has relieved her of the duties, you should also lessen your demands and instructions from her during those days.

10. Last but not least, know that a woman is like a captive with you. Therefore, have mercy upon her.

13/04/2022

Rishta for handsome smart man, tall, hazel eyes, nice hair, kind and caring, charming, good personality, UK educated, holding masters degrees. Uk citizen. Lives in UK 🇬🇧 Looking for humble trusting person. 💙

‎خوبصورت سمارٹ آدمی، دراز قد، ہلکی آنکھیں، لمبے بال، مہربان اور دیکھ بھال کرنے والے، دلکش، اچھی شخصیت، برطانیہ کے تعلیم یافتہ، ماسٹرز کی ڈگریوں کے حامل کے لیے رشتا۔ برطانوی شہری. UK میں رہتے ہیں 🇬🇧 عاجز بھروسے والے شخص کی تلاش میں 💙

13/04/2022

💕Rishta for kind caring girl age 23, enjoys cooking and reading. Humble family. Lahore. Kashmiri caste. Prays regularly. Seeks proposal from 🇬🇧 UK or Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦 Please contact us by mail to let us know if you’re interested.

23 سال کی مہربان لڑکی کے لیے شادی کی تجویز، کھانا پکانے اور پڑھنے سے لطف اندوز ہوتی ہے۔ عاجز خاندان۔ لاہور۔ کشمیری ذات۔ پابندی سے نماز پڑھتے ہیں۔ 🇬🇧 UK یا سعودی عرب سے تجویز طلب ہے 🇸🇦 براہ کرم ہم سے بذریعہ میل رابطہ کریں تاکہ ہمیں بتائیں کہ کیا آپ دلچسپی رکھتے ہیں۔

(Actual photo only to be shared with serious family. We do not post without permission).

08/04/2022

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Looking for my younger sister
Gender: Female
Age: 28
Height: 5’4”
Education: bachelors engineering from lahore-Pakistan

Job: not working
Sect: sunni

Siblings: 2 sisters and 1 brother.All married.
Father: working in a government organization in lahore-pakistan.
Mother: housewife

Requirement: Preferably someone who has family in Pakistan. Interested people should inbox. Thanks

08/04/2022

Salat-ul-istikhara

By performing Salat-ul-istikhara, we are asking Allah to guide us towards the right path or show us a way that is best for us.

According to Bukhari, Volume 2, Book 21, Number 263: Narrated Jabir bin ‘Abdullah:

The Prophet Muhammad Salallahu alaihi wasallam used to teach us the way of doing Istikhara (Istikhara means to ask Allah to guide one to the right sort of action concerning any job or a deed), in all matters as he taught us the Suras of the Qur’an.

He said, “If anyone of you thinks of doing any job he should offer a two Rakat prayer other than the compulsory ones and say (after the prayer)”

Transliteration
Allâhumma inni astakhiruka bi ilmi ka wa astaqdiruka biqudratika wa as’aluka min fadlikal azimi, fa innaka taqdiru walâ aqdiru wa ta’lamu walâ a’lamu wa anta allamul ghuyubi. Allâhumma in kunta ta’lamu anna hâdhal amra khayrun li fi dini wa ma-ashi wa aqibati amri faqdir-hu li wa yassir-hu li thumma barik li fihi wa in kunta ta’lamu anna hâdhal amra sharrun li fi dini wa maâshi wa aqibati amri fasrifhu anni wasrifni anhu waqdir liyal-khayra haythu kâna thumma ardini.

Can someone else perform Salat-ul-Istikhara on your behalf?

It is recommended that you do it yourself to get answers

08/04/2022

Wishing everyone a blessed Ramzaan Mubarak

We pray that your fasts are going well and Allah accepts our duas. 💕

20/03/2022

12 LIFE RULES

Here are some. What are yours ?

1 Be Happy - No matter what, no matter where or when, choose to be happy. Take everything with humor in your heart, regardless of what it is.
2 Don’t Overthink Things - Sit down, think about a possible solution, and if you cannot come up with one in 10 minutes, then just act on the first best thing! Acting beats thinking nine out of ten times!

3 Act with your Mouth Shut - Instead of saying you’re sorry, exclaiming your resolutions to the heavens and proclaiming everything you want to do, just do it. Don’t tell the world what you will do, show it!
4 Give it Your All, Always - There is nothing you gain by living small. Either you give it 100% or you might as well not do it and change. Respect your time enough to give every moment everything you have.

5 Be Honest, ❤️especially with yourself - Lying serves no purpose other than getting you into a life of another person. Being honest sucks at times, sure, but it will always lead to a better life.

6 Choose your Path - This is your life and at the end it’s you who has to come to terms with how you lived. Don’t like what someone else is selling? Then don’t buy into it!

7 Show Massive Responsibility - You said you wanted to do something? Then do it! Words are meaningless unless they are followed by action. It’s your life, which makes it your responsibility. No one else liable for the way you live your life but you.

8 Be You - If you do not know what means, figure it out.

9 Drop the B.S. - You know what you are and are not doing. You know when you are lying to yourself, kidding yourself and not doing what you set out to do. Cut out all the crap and focus on what matters.

10 Never surrender on what truly matters to you - Whenever you do find something worth fighting for, fight for it with all you’ve got! Yes, you will fall. Yes, you will fail. Stand back up. The fight is only over when you stay on the ground.

11 Never stop improving - When you stop improving yourself you will fall below your potential and receive a life less than what you are capable of having. Work your hardest. Always.

12 Enjoy - You have one life, one chance, and one opportunity to make this life worth something, so make it count. Love your life, learn to enjoy yourself, laugh heartily, and, most importantly, make the mark you want to make on the world. Whether or not you lived a life worth living at the end is up to you.

10/03/2022

Rishta for man. Lives and works between UK and Pakistan. Works as corporate advisor for 10 years. Humble and down to earth, kind and considerate. Enjoys learning Qur'anic commentary and tajweed. Loves art and nature. Looking for a reliable traditional spouse (gharullu).

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We have not deliberately shared age and other details because the family wants someone who is honest, genuinely religious and does not look at material things.

‎انسان کے لیے رشتہ۔ برطانیہ اور پاکستان کے درمیان رہتے ہیں اور کام کرتے ہیں۔ 10 سال تک کارپوریٹ مشیر کے طور پر کام کرتا ہے۔ شائستہ اور زمین پر، مہربان اور غور کرنے والا۔ قرآن کی تفسیر اور تفسیر سیکھنے سے لطف اندوز ہوتا ہے۔ فن اور فطرت سے محبت کرتا ہے۔ ایک قابل اعتماد روایتی شریک حیات کی تلاش ہے۔

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‎ ہم نے جان بوجھ کر عمر اور دیگر تفصیلات کا اشتراک نہیں کیا ہے کیونکہ خاندان کسی ایسے شخص کو چاہتا ہے جو ایماندار، حقیقی طور پر مذہبی ہو اور مادی چیزوں کو نہ دیکھے۔

09/03/2022

Rishta for established British Pakistani man. Seeks deen dar simple wife

Gender: Male
Nationality. British Pakistani
Age: 55
British man searching for traditional wife
Education: degree
Job : property business man
Height : 5.7"
Caste: Rajpoot
Marital status: divorced

Well settled man with home seeking wife to have a family live a peaceful life.

4 children.

City : Lahore
Religion : Islam
Sector: Sunni
Requirements: Caste: No isssu Open minded

(Photo to be shared on for interested serious persons)

09/03/2022

Rishta for established older man

We charge no fees. Let us know if any interest.

Gender: Male
Age: 65
Settled in Bradford UK.
Education:Mba
Job : business man
Height : 5.7"
Caste:Malik Awan
Marital status: Single (divorced)

Well settled man with home seeking wife to have a family live peaceful life.

One home in UK and lahore

Two older children University with ex wife.
City : Johar Town, Lahore
Religion : Islam
Sector: Sunni
Requirements: Caste: No isssu Open minded

(Photo to be shared on for interested serious persons)

26/02/2022

What our clients really look for

21/02/2022

Proposal for Girl. Educated. Good family. Kind and caring personality the remaining information is provided for your own background. Please let us know if you are interested.

1⃣ *PERSONAL INFORMATION*
1. Gender : female
2. Name : Lxh (file ref)
3. Age/ DoB : 25
4. Marital Status :single (had khula)
5. Height : 5’0
6. Family Language : urdu, Punjabi
7. Any disability :no
2️⃣ *EDUCATION DETAILS:*
1. Qualification : matric
2. Nature of job : no job
3. Living alone or with parents : with parents

3️⃣ *RELIGION DETAILS:*
1. Religion/ sect : Sunni Muslim
2. Cast : mughal
3. Sect : Sunni
5️⃣ *FAMILY DETAILS:*
1. Father's proffession : retired
2. Mother's proffession: housewife

6️⃣ *Residence*
1. City Lahore
2. Own or on rented :rented

20/02/2022

Proposal for Girl. Educated. Good family. Kind and caring personality the remaining information is provided for your own background. Please let us know if you are interested.

1⃣ *PERSONAL INFORMATION*
1. Gender : female
2. Name : Lhe 92 (file ref)
3. Age/ DoB : 32
4. Marital Status :single (had khula)
5. Height : 5’2
6. Family Language : urdu, Punjabi
7. Any disability :no
2️⃣ *EDUCATION DETAILS:*
1. Qualification : matric
2. Nature of job : no job
3. Living alone or with parents : with parents

3️⃣ *RELIGION DETAILS:*
1. Religion/ sect : Sunni Muslim
2. Cast : syed
3. Sect : Sunni
5️⃣ *FAMILY DETAILS:*
1. Father's proffession : retired
2. Mother's proffession: housewife

6️⃣ *Residence*
1. City Lahore
2. Own or on rented :rented

17/02/2022

This is an example of a proposal advert posted online.

Think about it. How is this information likely to find a genuine “life partner”?

The search criteria appears to be seeking a certain height (which we are sure they will measure you on your arrival for interview) and from a certain regional area.

What’s a “good caste” ? 🤔 😉

▪️Looking For life Partner in Islamabad Or Rawalpindi Or Any Other Punjab Side Read Carefully Profile Details and then Only Interested People may contact Send Yours Compelete Profile Details …

Looking for a suitable match
Female Age: 26
Single, Never Married
Height: 5 feet 4 inches,
Fair, Slim/Smart, Good looking, and Groomed Personality.
Educational Details: MS (Human resource management ) (arid agriculture university rawalpindi)
Caste:Khan (hindko speaking)
Languages: punjabi urdu hindko
City:Rawalpindi
Hometown: abottabad
Siblings: 1 Brother, Sofware Engineer ( doing job in a multinational company )
2Brother (interior ministry)
3brother government organization(mass communication branch)
Father: Deputy Director (interior ministry) nadra
Residence: Rawalpindi near old airport
House :own 5marla
Life style : upper middle with moderate views
🔺Requirements:
🔺Age: 27 till 34
🔺Height: 5.9 or above
🔺Location: Islamabad/Rawalpindi based.
🔺Marriage status: Single, never married.
🔺Caste: Any good caste (Sunni, Muslim)
🔺Education: Gov job bps 17

16/02/2022

Problems with Typical Marriage Aunties

We have noticed that the typical procedure to find a proposal has been to go through a criteria of “age, height, job, income, how much land you may have or not”.

There lays the problem. Whilst we have used this format in the past, but it does not necessarily attract the right persons to each other.

Basing a life partnership on these short details doesn’t suggest much about compatibility, personality or character.

The approach we prefer to take is to describe a little about the personality, character and background as well as Islamic beliefs and values. We hope this is a starting point for you to help gather an understanding of the individuals to initiate healthy further discussions between potential spouses.

15/02/2022

What to look for in a partner for marriage?

* Honesty and Trust

You need to be honest with yourself and will attract the same from others. Watch small white lies and other stories that others tell. This is a bad trait. Not everyone is the same.

Don’t buy into the playa habits of the guy talking to his other girl friends or the girl just studying with her class fellows (when it happens frequently).

It comes to the basics of Islamic teachings of avoiding the free mixing of the genders. We are so far removed from that today. Boys and girls DM freely on social media and post flirty rude comments.

How does this really help you ? Think about these things.

* Spirituality and Islam

A lack of faith in Allah and belief in His System (the Islamic way as under the Quran and Sunnah) leads to problems.

We need to have a deep common connection to Allah which can be achieved by (a) having a clear heart (b) be honest (c) pray to Allah and ask for forgiveness; and (d) patience.

* Communication.

It is important for the couple to be able on the same wavelength in terms of common values and being able to freely TALK about problems together, without criticism or ego.

Seek to resolve issues together.

See what Islam says as a starting point.

There are many factors that contribute to a satisfying marriage/relationship such as; Love, Commitment, Trust, Time, Attention, Good Communication including Listening , Partnership, Tolerance, Patience, Openness, Honesty, Respect, Sharing, Consideration, Generosity, Willingness/Ability to Compromise. However the key points to look out for are summarise above.

15/02/2022

Who actually prays regularly Five Times these days and reads Quran (with meaning)?

Very few amongst us unfortunately. Most just about make it to Juma Friday prayers. This leads to a breakdown in the religious social fabric which affects our belief system as well our attitude and kindness to others.

It is not that just praying which leads to being better persons.

We also need to embody the spirit of Islam of being well mannered, kind, considered and HONEST.

This applies to all of the Maulvis and Niqabis out there who portray a religious idea but sadly have created a bad image of Islam by being Two Faced (hypocrites).

But we cannot blame them alone and May Allah guide them and us all in our endeavours to be better.

We all need to make a conscious effort to be kind and honest and seek to at least the basics of prayer.

It will help your soul and your love life.

Lesson: Be Kind. Be Honest. Cleanse your soul and heart. Pray.

And Allah Knows Best.

15/02/2022

What are the reasons behind the Pakistan Hugh divorce rates ?

* for wealthy middle to upper class families - lack of empathy and deen. Failure to actually understand what Islam teaches us.

* unreasonably high demands of Hakmere (consideration) under the Nikah. Expensive weddings and excessive lifestyle monthly maintenance.

* for lower classes - pressure from in-laws, bullying and arguing, rise of greed (looking at the growing expenses of living in Pakistan) and unemployment.

How can we better address these issues ?

15/02/2022

Pakistan High Divorce and Separations

We have set up our services to help educate the community on matters relating to marriage in light of Islam and psychology.

We hope to help provide couples and families with tips to help improve their marital lives.

Every marriage has issues and challenges. In todays age with the influence of Western culture and social media (via smart phones) and the ease of access to internet, there is a growing divorce rate as well as many single men and women finding it hard to marry. We seek to help those who want to marry also.

Our approach is different than the typical approach. We take more of a genuine personality character approach than a mere numbers and status match.

پاکستان ہائی طلاق اور علیحدگی ہم نے اپنی خدمات کو اسلام اور نفسیات کی روشنی میں شادی سے متعلق معاملات پر کمیونٹی کو تعلیم دینے میں مدد کرنے کے لیے قائم کیا ہے۔ ہم امید کرتے ہیں کہ جوڑوں اور خاندانوں کو ان کی ازدواجی زندگی کو بہتر بنانے میں مدد کے لیے تجاویز فراہم کرنے میں مدد کریں گے۔ ہر شادی میں مسائل اور چیلنجز ہوتے ہیں۔ آج کے دور میں مغربی ثقافت اور سوشل میڈیا (سمارٹ فون کے ذریعے) اور انٹرنیٹ تک رسائی کی آسانی کے ساتھ، طلاق کی بڑھتی ہوئی شرح کے ساتھ ساتھ بہت سے سنگل مرد اور خواتین کے لیے شادی کرنا مشکل ہو رہا ہے۔ ہم ان لوگوں کی بھی مدد کرنا چاہتے ہیں جو شادی کرنا چاہتے ہیں۔ ہمارا نقطہ نظر عام نقطہ نظر سے مختلف ہے۔ ہم محض نمبروں اور حیثیت کے میچ سے زیادہ حقیقی شخصیت کے کردار کو اپناتے ہیں۔

14/02/2022

Shackles of Marriage

What do you do when you get married?

You take someone who’s just as useless and horrible as you are, and then you shackle yourself to them. And then you say, we’re not running away no matter what happens…If you can run away, you can’t tell each other the truth…
(J Peterson)

27/11/2021

The Prophet (S) says, “No house has been built in Islam more beloved in the sight of Allah than through marriage.”

27/11/2021

For those mothers, fathers and sisters searching for their Deen hijab daughter, please get in touch with me.

We have some suitable proposals from lahore, Uk and Saudia.

I do not charge any fees.

I have families looking for honest family and shareef people.

For registration we require a copy of NIC card for verification(you can remove Id number) but age needs to be shown.

27/11/2021

“When was the last time you read the Quran? If you want to change, start with the book of Allah.” [Anonymous].

27/11/2021

The more you read The Quran the more you’ll fall in love with The Author.

27/11/2021

“Once prayer becomes a habit, success becomes a lifestyle.”

Anonymous

27/11/2021

💍 Proposal for Male 💍
👉 Marital Status: Divorce after few days due to fraud
👉Age: 38 (looking 34)
👉 Edu: Double M.B.A (H.R.M & Marketing) + Hafiz-e- Quran + Tajvid + other courses.
👉Cast: Siddiqui
👉 Sib: 2 Bro, 6 Sis, (All married except 1)
👉 Hight 5.7
👉 Job: Private (Admin Officer) Lahore.
👉 Salary : 50k + property invester (In Shadbag lhr).
👉 Personality : Slim Smart, Good looking .
👉 Sect : Ahlay- Hadees ( اہل حدیث)
👉 Language: Urdu
👉Hobbies: Daily recite Quran, 5 time offer prayers
👉 Mother : Late
👉 Family Trait: Half Deobandi & Half Ahle- Hadees
👉 Res: Canal Road Lahore (In Society)
12 marla double storey
📢 Demand📢
👉 Qualified & Domestic Girl
👉 Simple, smart, polite, ethical, amicable girl.
👉 Religious Family (Preferable but not essential).
👉 Observe Veil (با پردہ) girl preferable but not essential.
👉 Ahlay Hadees (اہل حدیث)/ Deobandi (دیو بندی) preferred.
👉 Only Lahore Girls Parents contact۔
☎️Sister: you can contact them directly

27/11/2021

Repost details from Male 39 Wapda
Engineer

1⃣ PERSONAL INFORMATION
Gender: MALE
Name:
Age: 39
Marital Status: Never Married
Height: 5.9
2⃣ EDUCATION DETAILS:
Qualification : MSc engineering UK
3⃣ OCCUPATION DETAIL:
Job/Business: ENGINEER
4⃣ RELIGION DETAILS:
Religion:
Sect: SUNNI
Cast: ARAIN
5⃣ RESIDANCE DETAILS:
Home Own: Own house
Town: wapda town
City: LAHORE
Adress: Working in UAE
Nationality: Pakistan
6⃣ FAMILY DETAILS:
Father's Occupation: Retired
mother Occupation: Housewife
Brothers: 2
Sisters: 3
7⃣ YOUR REQUIREMENTS:
Age Limit: 36 maximum
Marital Status: Never Married
Height: 5.3 above
City: NEAR LAHORE/Islamabad
Cast: Any Punjabi/URDU
Qualification: MBBS, PHD, MPhil, any Professional studies

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27/11/2021

Gender:female. Pindi reference
Name:abcINFORMATION
Gender:female
Name:abc
Age:27
Marital Status: single
Height: 5/3
EDUCATION DETAILS:
Qualification :b.a
College /University :
3⃣OCCUPATION DETAIL:
Job/Business:no
Income:no
RELIGION DETAILS:
Religion: Islam
Sect:suni
Cast:rajput
RESIDANCE DETAILS:
Home Own/On Rent: own
Size:
City:Rawalpindi
Nationality
FAMILY DETAILS:
Father's Occupation:death
Mother's Occupation:death
Brothers: 2
Sisters: 5
Married: all married
Requirement
Age limit between 30 to 40 government job Business and job late marriage can approach only citizens of Rawalpindi and Islamabad or nearly city

27/11/2021

Name: A Lawyer
Age: 40
City: Islamabad
Profession: Barrister
Citizenship: UK

HIS DEMAND
“Well off well settled searching for second wife. Will be provided a completely separate setup.

Girl must be cute and decent.

Who has no issue with first marriage shall contact on THEM DIRECTLY whatsaap number
please also take a note that independent lady will be given preference and I am searching for immediate Nikah.”

The girl family will be helped as well.”

27/11/2021

Male (Single)
Age.. 42
City... Lahore
Siblings... All Married
Job ... Government job & Business...
Requirement... Single Divorced or Widow can contact...

27/11/2021

38 years female widow lahore based MA Job in Media House .Lahore say educated and decent Family Rabta kara

23/01/2021

Gender : female
Age :24
Maritial status : single
Nationality :pakistani
Living in jeddah
Caste. Mughal

Requirements :seeking groom from any cast but sincere honest age should be 25 to 32

23/01/2021

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