The Mum Club Jersey

18/07/2024

🥳 AUGUST BRUNCH CLUB IS LIVE 🥳

We loved hosting at so much that we're heading back there for August's event 💕

I've got everything crossed that we'll finally get some summer weather and be able to take Brunch Club outside into their beautiful garden 🌞

📆 Tuesday 6th August
⏰️ 10am - 12pm
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Hit the link in my bio for all the info or to book.

Can't wait to see you there,
Hayley xx

14/07/2024

MUM MATES 💖

Aren't they just the best?!

✨The ones who totally understand when it takes us 6 days to reply to their message

✨ Who don't judge us for having our clothes on inside out

✨ Who show up to give you a hug (or wine) after a rough night

✨ Who celebrate your parenting wins with you... and are there in the hard times too

✨ Who show you that you're not alone in Motherhood (and beyond)

TAG your friends who you couldn't "mum" without in the comments 🔽

11/07/2024

The juggle is real... 🤪🤣

✔️ Mother
✔️ Wife
✔️ Daughter
✔️ Sister
✔️ Friend
✔️ Chauffeur
✔️ Cook
✔️ Cleaner
✔️ First Aider
✔️ Chief cuddler
✔️ Laundrette
✔️ Personal shopper
✔️ PA
✔️ Negotiator
✔️ Event organiser
✔️ Wellness consultant

10/07/2024

WHAT IS BRUNCH CLUB? 🍳

Sure, it's about getting to enjoy delicious food and hot coffee (which can both feel like a luxury after having children) 👶

But it's so much more than that...

💕 It's turning up not knowing anyone and being welcomed with open arms

💕 It's knowing that it's OK to be late. We'll celebrate that you've made it out of the house with a tiny human!

💕It's being around other women who get the highs and the lows of motherhood

💕 It's swapping numbers with that mum you've just met

💕 It's doing something for you

💕 It's going to the loo on your own (I'm always more than happy to hold babies or entertain little ones!)

WHAT'S YOUR FAVOURITE THING ABOUT BRUNCH CLUB? I'd love you to share in the comments 🔽

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04/07/2024

💕 WE LOVE MESSAGES LIKE THIS 💕

Receiving comments and messages like this mean so much to me. The reason I wanted to host was because I knew there must be other mums like me who needed a safe space to make new friends, and find their village.

Being part of your maternity leave, and getting to know you and your little ones is such an honour. I've made so many lovely friends myself through and it makes me so happy to know that you are too!

If you're nervous about joining us for your first event, we really are all about helping you to meet likeminded mums and find your people 👭

We've got our first al fresco Brunch Club coming up at on Tuesday 16th July. Half the tickets have already sold, so if you'd like to come, book your spot via the link in my bio 🫶

02/07/2024

🥳 OUR JULY BRUNCH IS NOW LIVE 🥳

We're heading to another new venue and taking brunch outside for summer ☀️

Join us at for a delicious buffet-style brunch in the sunshine (hopefully... we will move inside in the event of wet weather 🙏)

📆 Tuesday 16th July
⏰️ 10am - 12pm
🎟 Tickets are £30 and include your brunch, two hot or cold drinks of your choice, your goodie bag & a fabulous morning meeting new mum friends

Find more details and book your spot via the link in my bio at the 🔝

I can't wait to see you there 🩷

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16/06/2024

✨️ JUNE GOODIE BAG ✨️

Our sponsor for our June Brunch Club goodie bag is ! With summer ‘hopefully’ making an appearance soon, hydration is key!

"Phizz is an all-in-one health supplement, expertly formulated to help you thrive every day. Transform your daily mental & physical performance with our science-led 3-in-1 formula: hydration, electrolytes & vitamins.

Did you know that by the time you feel thirsty, it’s already too late. Dehydration has started to sap your
energy, cloud your thinking, and negatively impact your mood. Phizz provides a solution, with our research-backed formula that hydrates 3x faster than water, contains 7 key electrolytes and a comprehensive multivitamin."

A note for breastfeeding mums:

*"We advise consulting your doctor before taking Phizz if you are pregnant or breastfeeding. We recommend showing your doctor our full label with complete nutritional information. You can view this on each product page at www.phizz.co."

05/06/2024

Anyone else? 🙋‍♀️😂

02/06/2024

"For those few hours, I felt like me again" ✨️

That's exactly what is here for 🫶

Trying to work out who you are after becoming a mum can be pretty overwhelming, but you are not alone!

We are here to create a safe, welcoming space for you to meet other mums, who just get it. We help introduce you to new friends while you enjoy a hot coffee and some delicious food 👭

So what are you waiting for? All you need to do is book your ticket. We'll take care of the rest. We know it can be daunting putting yourself out there, but you won't regret it 🤗

We've got a Coffee Club this Wednesday and would love you to join us. Hit the link in my bio to book.

We can't wait to see you there 🩷

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01/06/2024

Join Us for an Exclusive The Mum Club Festival Experience⭐️

Make some excellent plans this August and join us 🏕

Buy a weekend ticket, COMMENT 'CAMP BESTIVAL' below to let us know you’re coming and for more info then we’ll send you a DM on how you can get on our exclusive list, which will give you access to the Paradise Garden area.

We can’t wait to see you there 👏🏼⭐

29/05/2024

Limited spaces remaining for our June Coffee Club: Understanding Overwhelm.

We're thrilled to have the Parent Health Hub 's founder Alice joining us on Wednesday 5th June.

Here's the link if you'd like to book a spot:
https://themumclub.com/event-details/?eventID=2480

The Parent Health Hub is really excited to be partnering with The Mum Club The Mum Club Jersey for the June Coffee Club: Understanding Overwhelm ✨

The event is a space for Mums to meet, relax, drink coffee and eat cake, pretty ideal in our books ☕️

Parent Health Hub founder, Alice, is going to be joining to chat about why parents can experience those creeping feelings of overwhelm. As usual, Alice will be relating this to our nervous system and helping Mums understand the neurological reasons that parents commonly experience overwhelm.

Understanding the background to these feelings can really help to reduce overwhelm, manage it and all importantly address that ⛔️MUM GUILT⛔️ that can also crawl in behind it.

Head over to The Mum Club Jersey to book one of the last spots available via the link in their bio.

📆 Wednesday 5th June
⏰ 10am- 12pm
📍 Ransoms Tearooms and Restaurant

24/05/2024

☕️ COFFEE CLUB MUMS ☕️

Introducing our fabulous guest speaker for our June Coffee Club: Understanding Overwhelm... 💕

Alice Vincenti is the Founder and Director of the , a platform dedicated to helping parents manage emotional challenges like overwhelm, frustration, outbursts, and dysregulation.

Alice is an Occupational Therapist, specialising in paediatric and perinatal care. Being a Mum of two, Alice recognised that there was a need for more support for parents' health. This led to the creation of the Parent Health Hub - to prioritise parents' wellbeing.

Alice says: "Our children develop and thrive best when their parents are at their optimum. However, being a parent can come with challenges. By letting the Parent Health Hub support mental health and wellbeing, parents are better equipped to prioritise everything else that is important in their lives. Because when parents are at their best, their children thrive."

Join us for coffee and cake as Alice shares her expertise to help us understand why we get those feelings of overwhelm and some top tips for dealing with them.

📆 Wednesday 5th June
⏰️ 10am - 12pm
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Find more info on this event and book your spot via the link in my bio 🫶

22/05/2024

This photo is nearly 5 years old. Willow was just 5 days old. I had absolutely no idea what I was doing or how to raise a child. All I knew was that I loved this tiny human more than anything and vowed to always do my best for her ❤️

Celebrating her birthday today has sent me down this rabbit hole: scrolling through photos of those early days and remembering how flipping hard it was. The sleep deprivation, learning how to breastfeed, figuring out her different cries, the poonamis, trying to work out how to get her to nap, not feeling like I'd achieved anything, becoming someone's mum and feeling like I'd lost myself. Did I mention the sleep deprivation? 😴

If you're in the thick of it right now, I just want to say that I see you and you've got this 🫶

Some of the best advice I was given in those early days was that no one else knows what they're doing either! I still need to remind myself this some days.

Thank you to those of you who've shared your parenting advice on my stories. Here are some of my faves:

💕 If you're worried about being a good mum, then you already are.

💕 Give yourself the same grace you would give your own mum.

💕 Every baby is different. It's not something you're doing / not doing.

💕 Trust your instincts. You know your baby best!

💕 Everything is a phase.

Got some advice you'd love to share with another mum? Feel free to pop it in the comments ⬇️

20/05/2024

🎉 OUR JUNE EVENTS ARE NOW LIVE 🎉

COFFEE CLUB: UNDERSTANDING OVERWHELM ☕️
📆 Wednesday 5th June
⏰️ 10am - 12pm
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🗣 founder Alice will help us to understand why we can feel so overwhelmed as mums

BIRTHDAY BRUNCH CLUB 🎂
📆 Monday 17th June
⏰️ 10am - 12pm
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🥂 Come and celebrate turning 3 with us!

WALKING CLUB
📆 Thursday 27th June
⏰️ 10am - 12pm
📍 Meeting outside
🥐 Enjoy a cuppa and a pastry while getting some vitamin D (and meeting new mum friends)

Hit the link in my bio for more info or to book your spot for any of the above events.

Feel free to DM me with any questions 🩷

14/05/2024

🥂 MAY GOODIE BAGS 🥂

Summer is calling, and our May Brunch goodie bags are sponsored by .

"Meet Eleanor. Light and bright, our bubbly rosé is one of strawberries and dreams. Overflowing with red summer fruits, this flight of fancy is not another glass of the usual.

Made from the finest handpicked Pinot Noir & Pinot Meunier grapes from our vineyard in Kent. Almost impossible to sip, so please try to savour."

I can't wait to see you on Thursday 💖

10/05/2024

EVERY. SINGLE. WEEKEND 🙈🤧😂

07/05/2024

We all need those mum mates we can laugh (and cry) with 🫶

Come and find yours at ✨️

Next week's Brunch Club has sold out, but our June events are launching really soon. Make sure your notifications are turned on ⏰️ so you don't miss out!

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01/05/2024

🌸 Maternal Mental Health Awareness Week 🌸

Motherhood is hard, but you are NOT alone.

I'm still working on fitting those pieces back together, and rediscovering myself.

Let's check in on one another and make sure our friends are OK. Like, REALLY OK.

My DMs are always open if you ever want to talk 🩷

28/04/2024

☕️ COFFEE CLUB MUMS ☕️

With just a couple of days to go until our Coffee Club: The First Aid Edit, let me introduce you to our Guest Speaker...

Tilly is one of St John Ambulance Jersey 's fabulous First Aid trainers. She will be giving us an introduction to topics like CPR for babies and children, choking and managing fevers🌡

St John Ambulance delivers first aid and mental health training to hundreds of local businesses and community groups around the island. They also offer full 3-hour courses if you, your partner, or anyone else who looks after your little one wants to do more in-depth training 👶

We're really looking forward to Tilly joining us at on Tuesday! Tickets for this Coffee Club have SOLD OUT but we'll be doing more through the year 👀

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26/04/2024

IT TAKES A VILLAGE... 👭

As some of you will know, I've been taken down by Covid this week (and definitely have NOT looked like this!) I was absolutely gutted to have to postpone our Brunch Club - the first time I've had to cancel an event since I started running 😔

But I just wanted to say THANK YOU. I've been overwhelmed by all of the love and support. So huge thanks to:

💕 Those of you who were booked to attend brunch on Wednesday - every one of you has been so kind and understanding.

💕 Those of you who have reached out to send get well wishes or to see if I'm OK

💕 To my husband for taking on the school drop off on his way to work (and to his boss for being so flexible)

💕 And - to my mum mates (and granny friends) who have rallied around helping with offers to do food shops, school pick-ups, looking after the girls for me while I've been feeling pretty useless.

I find it really hard to ask for help (or to accept it). I guess that comes from not having any family nearby, but it really does take a village to raise kids.

This is what community's all about - helping us to find our people. The ones who are there for you without even needing to ask 🩷

25/04/2024

💕 EXTRA TICKETS AVAILABLE 💕

Our April Brunch Club at has been rescheduled due to illness so it will now be on Wednesday 1st May (can you believe that's next week?!)

This means I have some extra tickets available if you'd like to join us!

Your £31 ticket includes:
🍳 A delicious brunch dish
☕️ Two hot drinks
🛍 Your signature TMC tote bag with goodies from &
👶 Small play area including award-winning toys from .europe
👭 A morning out to focus on YOU and meeting new friends

If you're feeling nervous about coming to an event, this is the perfect opportunity to take that first step and join us 🩷

The link to book is in my bio 🎟

22/04/2024

HOW IT STARTED vs HOW IT'S GOING ➡️

Throwback to 2021 - hosting my first event with my lovely friend , who has since set up , Darcey in the baby carrier and Willow (who was 2) off enjoying the toys.

No family here. No childcare. And I barely knew anyone as we'd only moved to Jersey months before. I'm sure people thought I was mad wanting to host these events with two children in tow, but I was desperate to help other mums find their village - while also finding mine 👭

Jump forward to 2024 - Willow's at school, Darcey's just turned 3, and I finally feel like I've found my place here. has been a huge part of that. I've found a way to be ME and not just Willow and Darcey's Mummy (although I love being that, too). I've met the most incredible and inspiring women; many of you have become friends. This community is here to help you meet your mum tribe too 🫶

I'd love to hear your TMC story. Tag a friend you've made at in the comments 👇




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19/04/2024

Them: Hey, how are you?

Me: I'm OK, just tired. You?

*repeats every single day*

Will we ever not be tired?!! 🥱😂

17/04/2024

Find those mum mates who just get you at 🫶

There really is no better feeling ✨️

One week to go until we brunch at and I can't wait to see you!

Tickets include:
🍳 A delicious brunch dish
☕️ Two hot drinks
🛍 Goodies from & PLUS your TMC tote bag
👭 Two hours to be YOU, enjoy the company of other women and make some new friends!

Who's coming? 🙋‍♀️

Click the link in my bio to grab your space 🩷

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