Bespoke Ceremonies Montana

28/01/2025

Hi Friends! I’m gearing up for my second hip surgery this season so that I can be ready for all the summer weddings! Please pardon any slow response times – I’ll be back to my usual self super soon ✨💕✨

23/01/2025

A Gatsby-Inspired Winter Elopement: Frigid Temps, Hot Love

When you think of a winter wedding, do you picture bundling up in layers and braving the snow? What if we reimagined that chilly scene with the glamour and glitz of the 1920s? A Gatsby-style elopement in mid-January turns the frosty Montana landscape into the perfect backdrop for a love story that’s timeless, elegant, and sizzling with romance.

Picture this:
You and your partner, dressed to the nines—perhaps you in a beaded gown that shimmers like ice and your love in a tailored velvet suit—standing against a backdrop of snow-draped trees. The air is cold enough to see your breath, but you’re warmed by the spark of your connection and the champagne awaiting you.

Frigid temperatures create the kind of cozy moments you’ll never forget—exchanging vows under blankets, holding hands to keep warm, and stealing kisses that feel all the more precious in the crisp air. With the magic of the 1920s as your muse, you can add vintage details like art deco florals, gilded accents, and an intimate jazz playlist to infuse your day with personality.

At Bespoke Ceremonies Montana, I specialize in creating personalized ceremonies that bring your unique love story to life. Whether your dream is a quiet elopement or a full-on 1920s-inspired celebration, I’ll help you craft a day that feels as intimate and bold as your love.

Let’s turn the frosty Montana winter into a season of bold choices, warm hearts, and unforgettable memories. If you're planning to get married in 2025, I’d love to help you make your wedding dreams come true.

Your adventure awaits—hot love and all. 🥂

21/01/2025

❄️✨ Love as bold as the Viking spirit, in a snowy forest haven! ✨❄️
Jake and Becky’s mid-January wedding at the Clark Fork Natural Area in Missoula, MT, embraced the magic of winter and the warmth of love. Surrounded by snow-draped trees and their closest family, this intimate ceremony was a heartfelt celebration of connection, creativity, and commitment.
💍 The Details:
* 🏔️ A Viking-inspired cloak and leather satchel paired with Becky’s bright embroidered gown and snow boots—a perfect blend of personal style and practicality.
* 🤲 A hand fasting ritual that included a hand-embroidered cord, blessed by everyone present—a truly communal and touching moment.
* ❄️ Snowflakes, laughter, and vows that brought sweet tears, even from their punk-hearted oldest child.
Jake and Becky’s love story, from meeting at a bar to crafting a life together, resonated throughout the day. Their personalized vows, woven with humor and nerdy charm, were framed by a unique hand fasting blessing and a final marriage benediction that reflected their shared values.
Their choice of venue, nestled in the heart of the city but brimming with natural beauty, mirrored their ability to find magic and significance in the everyday.
Special thanks to for capturing these moments!
Planning your own intimate, meaningful ceremony in Montana? Let’s create something uniquely yours! 💌 Visit the link in bio to learn more.

21/01/2025

❄️✨ Love as bold as the Viking spirit, in a snowy forest haven! ✨❄️
Jake and Becky’s mid-January wedding at the Clark Fork Natural Area in Missoula, MT, embraced the magic of winter and the warmth of love. Surrounded by snow-draped trees and their closest family, this intimate ceremony was a heartfelt celebration of connection, creativity, and commitment.
💍 The Details:
* 🏔️ A Viking-inspired cloak and leather satchel paired with Becky’s bright embroidered gown and snow boots—a perfect blend of personal style and practicality.
* 🤲 A hand fasting ritual that included a hand-embroidered cord, blessed by everyone present—a truly communal and touching moment.
* ❄️ Snowflakes, laughter, and vows that brought sweet tears, even from their punk-hearted oldest child.
Jake and Becky’s love story, from meeting at a bar to crafting a life together, resonated throughout the day. Their personalized vows, woven with humor and nerdy charm, were framed by a unique hand fasting blessing and a final marriage benediction that reflected their shared values.
Their choice of venue, nestled in the heart of the city but brimming with natural beauty, mirrored their ability to find magic and significance in the everyday.
Special thanks to for capturing these moments.
Planning your own intimate, meaningful ceremony in Montana? Let’s create something uniquely yours! 💌 Visit the link in bio to learn more.

15/01/2025

I am a joyful celebrant and inclusive wedding officiant that loves engaging couples in their own ceremonies by supporting them to craft personalized vows and/or rituals and involving their chosen community.

Are you coming to Montana and looking to buck tradition? Let’s work together to create your custom wedding ceremony that reflects your unique relationship.

Photo: RJFisher

10/01/2025

❄️✨ A love as warm as the fire that kept us cozy! ✨❄️
Sarah and Jeffrey’s late November wedding at in Superior, MT, was nothing short of magical. With a breathtaking mountain backdrop, a roaring fire to ward off the 13-degree chill, and their heartfelt vows, this intimate ceremony was a true celebration of love and faith.
💍 The Details:
* 🥾 Matching cowboy boots for a touch of Montana charm
* 📖 Thoughtfully chosen Bible verses woven into the ceremony
* 🔥 A crackling fire and snow-kissed champagne moments
* 🏔️ Stunning views to mark a fresh new beginning
These two brought together their love, faith, and a modern blended family of ten to inspire and model a healthy, gracious partnership. While their children awaited at home, this day was a serene and personal retreat for the couple—a memory they’ll share with their family through the incredible photos by .
If you’re dreaming of an intimate ceremony in Montana’s stunning landscapes, I’d love to help make it unforgettable. Visit my website through the link in bio to learn more about crafting your bespoke wedding ceremony! 💌

23/12/2024

I am so happy to continue offering three levels of wedding service to meet the desires of my diverse couples. The Brief and Sweet & Simple wedding services will see a price increase in the new year. Anchor you wedding date before Dec. 31 to secure the 2024 rate.

Reserve your date today!

19/12/2024

My heart is melting! Jackie and Sebby, who were married in November, just shared this on google reviews:

Audrey was absolutely incredible! I can’t recommend her enough as an officiant. From our initial Zoom meetings, where we discussed everything from the ceremony flow to the order of the procession and the vows, she was incredibly helpful and thoughtful. Audrey even worked with us to customize the poems in the ceremony, which was such a nice touch. She also provided us with tons of useful information about marriage licenses and the name-change process. On the big day, everything went smoothly despite the chilly weather. Audrey truly helped make our wedding day unforgettable!

Here’s what I wrote back:
Dear Jackie- I’m so thrilled to hear that you and Sebby will never forget your wedding day and that I was able to join in supporting the celebrations to be so smooth, despite the chill. The warmth shared by your family and friends balance out any memory I have of the crisp afternoon- which I’m sure is what you’ll carry forward as well. It was delightful to work with you and I wish you all the best with your upcoming studies and adventures. Thank you for taking the time to share your experience with others! Love Audrey

Are you planning a ceremony? Want someone to guide the process and help everything run smooth?

Be in touch today! Lock in 2024 rates while there’s still time :)

15/12/2024

Sweet & Simple: Your Perfect Ceremony Choice
As the year comes to a close, I want to extend my heartfelt thanks to all the incredible couples who made this year so special. It’s been an honor to witness and celebrate your love stories!
For those planning western weddings or elopements, I invite you to explore my Sweet & Simple ceremony option. This classic offering is designed to meet the most requested interest: a ceremony that’s “short and sweet”! Whether you’re planning a destination elopement or a large gathering, this service provides everything you need for a heartfelt, memorable moment.
Here’s what’s included for $480:
* Email, Zoom, and phone check-ins for simple logistics
* Support for custom vows (if desired)
* Options for unity rituals, readings, and community involvement
* A preview of your ceremony
* An approximately 10-minute ceremony that balances reverent ritual with joyful celebration
* Marriage license signing and submission
Rehearsal attendance is also available for an added fee.
Price Update for the New Year�Heads up! As of January 1st, the pricing for my services will be updated. If you’ve been considering booking, now is a great time to secure your spot at the current rate.
Thank you for trusting me to help shape such important moments in your lives. Here’s to another year of love, connection, and unforgettable celebrations!
Let’s make your ceremony Sweet & Simple—just what you want. 💍✨

Ready to book? Contact me at bespokeceremoniesmontana.com

Photos: Jennifer Vernarsky Photography

04/12/2024

So excited to be featured on the platform: Equally Wed, where couples can search a curated site to find LGBTQ+ INCLUSIVE WEDDING VENDORS + VENUES 💕✨💕

Equally Wed's vendors and venues solemnly pledge to treat their customers with respect and love, no matter their gender or orientation.

29/11/2024

Standing on two legs on rocks in cowgirl boots after driving three hours on twisty roads full of tourists is a pretty normal day at work for me. It's awesome!

What's not awesome? Osteoarthritis. This ski season, I’m having two hip surgeries to get my body ready for hiking again! This bionic babe will be back in full force in peak time to celebrate all the love in the Montana mountains!

How are you spending your ski season? Drop your dreams below!

18/11/2024

This is only the beginning…

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17/11/2024

This is only the beginning…

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09/11/2024

A taste of my Sweet and Simple Ceremony, captured magnificently at Pray Lake in Glacier National Park, by with photography by Norman Roberts of Fifth Photography.

Gwen and Michael eloped in Glacier NP this summer surrounded by loved ones. This was certainly a fun one as we adventured through the best landscape Montana ...

30/10/2024

New blog post today! Read all about this Montana-based LGBTQ+ inclusive wedding officiant creating heartfelt, personalized ceremonies that celebrate each couple’s unique love story. Join Tommy and Jake’s mountaintop wedding journey at Whitefish Mountain Resort, where love and community shine.

Montana-based LGBTQ+ inclusive wedding officiant creating heartfelt, personalized ceremonies that celebrate each couple’s unique love story. Join Tommy and Jake’s mountaintop wedding journey at Whitefish Mountain Resort, where love and community shine.